the reason why I have limits now is because I realized they are not worth the money.
I came to realize that people who have out of the ordinary requests dont really have alot to spend for it.
the reason why I have limits now is because I realized they are not worth the money.
I came to realize that people who have out of the ordinary requests dont really have alot to spend for it.



And the beautiful thing is the inverse is true - as with life, some guys who have a niche fetish don't mind paying out of the ass for it, whether on cam or in real life so for some of us it's well worth the money but ONLY if it's within your boundaries
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For me that's the difference between the guys who want the freak show - wanting to see all the weird and wonderful things you can do but are cheap (want it all and right now), and the guys who want a show that satisfies their niche fetish, are willing to pay for it and take their time enjoying it.
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For me, there is a huge difference in guys with a fetish and guys wanting a freakshow. The freakshow guys want everything-omfg-tits-ass-mouth-toys-gag-puke-shit-pee for $1. The fetish guys will pay and are respectful.





My limits are actually fairly fluid. It may make it a little confusing for the customers, but frankly, screw 'em! LOL...what I mean by that is - if I usually do anal with fingers, but say no one day because I have been having an unhappy stomach and just took an immodium, well, that is my prerogative. I'm not going to log off completely because I have a sore throat, so I can't deepthroat - I want the money that I can make doing everything else. But I'm not going to force a deepthroat on a day where it would hurt. If the customers can't understand that I am a human, not a bot, then I don't want them in my room anyway.
My limits are also flexible because it comes down to where I am doing the show and how much I am being paid. I will do more in skype shows and clips, because I don't do anything on SM that is against the rules - it's not worth a suspension. I also do more in skype because I know that I have been pre-paid for a certain amount of time - there is no way that I will start a messy/morally ambiguous show, then get cut off after 3 minutes and be left with a pathetic amount of money for what I just did.
The limits that I do have are usually based around my physical health/pain tolerance.
Under no circumstances will I do ANYTHING that hurts me. Ever. That means that I only do well-lubed anal with very small toys, and if it starts to get sore, I will end the show. End of story - I'm not tearing my ass open for a few bucks. Ditto heel-fucking, and using any objects for penetration that are not entirely smooth and/or rounded. I'm not going to risk even a tiny tear from a rough bit of vegetable peel that could get infected. I don't do atm, or switch up anal and vaginal/oral toys for health reasons - I am not risking a week off work throwing up or dealing with a facial staff infection because I was sucking on my anal plug. I don't do pain play, bondage, etc for the same reason - I don't want to deal with people asking me to hurt or bruise myself. I also do not do piercing play, even though it confuses people. NO, I will not take my nipple piercings out. They are incredibly sensitive, and I am not risking rejection or keloiding to get you off. Feck off!
Beyond the physical health boundaries, I have a few that are entirely to do with practicality, and money vs time. Messy shows, shower shows, shows where I move my camera around, creating entirely new set ups, etc are just not generally worth the set up time, unless the guy is going to hang out in private throughout set up. I will occasionally do messy shows if I am about to log off, or if I am offered extra money/block sessions. I also do not do smoking shows, although I do smoke and make smoking clips - because I don't smoke in the house, and I don't want to stink up my cam room and get smoke in my computer!! Similarly, I don't destroy stuff - costumes, stockings, panties - or do anything to myself that cannot be reversed within the 30 sec back-to-free countdown - shaving, cutting hair, removing nail polish, etc.
There are a few boundaries that are pretty solid, but that I may alter for a VAST amount of money (we are talking in the hundreds of thousands) - these include peeing, pooping (although not eating, or smearing the poop on myself), period play, fisting, anal with a dildo, and family based roleplay (with the caveat that all members are playing someone who is over 16, and willing).
Then there are those limits that are absolute - no amount of money would persuade me to break these lines.
- Animals (including crushing animals). Sorry, I wouldn't be able to look my babies in the face. I once allowed a guy to stay in a show when he was talking about dogs (I was JUST starting, and was a little....uncertain) and I felt like throwing up for about a week after that...and that wasn't me talking or doing anything, that was just HIM talking about dogs. Regret that one.
- Children. I will do 16+ because I was very sexually active at that age, and because I have done some "schoolgirl" roleplay in my own personal life - neither myself or my partner have any interest in ACTUAL girls that young, obviously, but the play was fun. However, I would never, ever be able to portray a child younger than 16.
- Snuff. It just crosses a line for me.
- Anything that gives me that little "off" feeling. This is very customer specific, and a hard one to pin down. There are times when I can spend time with one customer talking about making him eat my shit, but the next guy who starts talking about cleaning my toilet just sets off little alarm bells. I have worked in the industry long enough to have a well-developed spider sense about the times that guys will pull out a phrase that will leave me retching for days, and I cut those guys off instantly, even if they have done nothing wrong so far. When I don't, those are the ones that will start talking about animals, murder, etc. Its the same as working in the strip club and anticipating the asshole who is about to whip his rig out.
- My last limit is an odd one - I won't do ANY sub work. It's odd because in rl, I am a sub, so you would think that I would enjoy it! But when I have done it in the past, I have then found that when I am with my partner, it starts to get weird - the lines between work and play blur a little. I have to be honest, I don't really get off on what I do, I just want the money, and it actually creeps me out a little if I start to get off on the interaction (rather than, say, the physical stimulation of a hitachi). I feel almost guilty - like I am cheating, not working. And because my SO and I indulge in sub play a lot, if I do it on cam, I feel that I am crossing a line - that I am bringing my real life into the cam room. I know that a lot of girls really DO get off on the interaction, and love that aspect of it, and there is nothing wrong with that, but I will actually set limits on the stuff that may feel a little too good - a little too close to home. I save my sub side for my SO, and I always will.
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I was raised Roman Catholic. I was also confirmed and had seriously considered becoming a nun before life took me on a different path.
I also have zero problem with religious role-playing. In fact, at the risk of being struck with lighting where I stand I will even go as far to confess I actually find it to be sexy fun.
Isn't it funny how we can start off in similar type situations and end up at completely different end points.
I'm so glad this thread was started. My definite limits are anything extreme. For me this includes anal/dp/pee/poo/ and the like. I had thought I was pretty open to Roleplay minus racism and religious stuff, but that changed as of last week. I'm in my late 30's and have natural DD tits. I'm the furthest from childlike a custy could find. Therefore I was in the mindset that, by doing extreme underage roleplay he truly is just working through some stuff or he would find a girl who looks prepubescent. I know there are some out there. What began as teasing got deeper and more extreme, and although I stand by my thought that...no way can it be believed because of my appearance...I just felt I had personally gone too far. It wasn't worth it for me, and I won't be doing anything past age play teasing from now on.
I see a common thread here that many of you don't go near ageplay, so perhaps I'm the extreme one here. Lol







I like what ManyRoses said and I feel similarly, I think.
I won't engage in actual illegal/immoral acts such as but not limited to the obvious: necro, bestiality, pedo, or anything that will cause permanent harm to me, my client, or anyone/anything else (such as animals).
I choose to not engage in anal, penetration with toys, scat/golden shower, squirting, real orgasms, submission. I pee/poo are just not what I want to be recorded doing. Haha. And banned on many sites.... I don't do the other things because they are personal for me. I save my orgasms, my submission, anal, penetration, and squirting for my monogamous long term relationship. It might sound goofy but it keeps me sane, keeps me with solid boundaries.
I know a LOT of guys come to me with diaper/adult baby fetishes because other girls won't do it--too close to darker things in their minds? not sure. I find it fun and innocent. I'll do age roleplay. If I were single I might consider doing submission roleplay but I'm not sure. My persona is a Domme. I like to keep the worlds separate. I know some submissives who cam as subs... and their partners are aware, and encourage it and support them. I don't feel like mine would, and I have no desire to submit to ANYONE else... so... it's a limit.
I do not do pee/poo/vomit/child/animal/spitting on tits/ racial abuse/anal/dp/fisting. Likewise, despite the great money potential, I do not touch the world of dom and sub with a 10 foot pole, as it is too much of a mind- fuck for me. Adult diaper baby gets on my LAST nerve for some reason. Finally, I do not do humiliations of any kind.
Adult baby gets on my last nerve too lol. Really wish I wasn't so weirded out by it because I get requests for it pretty frequently! Props to the girls that do that fetish, there must be some good $ in it!
im so glad ive set boundaries it gives u a sense of power saying no to something!
I dont do
- Squirting
- roleplay involving rape/incest/racial
- DP
- Anything really messy or something that would take too long to do for an obviously short show
- anal with big toys
- pee/poop/vomit/blood
- anything really humiliating
- no big toys
I do anal rarely but sometimes if the guy isn't pushy and is a good customer i'll do it with small toys.
Im not really into SUB if the guys is a dick about it or asks for too much but if he is kool about it and pays
then i'll do the normal stuff but no smacking pussy or anything that will hurt or be really embarassing.
I don't Like to spit it's too messy but if you catch me at the end of the night then yah i will spit on my tits or whatever.
Im sure i could think of more but thats about my list. Oh and i don't like to cum for real when on cam sometimes i do but
i like to save those for my relationship too.
Thanks god for them they really do keep me sane and allow me to work day in and day out.....





I had an interesting situation this week with a new client, and it made me think of this thread....I'd love to hear your limits around the following situation:
A guy comes in and asks for "stories" from me all the time - being one of those guys that just gets off more on the words than the visuals. Usually I tell stories about sex in public, threesomes, group sex, voyeur clubs, etc etc. Your standard my-life-is-a-penthouse-letter stuff.
So one day, we were in pvt, and he was being told about the first time that I had a threesome with two guys, and a second customer comes in and listens to the story.
Now bachelor number two comes back in and asks for stories, but they are all "tell me about the first time that you....". Seeing as I actually tell the truth, for the most part, and I got started pretty young, some of these stories are now starting to cross over into talking about being underage.
I'm really not sure how I feel about this, or how this fits with my limits (I do not do ageplay, although I will do "schoolgirl" fantasy stuff, when the age is specified as over 16). He is not asking me to ROLEPLAY being 13, he is not fixated on the age part of things (he always asks, but he also asks what I was wearing, how much I weighed at the time, what color the room was painted, what brand the condom was.....he's just really into the details!), and he is happy to hear about the "first times" that happened after age 16 or 18. He's not even involving himself in the scenario or the story - he literally just listens and asks for details occasionally. And I am not naked while talking, or even telling them in a "sexy" way - I tell them the same way that I would tell a friend if they asked.
Would you girls consider this age-play if you were asked to do it? Would you talk about your first time if that "first time story" featured you as a minor?
At the end of the day, my limits on things that aren't damaging or illegal are based on how I feel doing them or considering doing them, and this doesn't set off that shudder-button, so I'll continue to tell him stories for the time being....but I thought that it was a really interesting situation.
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I have this guy who just talks to me sometimes too. Nothing sexual, camera on, not even jerking. Just wants to hear my wild crazy stories. I like those conversations ALOT!! I had my wild and crazy days in my youth and are not ashamed of speaking on them. It's funny though because, since he obviously isn't being sexually fulfilled by my conversations, I never thought of it as age play until I read your post. Guess it's something to ponder now....I always was just worried that all my stories would run out and he would not find me amusing anymore.





That's pretty much how I feel about it - I just got started pretty young! It got me thinking when I was telling a story about the "first bj" and realized that I was talking about a 12-13 year old....usually I would be swinging the banhammer if someone mentioned that age!
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I have guys wanting to hear about my early experiences too...they are getting off on it, and at worst they can use it to justify behaviour to themselves because we are confirming that minors can have sexual feelings and consent, albeit not legally. For that reason I feel it can be more dangerous than age play, since that is just a fantasy situation.
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Well, I think SPH just became a new limit. I always enjoyed it until tonight. I had my first SPH where he wanted me to open his cam. I was pretty damn mean, and I feel GUILTY! It was unusually little...really, really little and I felt sad for him afterwards. I almost feel like I've somehow scarred my own Karma or something. I know he comes online to pay for it, but I almost wanted to talk about his feelings regarding his "issue" instead. Lol. Guess I'm just more of a softy than I want to believe.





Aw! You are so sweet.....but don't feel guilty - he is enjoying it! He is asking for it!!!
I always feel bad if I am doing SPH in pvt and someone else pops into the room - they haven't asked for it, so I'm guessing that being told that shaving isn't fooling anyone into thinking it's a normal dick, but at least it'll make it easier to find when they need to pee.....probably killed the hard on for the day!
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Thanks ManyRoses. I'll try to keep that in mind.![]()
I CAN'T do (so I by default won't)!
Gagging (I'm not good at it and find it painful)
Squirting
Toys in ass (I'll finger my ass or pretend to, I found out about this when a guy thought I had my finger in my ass and I hadn't, and he said 'ooh fingering of ass, NICE)!I wouldn't normally do this.
Animals (even pretending, it would probably make me cry)!
big toys, or a lot of the time, if I use anything, I just pretend! I don't own a vibrator or dildo and if a guy asks, I use one of my boyfriend's truncheons!But I put the cam on just my pussy, and I pump my hand up and down as if it's actually going in when it's just touching. I'm small down there, and extremely sensitive, I won't hurt myself for money.
I WON'T do;
Piss. I don't want to be cleaning that up-I hate the scent of piss and I can't imagine it being easy to clean up-if I missed something and could smell it the next day , ugh!
Scat (I find it too embarrassing).
Vomit -it affects health-health is more important than money
I do;
Most other fetishes
Ageplay -to a point!Some guy the other day wanted to have underage porn on in the background, I wouldn't have that.However I look younger on cam, I have a chubby round face, small boobs, small ass even though I'm not even anywhere near the weight/size I want to be-it works for me and I make more money if I do ageplay. I see it as, if a guy can get his kick of watching me, a grown woman pretending to be young, even if he's inclined to be devious, he's less likely to be if people like me can give him that kick without deviating.
Most roleplay , I am a fair actress and will get into character
Sub/Dom although I'm not so good at that-most variations I can do.
I've probably missed something. Disclaimer, to girls who can do the things I can't, or will do the things I won't, I pass NO judgement at all. Just me and everybody is different and has different needs and different levels of comfort.



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