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    i don't think we've had a discussion on this in awhile...hope i'm not repeating things unnecessarily.

    how do you feel about limits? there seem to be a few different philosophies on big box camsites...there are the top girls who basically do vanilla, no anal or squirting, etc. there are the girls who do everything under the sun (anal, gaping, ass to mouth, squirting, shooting rainbows out of their ass, etc.), sometimes ALL in a 5 minute gold show. in chatzy the other day we were talking about heel fucking as a limit...as in, no fucking way am i tearing up my vagina with something unsanitary just to get this asshole off.

    i'm not so much curious about what your limits are (well, i kind of am), as much as...how did you arrive at the limits you have? how do you balance offering a wide variety of things to interest different types of customers with saying no to things because they make you uncomfortable/it's too much of a hassle/etc.? do you find limits empowering?

    personally i have a lot of limits...and i love having the freedom to have limits. but sometimes i get tired of turning away/pissing off customers. it's empowering sometimes though. i absolutely hate gagging - i find it triggering and degrading - so i don't do it. i stopped doing anal with toys except during long gold shows because it's just not worth the hassle for a typical private or exclusive. i don't use huge toys or a lot of different toys because i'm allergic to a lot of things so i stick to small or average-sized glass. i do shoot rainbows out of my ass, but only in 2+hr exclusives, bb there are a lot of things i'll do in real life with someone i care about - like deepthroating or anal - that i just hate doing on cam or with toys, so i don't. one of the things i appreciate about limits is that...it creates an environment with a customer where they have to acknowledge in some sense that i am not a robot - that i won't do things i'm not comfortable with. for example, i've stopped faking squirting...and i have guys who will pay to stay a few minutes longer and see me cum for real because they prefer that. sometimes they're asshats about it and rate me a 1 because they get into private and demand gagging/deepthroating when my profile clearly states i don't - but sometimes they're pretty sweet and respectful about it.

    but at the same time, i do get a lot of requests for a few of the things i have limits about (especially anal and gagging). it makes me wonder how girls who offer everything handle it. or how girls who offer fewer fetishes or don't do hardcore/pussy fucking shows handle it (because i'd be totally destitute if i didn't do hardcore shows - that's where i make most of my money). but if i were deepthroating 10 inch silicone dildos and making my ass gape all day long, this job would so not be worth it to me. i don't think there's anything wrong with that - i love that some people can make that their niche - but i find it really interesting how people end up in different niches based on limits/fetishes.

    i think that's the point at which i personally draw the line - there are some things that you just cannot pay me $5/min to do. i'd seriously rather work in food service than do a lot of apparently common fetishes on cam. thank god for the freedom to say no!


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    I have limits so don't feel alone
    Mine are:

    No gaggling (rarely ever do bjs on cam so maybe once a year lol)
    No spitting ( spitting on tits seems to be a crowd pleasure but I just can't get with the program)
    No anal ( have done it with one or two members on cam but they were long time 20 min privates 3 times a day types)
    No fisting ( never will)
    No period play or Maybe( ok this one I'm open to. yes it seems gross but hell I'm a woman and it's not something I can control. I hate missing out on money for a week or having to run a bunch of raffles to make up for it) It's the one time where my money gets weird. Still on AW they are open to it and I may just do a show with it. To add yes I will want to scoop your eyes out with a rusty screwdriver and afterwards hug you like a teddy bear that has those buttons for eyes missing. <--I'm 100% emotionally unstable on the flow so maybe being off cam for a week is a blessing in disguise.
    No vomit ( never ever ever will do this- I would rather saw my legs off and leave bloody puss filled stumps behind) ( I have a really bad phobia around vomiting so I haven't actually done it since I was maybe 8 ) I'm the person that cries like a bitch and prays to any god that would listen to not get sick.
    No urine ( if I could rock this in a way that was easy to do without a mess then fine but I can't seem to figure out how much urine is going to come out and I'd hate for a serious blunder to make me have to throw out a $2200 bed. No way.
    No Submissive shit - Can't be a sub in any way shape or form. I tried it on a phone call once and I nearly wanted to run in the bathroom and throw a belt over my neck and get to "hanging out" on my shower rod. It felt that bad to me.

    After posting that I wonder how the hell do I still make money? lol


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    I think finding our limits isn't so much a conscious thing as a feeling thing...somehow I'm aware when a sexy show turns into just a freak show. I won't be a performing seal or an object of curiosity but I can't say where that line is because some of the things I do could be seen by the customer that way, when I don't myself.

    It's all to do with our own past experiences and beliefs about what is right or wrong too, and whether we think we might hurt ourselves by performing a certain act.

    I was fine with gagging until I had very sore throat for a day or two afterwards one time, and now I'm more careful. I do very little anal because I find it difficult. Toys I have no problem with and using fruit & veg too, except that got uncomfortable so I've dropped it. Watersports I wouldn't bother me but I always go before I cam, and I don't know how people manage hardsports, and it's really not my thing. I would squirt if I could but again that's heading into freakshow territory for me because of the curiosity element rather than purely sexual. I play with wax but I won't use it on my most sensitive areas and I said no to the guy who wanted me to try putting a chair leg inside myself despite telling him it was physically impossible as it was very thick and blunt! I don't smoke but I have smoked in shows. When they tell me to put a toy further into myself I explain that it won't go any further, and I keep to the speed that feels comfortable for me.
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    Yeah, I get where you're coming from with this. I love anal in real life, but I just plain won't do it on cam. I tell the customers this too. Most understand, but some get all Y U NO BUTTFUCK 4 ME BB PLZ. It just makes me laugh, honestly.

    When I first started camming, I had no clue what I was doing, and I had this sense of urgency when I entered a private, like I *had* to please some asshole at all costs. When I got a bad rating, I would blame it on myself, when I didn't do anything wrong. I used to do anal, roleplay, whatever.

    Now that I've been camming a while, I only offer what I'm comfortable with. Toy shows, blowjob shows, and certain fetishes I'm very familiar with. My gold shows are the variations of the same. At one point, when I offered everything, I just sat down and said to myself, "Hey, if I don't want to do this shit, I don't have to. I don't owe these guys anything. Hell, me talking to them is a bonus." If there's one thing that camming has done for me, it's been giving me a sense of self-confidence. So yes, I think my limits have empowered me greatly.

    The things I decided I wouldn't do, I don't do mostly because of personal comfort levels, or my own anxiety levels. For instance, I do a lot of role play and different fetishes in videos that I would NEVER do on cam. Since I have pretty bad social anxiety, there's something about being put 'on the spot', even if I know what I'm doing, that just terrifies me and makes me want to end the session altogether. But if I'm just recording myself, I can edit, I have time to prepare, I'm relaxed, and I do better. I don't do any role play on cam at all, and I also don't do domination, which I love to do on video. Just because I know I'd perform poorly, and despite the amount of assholes, I want to give the good paying guys the best show possible.

    Same with the things I'm not comfortable with on cam for other reasons-- anal, atm, gaping, being a hardcore submissive, etc. I don't say no because I would never do these things. I say no because if and when I like to do these things, I want to do them with someone I love and trust, not on cam. In fact, I am a pretty involved switch in the real-life bedroom, and I love being on both sides of the d/s coin. I guess, in short, my limits allow me to draw a line between my job and my personal sex life, which (although some might not see any difference) I like to keep quite separate.





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    i've loved reading everyone's responses. i really feel you on "after reading all that, how the hell do i still make money?" cherryblossoms...lol! sometimes i feel like i say no a LOT. and i wonder how i still make money.

    Quote Originally Posted by maryjaynexo View Post
    The things I decided I wouldn't do, I don't do mostly because of personal comfort levels, or my own anxiety levels. For instance, I do a lot of role play and different fetishes in videos that I would NEVER do on cam. Since I have pretty bad social anxiety, there's something about being put 'on the spot', even if I know what I'm doing, that just terrifies me and makes me want to end the session altogether. But if I'm just recording myself, I can edit, I have time to prepare, I'm relaxed, and I do better. I don't do any role play on cam at all, and I also don't do domination, which I love to do on video. Just because I know I'd perform poorly, and despite the amount of assholes, I want to give the good paying guys the best show possible.

    Same with the things I'm not comfortable with on cam for other reasons-- anal, atm, gaping, being a hardcore submissive, etc. I don't say no because I would never do these things. I say no because if and when I like to do these things, I want to do them with someone I love and trust, not on cam. In fact, I am a pretty involved switch in the real-life bedroom, and I love being on both sides of the d/s coin. I guess, in short, my limits allow me to draw a line between my job and my personal sex life, which (although some might not see any difference) I like to keep quite separate.
    this all day! you put into words some stuff i had trouble verbalizing...especially separating work/personal life, why it's empowering, and how anxiety plays into it. for me i have so much anxiety around certain sex acts that i'm really not comfortable doing them unless it's with someone i'm very close to...and even then, sometimes i still get anxious. (plus just straight up social anxiety on top of it.) it's just not worth it to spend the time working in a high-anxiety state.

    i think there's still a part of me that has a hard time shaking the "this person is paying $x/min, that's a lot of money, it's my job to make them happy" mindset - along with the fact that people pleasing is just my personality. but i'm working on it. i've gotten a lot better about it over the last year or two...but i still get insecure sometimes, especially when things are slow.

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    I'm not much of a people pleaser, at least where men are concerned.

    To be honest I didn't have much difficulty arriving at 'limits' as far as physical acts go. I don't do anal because I've never tried it, on or off cam and don't feel the desire to start now. I don't squirt because, well, I don't squirt and don't feel like faking it. I also don't do anything on cam that I'd personally (operative word, personally) be embarrassed about having out there. For me, that means no bathroom stuff, racial abuse or blood play. I think arriving at 'physical acts' limits wasn't an issue because it never occurred to me that not offering those things would hinder my $$$$. I approach the issue in the same way as I do when I encounter guys who wanted a chica with ginormous tits. That's not me, so if that's what you want, seek elsewhere son. *shrug*

    Maybe it's a matter of the type of guys who are attracted to my profiles, but the guys who want 'rainbows out the ass', more extreme shows tend to be my cheapest customers, who feel they deserve the world for the price of a ten min show (with a discount for me bb?). My best guys, the ones I enjoy the most, who visit me the most and book the longest shows don't care about any of that. We do ish that's mutually enjoyable, and it's a wholly symbiotic interaction. I have a few guys who visit other chicas when they want anal, but they always come back to me when they want the type of show I offer, so it's all good. If I found that my income was massively affected by not offering the things I choose not to do, I'd probably re-assess whether camming was right for me.

    The only limits I ever struggled with have to do with me respecting my time, and demanding that my guys do the same. That accomplishment took me a minute, but I conquered it successfully over time. I lost a few customers as I gained that skill and I banned a few more who refused to respect my boundaries. It was worth it.

    I don't feel morally superior because I don't do extreme acts. If I loved anal, racial abuse play, peeing, huge toys etc I would do it. I know that's not where you're going with this thread Tiny but I wanted to put that out there, as this issue does come up from time to time. I do what works for me, and luckily there are guys out there who want what I offer. . The beauty of camming lies in the fact that this tenet really does hold true for each of us. Whatever niche or flavor of camming we occupy, as long as we rock it there will be guys who are into it, and willing to pay for the pleasure of sharing it with us. :-)

    What I do think is important is positioning ourselves in such a way as to reach the type of guys who want what we offer. I could never use mfc, for example, as those guys are not the type of customer I want. Over the years I've had a few customers who were also heavy users of mfc, and I ended up banning most of them. A guy expecting that I'll drop whatever I'm doing the moment he messages me to chat with him for free just isnt gonna happen. Full stop.

    Wicked thread Tiny, I'm loving reading the responses!

    peace and $$$$$$$$


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    I do just about everything lol. The only things I wont do are underage/incest stuff, scat, vomit and I only do pee on pre booked indy shows, because Im not getting a SM suspension for a 2 minute pee show, you know? Despite the fact that I do nearly everything a girl can do, I always still have guys trying to push the few limits I have. I must get at least one email a week asking me to do a scat video/show! It pisses me off when they're like "but why?" "why won't you do XYZ????" "Just for me? Once?"

    Like NO. My limits are my limits and I won't cross them for any amount of money or begging!

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    I do anything I am comfortable with at the time.

    In general i don't do
    Puking (ever)
    Scat (ever)
    Pain
    Taking humiliation
    Anything to do with animals (EVER!)
    Big toys
    DP
    Anal toys
    Period play
    Deep throat

    I will play with nipple clamps, attempt to get a dildo as far in my mouth/ pussy as possible IF I WANT TO AT THE TIME, use my fingers to (pretend) anal play, take some level of domination if it's instigated by me i.e. "yeah baby call me a bitch and tell me what to do!". The others at some point I may be flexible with depending on my mood, the rapport with the guy, the site rules etc. My big, massive, superhoosive NO WAYS are animals or doing/ talking about doing something to someone who hasn't consented (I.e. guy fucking his wife while she's asleep etc). I don't really have a problem with incest, underage etc, but as they're against the rules on most sites i tend to steer away from those convos.
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    I try to make it a point to not do anything on cam I don't enjoy or think is sexy. Of course there are exceptions. Ex: I'm not personally turned on by sph but it's a fun and easy show to me so I do it. I like to think that when I'm in a show, I'm usually more concerned about my orgasm than theirs (maybe this isn't entirely true--their orgasm means the show is over, that I care about). And my guys like that about me. That's what I'm selling. So when someone asks me to do something I'm not comfortable with, I explain my cam philosophy to them and overwhelmingly most are understanding.
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    I don't do:
    Animals/little kids (I am comfortable with 15+ when I can get away with it, I was sexual then)
    Scat (unless pre booked voyeur occasionally, timing is a bitch lol)
    Pain other than some slapping and spanking, maybe some clothes pegs but I can't have them on for long
    Squirting, as I don't. Unless of course they insist. ;-)
    I don't do DP with toys, won't fit. Closest I do is toy in one, fingers in the other.
    I can't do big toys or fist (too tight).

    I don't mind random insertions so long as they fit and are clean, smooth and safe. Course ass it a bit different.
    I am phasing out anal with toys because I don't enjoy it.

    I offered more when I first started than I do now. I was eager to please everyone, but hey you can't please everyone!
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    I don't do:

    - Incest/pedo/bestiality roleplay of any kind. ever.
    - Piss/shit/vomit/blood
    - Can't squirt, and I seldom do toy shows at all anymore unless they're spending $$$ (yay MFC)
    - Used to do anal w/ small butt plug or one finger only, but I don't think I'm gonna do that anymore, not worth my time.
    - No non-toy insertion
    - No ATM
    - No fisting or more than 2 fingers
    - Big toys (I'm not packin' a hallway in my panties)

    That's what comes to mind for now. But I do a lot of fetishes, so I'm not vanilla by any means. Though it's been pretty cool for me on MFC, because literally almost all I do is strip and dance, and financial dom. On SM I'd have to do like 20 damn pvts and dildo myself over and over, fuck that shit! Now if they want any kind of toy play, they better be busting out some serious tokens.
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    Things I don't do:

    - Vomming (I am NOT cleaning up the mess on my bedsheets)
    - Scat/ass to mouth (ew)
    - Pee (I did a pee show my first night cause I'd always been curious, but I don't think it's worth the risk of suspension)
    - Rapeplay (I'm kink positive, but any guy who fantasises about raping girls is a problem and I'm not encouraging him)
    - Pain (I have low pain threshholds)
    - Squirting (I can't)
    - Animals/kids (ew)
    - Big toys in my ass (it's way too tight)
    - Fisting (again, way too tight)

    Things I do do:
    - Anal
    - DP
    - General kink
    - Racial humiliation
    - Heel in pussy
    - Anorexia (this one makes me sad as hell for the fetish existing, but better a guy wank off over me than an actual anorexic)
    - Xenia Onatopp roleplay o.O

    I've only had one pvt where I felt so uncomfortable I called time on it. The guy entered my chat and instantly started barking orders and kept on going with a constant stream of fairly abusive shit. I put up with it for a few minutes until he told me to tear my stockings. At that point I dropped character, told him he'd need to pay about 20 bucks more for me to do that and booted him from my room.



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    Things I don't do:

    -vomiting
    -scat
    -fisting
    -rape play ( I just cant do something that happens to people in real life and traumatizes them)
    -animals
    -underage
    -squirting (I wish I could but I cant)

    Random insertions I'm okay with as long as they're comfortable and I put a condom on them..lol

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    Forgot to mention that I don't do animals/ rape play either. Animals is an obvious no, rape fantasy is actually something that turns me on IRL when Im masturbating off cam, but I would be very uncomfortable acting it out for a guy. I only like it as a private fantasy!

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    For me it's about anything that could come back to bite you in the ass big time later or painful.

    -No racial slurs, they can say whatever they want to me, but I personally never use slurs of any sort and you damn sure are not going to have me say them on cam and chance a recording of it.
    -No piss/scat/period play. Now I do have clips of toilet trips, but they do not show face or the actual evacuation process.
    -No odd insertions. If it isn't made to go in there it isn't happening. I also don't use my pussy toys for anal.
    -No vomit. Ewww...and ow.
    -No underage RP. I will talk about my experiences, losing virginity, etc, but I will not pretend to be underage.
    -No beastiality or bringing up my children in any way sexual. This is an automatic ban no questions asked.
    -No fisting. So not willing to hurt myself and i've learned that when most guys ask what's your biggest toy? Well not big enough for you.

    Semi-willing:
    -Push the incest boundaries.
    -ATM you're gonna send over a huge tip along with a long show.


    Now I agree that my best spending and most enjoyable guys are the ones that say "just do what you want to get off" and they actually mean it.

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    Things I Don't Do
    Adult Baby/Diaper Play
    Golden/Brown/Roman Showers
    Smoking
    Hardcore
    Full Nudity

    Nothing against any of the above. If people enjoy them they should rock out with one or more consenting partners, however they aren't my thing.

    Things I Do
    Verbal Humiliation
    Forced Bi
    Foot and Shoe Worship
    Strap-on Training
    Sissy Training
    Financial Domination
    CBT
    SPH
    Role Play at my discretion
    Tease and Denial
    Ass Worship
    Cuckolding/Chastity
    I also do most of these in real life but I do have a few things I LOVE but won't do on cam because I like having things that are just for my personal life.

    My limits were established very early, mainly because I suck at feigning interest in things I am not into. Guys could smell my disdain a mile away. It was bad. I've tried a few times, but I can't lose my attitude. I'm also fluent in sarcasm and can't turn it off. Insulting customers is bad for business unless you're a domme. I also have a different set of rules for my real life subs, versus my paying customers names that I use for my subs I do not use for my customers ever. I like to keep a certain professional distance and those little things help.

    Of course no children and no animals.
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    I think this is a really fascinating topic, and well-worth discussing. Thank you for starting the thread, Tiny. :-)

    At the risk of sounding like an unprincipled harlot, for me, a lot depends on the amount of money exchanged.

    In my regular, day-to-day online camming life, I have LOTS of limits. I do not go fully naked on cam (have not for a bit over a year), so there's one big one. I don't stick things in my ass. I don't do hard-to-clean-up things like pour cake batter on my head. I do not do things that jeopardize my anonymity.

    HOWEVER: I think Eliana is onto something with her "semi-willing" category. Semi-willing. Hmmmm. Depending on what? The attitude of the requesting customer? The dollar value of the accompanying tip?

    I don't think that a discussion about limits is complete without bringing up the "if the price is right" caveat.

    Let's face it... we all do certain things for one price, that we wouldn't do for another. Although I don't, as a rule, go fully naked on cam OR do anal, if a guy was to offer me $500,000 to take off my panties and slide a carrot in my ass, well, yeah.... I would probably do it.

    Does anyone have any limits that they WOULD NOT CROSS, no matter the dollar amount?

    I guess I can understand the respectability of 'sticking to one's values', but... is there a point at which refusing to do something for a large sum of money is.... well... selfish?

    I wonder to myself sometimes, if I could ever work as an escort. To ME, the prospect of having sex with someone I am not attracted to, for money, is.... well, pretty repugnant. (Absolutely no offense intended towards those who DO escort-- this is just an academic discussion.)

    But what if some ugly rich dude offered me $500k to fuck him ONCE, and I had three kids to feed? Would I suck it up and do it, then?

    What if I DIDN'T have three kids to feed? What if I was doing just fine on my own, but I knew that that $500k could, I don't know.... help my parents retire? Fund a Cambodian orphanage for year? Purchase a heart transplant for someone who would otherwise die?

    I don't know.... I have not been offered half a mill for anything yet. But if I ever WAS, I can't say that I wouldn't let a certain $ amount sway me to cross some boundaries. :-/

    I guess I must be morally bankrupt, or something. *Shrug.*

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    I'm willing to sound like an unprincipled harlot, there's not much I wouldn't do if the price was right (minus anything that would cause permanent damage).

    Realistically though, I'm sure no one will ever offer me $50,000 to poop on their face so it's not something I'll ever have to worry about...
    "If I can't dance, I don't want to be part of your revolution." ~ Emma Goldman

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    Double post. Ignore.
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    My limits are pretty much a) will this get me banned on this site, and b) will this injure/threaten my health in some way?

    Other than that I am pretty open, no pun intended

    In terms of hard limits (in a general sense), I do think for enough money I might bend the rules. But it depends on what's going on. For example, I would never engage in beastiality or pedophilia for any amount of money because I feel that is abuse/rape of the innocent. In that case, it's more imposing on/breaking the limits of others though.

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    Ooh this made such reading! I really love having very few limits & taboos but they are mostly for phone chat where I don't always feel like talking about children, rape or incest.

    On cam the only things I don't do (on SM) are the ones that are forbidden but if there were no rules I would do peeing, vomiting, ws & hs as I do everywhere else. I like living up to my name & the shoe fucking isn't a big deal but would be better if they were attached to someone imho

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    I don't do the following....
    -ass to mouth
    -submissive shows
    -those degrading shows where the guy likes you to call yourself worthless etc. I end up laughing anyways lol
    -I don't let them demand me around like a dog...fuck that. Quite a few times if they talk to me like a fucking dog and even after I tell them to stop and they keep going...I just sit and give them the finger. My body fuck you.
    -scat
    -pedophila
    -smoking
    -fucking animals


    Ermmm I think that is it.


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    I dont do..
    - piss, shit, period
    - animals, incest, pedophelia role play
    - smoking
    - fisting
    - watch guys cams when they want to do weird shit.. ie. "will you watch me fuck my ass with a baseball bat, cum in a cup, then drink it bb?" .... no thanks.
    - I do deepthroat, but no gagging

    Thats about it... but sometimes I avoid certain role play situations cuz I dont think Im good at it. I'll occasionally do them, but role play doesnt come so naturally to me, so Im always worried I seem awkward and terrible at it (which I prob am, though Ive had no complaints and ppl do come back..) ... still tho.. I like doing things I am totally comfortable with and generally role play makes me shy like I do it wrong lol.
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    I don't do:

    watersports or hardsports
    ageplay / incest / animals / rape
    hardcore nudity
    masturbation

    I do:
    most fetishes
    sensual tease (including 'nudity' - its amazing how much you can keep covered while not wearing a thing)
    watching guys do weird shit

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessica1001 View Post
    Does anyone have any limits that they WOULD NOT CROSS, no matter the dollar amount?
    Sexual stuff with my cat (or any animal for that matter..)
    Makes me feel sick even writing it !!

    IF SOME SICK BASTARD EVER TRIED TO TOUCH MY PRECIOUS LITTLE BOO BEAR I WOULD KILL THEM LOL




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