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    Default How to stop a show if he's run out of cash... (MGF)

    I've looked around and couldn't find anyone who's asked this yet... and I guess it sounds like a strange question, as most pvt shows will stop automatically when someone's currency runs dry. But on MGF you set your own price for a certain amount of minutes. I did my very first pvt show tonight and had no idea what I was doing, so I accepted $10 for 10 minutes (since it was non-nude and I didn't want to pressure myself to be amazing). Seemed worth it to get the experience, whatever. But then I look at the timer and it's been 12 minutes.. and he's still right in the middle of things.

    I give myself props for stopping to point out the time and I let him know that I wish we could keep going, so he puts $9 more in (he said it's all he had left) and I make a mental note: at 19 minutes I end it. Well... it goes to 20, 21, 22.. I think he finished at about 24 minutes and it was cool because he said how into me he is... but I feel bad for not sticking to my guns.

    How would you handle it? How do you do it when it's totally up to you? Is it really just as simple as stopping mid-moan, sitting up, straightening your hair and smiling, "Sorry, out of time. Unless you have more money..." Bah it seems so awkward. Please assist.

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    Default Re: How to stop a show if he's run out of cash... (MGF)

    Do just that. Or give him a 2-minute warning. You do not owe him free minutes!

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    try the "omg brb!" method that i use when I want to leave but not get bad ratings... i pretend 2 hear a noise and looked panic'ed and then turn around and then close the camera and type "brb some1 just came home". then i go away from the keyboard for 5 minutes. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by TeenageAnnie View Post
    try the "omg brb!" method that i use when I want to leave but not get bad ratings... i pretend 2 hear a noise and looked panic'ed and then turn around and then close the camera and type "brb some1 just came home". then i go away from the keyboard for 5 minutes. LOL
    YES. I do this all the time. Plus it adds to the sexy "OOOH she might get caught" factor heheheh.

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    Default Re: How to stop a show if he's run out of cash... (MGF)

    lol that's actually a great idea XD

    I know I don't owe anyone free time. Think the nerves got to me with it being my first show. I gotta inject myself with some damn confidence and keep in mind what I'm doing this for. I get so focused on being liked that I just forget.... probably a popular newbie mistake.

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    I know because I've really struggled with being too nice on cam, in the club, and other situations.

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    You give them inch they will take a yard. Seriously, almost all of them will try to haggle you for more time. I just find a polite way to say "oh no! Looks like we're out of time. Thanks so much for an amazing time. Can't wait to see you again!!" Or something similar will a huge smile, wink, maybe even blow him a kiss. That's when I hit the end button. Then Adios!

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    I just slowly sit up, smile and say, "It looks like we're out of time. Since you look like you're not ready to go yet would you like to add some more time?" Half of the time they say they'll finish up on their own and beg for one last look. I giggle like I think they were kidding, tell them they're naughty, naughty boys and I hope to see them again soon, then close out.

    If they do say they'd like to re-up I suggest that we get the same amount of time again, or a little longer, "so we don't run into this again and have to stop all the fun action" I wait for the payment and don't show anything until I get confirmation. If it takes too long I just end the show. Sometimes it's enough that you're still there on cam for them to keep wanking without paying you.

    Though they like to pretend we're there for their sparkling personalities, they know it's a business transaction and the ones you want to keep are the ones who won't fault you for charging for your time.


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    Give a man an inch and he takes a mile.. always remember this... I don't care anymore, I just say.. whoops!! times up.. gotta go honey.. more shows to do . have a great day.. and i end the show... no if's ands or buts... your time is valuable.. and non nude or nude.. they are paying for your TIME!

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    I've looked around and couldn't find anyone who's asked this yet... and I guess it sounds like a strange question, as most pvt shows will stop automatically when someone's currency runs dry. But on MGF you set your own price for a certain amount of minutes. I did my very first pvt show tonight and had no idea what I was doing, so I accepted $10 for 10 minutes (since it was non-nude and I didn't want to pressure myself to be amazing). Seemed worth it to get the experience, whatever. But then I look at the timer and it's been 12 minutes.. and he's still right in the middle of things.

    I give myself props for stopping to point out the time and I let him know that I wish we could keep going, so he puts $9 more in (he said it's all he had left) and I make a mental note: at 19 minutes I end it. Well... it goes to 20, 21, 22.. I think he finished at about 24 minutes and it was cool because he said how into me he is... but I feel bad for not sticking to my guns.

    How would you handle it? How do you do it when it's totally up to you? Is it really just as simple as stopping mid-moan, sitting up, straightening your hair and smiling, "Sorry, out of time. Unless you have more money..." Bah it seems so awkward. Please assist.

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    Default Re: How to stop a show if he's run out of cash... (MGF)

    Don't forget that if you cam on MGF using "new live chat" as opposed to "classic live chat," the video chat automatically disconects once the amount of minutes you put in has elapsed. This is why I love new live chat! The background is bright white and is a little harsh on the eyes compared to the black background of classic chat, but having the feauture of automatically ending your shows for you once the timer runs out is so worth it. This way the guy can't get mad at you if he fails to finish within the agreed upon time.

    If for whatever reason I neglect to switch to new live chat and I notice the guy is about to run over I will "cum" and then be like, wow, that was great, hope you enjoyed it too, have a good day! If the guy were to tell me he's not finished and could I please stay to get him off (which has actually never happened using this method), I'd politely remind him that I have already finished and so is our session, but if he'd like to contribute for another block of time I'd love to try for round two In clothed chat it is a little trickier but I've been pretty upfront if the guy is going over. I just say that I'd love to continue to stay and chat with him but there are a lot of other guys on here who want my attention and it's not fair for me to ignore my friends and potential contributors. If he'd like for me to stay and compensate me for my time I would be glad to, but if not it's time for me to give my attention to other contributors. That dialogue also works Really well for guys in free text chat who want to monopolize your time because they are lonely but have no intention of contributing for your services.

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    wish i had the confidence that isobelwren has, unfortunatly i dont cause i am too nice and dont know how to be assertive, so my omg brb! method will have to do lmao

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    Quote Originally Posted by TeenageAnnie View Post
    wish i had the confidence that isobelwren has, unfortunatly i dont cause i am too nice and dont know how to be assertive, so my omg brb! method will have to do lmao
    Actually, in the future your gonna need a set of balls. what are they gonna do if you tell them the time is up? spank you? This is buisness not a friendship. Dont worry you will get jaded eventually...LOL

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    Wish I were jaded now lol. I was just reading the thread about not being cheap and I'm kicking myself. It's all so true.. and I understand it when I'm here, but when it's just me and the webcam and some guy, it's like my mind goes blank. The truth is I've always been shy and still have no confidence in being "sexy" - I just feel awkward and don't know what to do. I know one might then wonder "WHY THE F ARE YOU DOING CAM??" but I'm seriously determined to break out of that damn shell and cross over into the dark side. X3

    I hate feeling awkward on cam because I end up looking for reassurance in the dudes (well, still only had that one show and one time on MFC so far) and I just get the feeling those are NOT the hands wherein I should be placing my self-worth. Had any of you ladies felt totally unsexy/awkward when you first started? And how did you get over it? (Should I make this a new topic or is it okay to keep asking more here?)

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChickJeebus View Post
    Wish I were jaded now lol. I was just reading the thread about not being cheap and I'm kicking myself. It's all so true.. and I understand it when I'm here, but when it's just me and the webcam and some guy, it's like my mind goes blank. The truth is I've always been shy and still have no confidence in being "sexy" - I just feel awkward and don't know what to do. I know one might then wonder "WHY THE F ARE YOU DOING CAM??" but I'm seriously determined to break out of that damn shell and cross over into the dark side. X3

    I hate feeling awkward on cam because I end up looking for reassurance in the dudes (well, still only had that one show and one time on MFC so far) and I just get the feeling those are NOT the hands wherein I should be placing my self-worth. Had any of you ladies felt totally unsexy/awkward when you first started? And how did you get over it? (Should I make this a new topic or is it okay to keep asking more here?)

    I was definitely more awkward and had no confidence when I started. I got into a great forum and got to know some girls whose confidence levels were admirable. I began to watch other girls and it was easy to see: happy = confident = success. So, I just act happy. All day. Happy happy happy.

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    lol great advice, good thing I smile when I'm nervous. XD

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    I have done many many time block bookings. I have had one bad rating, and that was a guy who booked for 5 min and I was nice/stupid enough to stay for ten. After that I also refused 5 min shows, 10 is my minimum. What I do is 75% ish in I start to really egg them on, about how I want them to wank that cock for me and spunk all over me, etc. They oblige. :-D
    I appreciate that the op was doing non nude, I'm just chucking my experience of block shows in there. :-D

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    Oh man I was definitely trying, lol. He wanted to be humiliated (I told him to direct me since I had no idea what to say and he was pretty good at it XD)... it was so weird to go from "You can never have me, you don't deserve me you pig" to telling him to finish himself off. Haha, I hope to look back on this time period of my life and laugh my ass off once I've got the hang of things.

    I just thought of something very reassuring. The intro process to this sort of work is definitely uncomfortable and slightly horrifying, but at least those 'beginner mistakes' don't include a package of STDs or an unwanted pregnancy. Camming may be the safest way possible to come out of your sexy shell!

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    If it's a domination type show I just get things rolling with something like "oh I guess you have been reasonably obedient, you can make your sad self come" followed by "hurry up, wank it harder, do you think I have nothing better to do than watch you playing with your winkie?! *yawn* oh well done you disgusting pervert". Obviously it all depends on exactly what sort of show you are doing. :-D

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