I have noticed that it is much easier for me to have conversations with men over women. I wonder if this is something that has resulted from years of stripping, which is why I have asked it here--or if maybe this is just an innate personality defect? I really don't have a 'before' to compare to, so though I want to assume that this is from stripping I just don't know, lol.
When talking to women, I am tense. I can feel myself being tense. I'm sure my body language would also reflect this, lol. It is soooo difficult for me too attempt to maintain eye contact with women. Also, I can't ever keep the conversation going. I don't ask the right questions, I don't have the right answers--its like my mind just goes blank. With men on the other hand it is like this switch in my brain goes off and I suddenly feel at ease and can keep the conversation going forever. Ultimately while talking to men I feel that I am in control of myself in the situation. It has happened twice now that I will initially meet the husband and we will have such an engaging, entertaining conversation that he will want to befriend me (and my family--and vice versa) but when I meet the wife I just completely make an absolute fool of myself, lol.
In your opinion, do you find it easier or harder to talk to the opposite sex?



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