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    hey guys. my alias is caramelsundae because i love to eat caramel sundaes! my stage name is Kendra. I think i look like a Kendra but my problem, or problems, is that I am a little scared of stripping.

    1. im scared of being noticed! i am 19 and in college, have you ever seen someone you've known from high school while working at a club? LOL

    2. my BF won't like it. instead of lying to him, i will probably break it because he said he doesn't want me to strip, and he would break up with me if he found out i did. that's the only way i can make fast money tho.

    however, i've done some reading on it. and me and my GF are seriously consdering it. i live close by a metro area in the South. I go to school, and the club won't be too far from it. I think i should go for it! what do you think huns?
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    Default Re: A little shy :-(

    - you'll definitely need to tell your bf. what kind of relationship would you guys have if you lied to him about something big like this?
    - we can't see what you look like at all from those pics.
    - i've only met one person in the club that i knew from my teenage years. it's always a possibility.









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    Default Re: A little shy :-(

    Welcome!

    It's definitely possible that you'll encounter people you know in the club. This is usually preventable by working far for home, but even that isn't foolproof.

    As for your boyfriend, like sunny said, you really ought to tell him. There are guys out there who are fine with stripping!

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    Default Re: A little shy :-(

    IA with everything Shana said. let me just add that I purposefully chose a place that isn't located close to my campus or my home because I don't want to run into anybody I know.

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    Thanks huns.

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    You prob will exentually run into someone you know. At least once. This is one of the reasons im planning on driving to another state Also consider, wigs, extension, dramatic makeup, they r good disguises, good luck

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    Thanks star. Im actually heading up there tomorrow to fill out an application with my friend that is interested. I can't wait! I'm nervous as hell but the chicks seem down to earth when i called the clubs. I really hope I'm liked. I plan to wear something casual. what do you think?

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    Default Re: A little shy :-(

    I would tell your boyfriend. Worse case scenario his friends happen to walk into where you're working and see you. It will be so much worse hearing it from his friends.

    As for being liked you're not there to be liked you're there to make money. If being liked is your first priority then enter a pageant and try to win Miss Congeniality. This is a job. It's not a job like any other but at least try to treat it like one. You're not there to make friends or socialize.
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    Default Re: A little shy :-(

    Definitely tell your boyfriend. Mine was a bit "eh" about the situation but I told him he'd be the first one to see all my new outfits, moves, etc. and he'd be the only one that actually gets to HAVE me at the end of the night... and that satisfied him for the most part, ha ha. Makes him feel good about himself!

    I'm shy also, and your age and in school. We seem to be in the same position! For being seen, chose one a little farther away. You might still see people you know, but if you disguise yourself well (as someone said) you may be able to slip by!

    And what others have said about friends... you're there for money! The others are competition. Keep to yourself and be civil to others, but don't be too friendly because girls may take advantage of you.

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