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    Default How do you dance???

    Meaning....are you a slow and sultry? a pole climbing acrobat? an ass clapping booty shakin kinda girl?? a "performer" (meaning you choreograph your stage time)??

    I kinda flit between slow and sultry, pole work and performance stuff...Just curious as to what kind of dancers are all on here.

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    I'm a lazy bitch. I just crawl around onstage and play with my tits and if it's a nude club flash my pussy.
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    I plead gravity limitations.
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    My "persona" is fast, entertaining, crazy pole trick girl Playful and naughty.
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    Like Chunk from the Goonies *truffle Shuffle*

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    Depends, I usually have a bitchy persona which helps keep me sane and keeps guys in check. So I dance how I feel...I can be slow and sensual, jerky and awkward, fast and calculating, or pop my booty on their lap.

    Depends on the song and my mood and what they're spending.
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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    Sexy & charismatic.. runway strut, lots of sexy poses, twirling around (lol), floorwork, and a dash of pole.

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    My coworkers used to call me "crirque de solie", and customers -always- pointed out that i looked like a spider when i was on the pole at work so i guess id say im acrobatic. I used to really hate the spider comment, lol, but i think i eventually learned to be okay with it.

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    thanks for all the replies girls. I guess I asked because Ive noticed that there are pretty much two kind of dancers in the new club im working at...theres the ass clapping booty shaking girls (Which there tends to be A LOOOOOOOOOOOTTTTTTT of them) and then theres pole acrobats....and Im kinda in the middle with the way I dance. I dont do that ass clapping booty shaking thing cause its just *NOT* my persona...Im a rocker chick....that doesnt mean i walk around on stage banging my head, but the ass clapping thing just isnt me....Ive actually had people try to tell me to change the way I dance and ill "make more money" but, i cant change into something im absolutely NOT....So I was curious as to what kinda of dancers were on here...and if you were the ass clapping booty shaking kind, what made you be that way....

    I definitely want to get a pole to practice on in my home.....I want to become one of those pole acrobats like i used to be.....I fell a few times and injured myself pretty badly so now im kinda afraid of the pole....I do a *FEW* nifty tricks but other then that, I tend to stay away from it.

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    Definitely the pole acrobat- I've been told before that I look like I think the stage is hot lava. I work at a lapdance club, so honestly not a lot of stage tips- If you make more than $30 off a show it's an insanely good night. So I figure I may as well attempt to get a workout in while I'm up there.

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    I don't make money from stage, I work the pole, climb, couple of basic tricks, look sexy....

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    I tend to do lots more floor work because I'm not so skilled on the pole YET, I guess when I'm dancing alot of the time I try to channel this energy of like, enjoying the juiciest, most delicious cheeseburger + an amazing full body massage + sexy teasing. Let me break it down.

    The cheeseburger part I find helps my facial expression stay more "MMMMMMMM" and orgasmic, rather than serious, nervous, concentrating hard, etc.
    The full body massage part helps me to keep my muscles relaxed, not hike my shoulders, not move too fast, etc.
    Sexy teasing kind of speaks for itself but this is a big one- guys like to see you engage them. If you tease by booty clapping, hell yeah. If you tease by crawling, hell yeah. If you tease by making eye contact, throwing your top, touching yourself, doing pole tricks, yawning, winking, twitching, itching, blinking, more power to you.

    Some of the feedback I've gotten from customers that enjoyed my stage performance: "You have just the right amount of movement" "You know how to move without doing too much" "When you're cleaning the pole and look over your shoulder all sexy that put me through the roof" "don't worry about the pole, guys like to get a visual of fucking you"
    So the first two: guys seem to be impressed when you can show a wide range of movement but not too dance-y! This was the first lesson I learned, for the most part (keep in mind this is all speculation, generalization, trial-and-error and any of my techniques work because I'm feeling good about them, but the best thing you can do is to have techniques that you personally feel sexy and confident with) guys don't come to watch you dance dance, they come to watch you in your "element", feeling yourself and feeling sexy and getting into it. You can repeat certain moves, as simple or straightforward as they may seem, several times during your stage performance and they won't notice because they just see you having a good time. So to the horny male mind, chick on stage + moving slowly + flashy lights = she's just SO orgasmic and ecstatic that time is standing still.

    Next thing: in regards to the looking over the shoulder. Guys like to forget that we're doing this as a job. when we cast a furtive glance, they interpret that as "i'm doing something naughty and oops! you caught me!" so polishing the pole + looking over your shoulder OR taking your top off and covering your boobies with your hands and appearing surprised when you let a nipple show OR letting yourself sink to the floor and pantomiming touching yourself, etc. etc., they feel like they're "catching" you in a candid moment.

    Now, the visual of fucking. We all know the position of doggy style, lowering your upper half to the floor and hiking your booty way up in the air. Or the position of being on your knees and doing any up-and-down movement, slow or fast. Guys are interested in this. Twirling on the pole, although impressive, oftentimes may fall into more girl-hot than guy-hot. Granted, some guys are VERY into pole tricks. So to make sure you're appealing to both, make sure your body is on display and looks sexy while you're up there (sounds obvious but be mindful of how your arms, stomach, butt, feet, everything, looks in any given pose.)

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    I do a bit of each depending on my mood honestly lol. I prefer to stay slow and sultry though if possible.





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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    Customers and other dancers say I'm "slow and sensual" while I'd love pole tricks its just not me .... yet. I need to build up muscle being a stick thin 100lbs girl... but slow and sensual gets me lots of compliments and in a mostly black club I give them something different people say its refreshing. We get alot of white girls who attempt the booty stuff (most fail) and we get alot of females who typically will talk dirt on my dances and rock/alternative music choices but its always nice to have the other girls who tell those women off & say how sexy I make it look :-)

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    Like I'm a damn goddess, lol! I vary it up depending on the crowd. Slow and sultry, or faster with lots of ass shaking and popping. If it's super slow I just walk around the pole and smile. I can't do a lot of pole tricks due to my back still being sort of jacked up from a car accident last year but I usually throw a couple in here and there. But no matter what I'm doing the attitude and facial expression remain the same, I'm always smiling and looking like I feel sexy as hell and am having a great time, even if I'm bloated and on the rag and have a zit on my butt and am not making decent money and would like nothing better than to lob hand grenades into the audience or maybe just pistol whip a few of them until they look like uncooked meatloaf... no matter what, I don't show it. Every girl has her own style that works for them.

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    i am a very sensual dancer and every dance of mine is personal. im not the routine, choreographed lap dance type of girl, nor booty popper.

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    im a mix between slow and sensual + booty shaking.
    i channel into my persona; FALYNN. its like for me not only is dancing my mula $$$, or exercise, its my way to escape everynight from my daily problems. its a way for me to clear my head. its a way for me to think, and get back in tune with myself, a way to remember im still a woman and im still sexy and independent.
    so like i said i think im 60% sensual and 40% booty dancing. ive gotten lots of compliments on my booty dancing to. it CAN BE ghetto and uncoordinated, but if you really know how to control your muscles and movements down to a T w/ added move then its sexy and amazing to watch.
    most girla just go on a ass shaking rampage looking awkward, wild, and crazy.technique technique technique.

    im not much of a pole girl. i know a few basic , and when i say basic i mean basic spins, and pirouettes. im a floor work queen and thats my shit.
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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    im a mix between slow and sensual + booty shaking.
    i channel into my persona; FALYNN. its like for me not only is dancing my mula $$$, or exercise, its my way to escape everynight from my daily problems. its a way for me to clear my head. its a way for me to think, and get back in tune with myself, a way to remember im still a woman and im still sexy and independent.
    so like i said i think im 60% sensual and 40% booty dancing. ive gotten lots of compliments on my booty dancing to. it CAN BE ghetto and uncoordinated, but if you really know how to control your muscles and movements down to a T w/ added move then its sexy and amazing to watch.
    most girla just go on a ass shaking rampage looking awkward, wild, and crazy.technique technique technique.

    im not much of a pole girl. i know a few basic , and when i say basic i mean basic spins, and pirouettes. im a floor work queen and thats my shit.
    scared money makes no money

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    Default Re: How do you dance???

    When I was dancing, my dancing style was a hybrid of pole antics (most antics were intermediate antics for the most part) and booty antics. I would switch to the slow and sensual mode when I was starting to get exhausted.





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