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    Evelyn - thank you for reviving this thread! I've always been interested in what the other girls are doing in their shows, but I didn't want to ask because limits can be very personal. Because I'm a relative newbie to camming, I'm so glad to see that you all can stick to your limits while still earning money. I'm a sub in real life and I've seen a LOT in the last two years of playing monthly at a local dungeon...and I'd developed a pretty set hard-limits list for my real life play. I thought it would be the same list for camming, but I'm finding that it's got some big differences. I wish I could get more D/s shows - I don't know how much more blatant I can get without writing SUB on my forehead at the start of my shift. I am completely against playing with animals, but...I did just let a guy pay me to watch him get fucked BY his dog last week. If it had been the other way around - he was fucking the dog - I would have banned his ass. If it's only talk, then I have no issue with it...it's not something I'll ever engage in, but if they just want to talk about it, then it's not harming anyone.

    I'm working on developing a Domme personality but it's a real struggle for me. I just enjoy being submissive far too much. I also have no issue with pain, bondage, degradation and humiliation (which I never seem to get!), and most of what other women have listed...like another poster said - "One girl's limit is another girl's niche!"


    My limits so far:

    Scat and vomit
    Crushing
    Incest
    Any type of ageplay (as a mom, I just cannot fathom it myself...but no judgement of others!)
    Anal - unless it's scheduled and preplanned, or I know I'm going to be doing it with hubby or boyfriend later that night
    Vore/Snuff
    ADL - but I have no issue with lactation fantasies and bonus since I can still get some milk out a year after I stopped nursing!


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    Some I had to learn the hard way; as in doing it once and knowing immediatly even while getting ready I didnt liked it at all. But as a newbie I found it hard to reject a request. It has been a good lesson to learn how to say no

    My limits:
    animals (why even think about it)
    leaving marks
    hitting myself at any other place than my ass
    inserting any other object than my toys or fingers
    not more than 4max (and will play this one out one at a time) fingers at a time
    ageplay below 18
    incest
    vomit
    hard gagging (I learned this the hard way... and puked one time from it- gross.. the guy wanted me to keep doing it- even more gross)
    any toilet play
    druss/alchohol (why do they even ask?)
    farting

    My soft boundaries (so normally I dont do them) - can be passed by a very good member (as in a very good payment)
    anal with normal sized toy (instead of a little one)
    pantystuffing
    fingers in ass (dont like it at all! not even one)
    oiling myself up (dont like the feeling)
    hitting myself on my ass with an paddle
    hitting myself on my ass and turning it red (my best regular requested it- I dont mind pain but I do mind having to take time of letting it get back at the normal colour)
    wearing no makeup at all on request
    smoking
    having a normal chat (I dont like getting personal at all)
    drinking my own squirt (should be a best regular though)
    daddyplay - I dont do it when I get a "weird fibe" or when it gets to graphic - I only do it when it feel innocent. And it helps that English isnt my motherlanguage, I coudnt have done it otherwise (for some reason I always liked the word as sort of a nickname)
    schoolgirl - same as above I dont like it when the guys get creepy on me

    thats all I can think of for now

    But since the guys are so good in finding new gross things to ask I wont be suprised I will find out about new ones!

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    OH God, Oh Lord please don't be angry with me but I am having a very very hard time reading what you wrote about the guy and his dog SweetLilyraven. I do dog rescue/training and own many, so coming from my background it's so very hard to understand why anyone would abuse an animal. I will drop that there. Oh my. Poor poor dog.

    My limits change with my mood. I think some limits do change with a performer at times.
    I will never, no way, ever do or tolerate any sort of animal talk that is sexual. EVER.
    1) Animals = huge taboo for me, and a harsh ban forever for the idiot
    2) underage = I (talking about my feelings) feel like a pedo. if I go there.
    3) SCAT = gross to me, it smells and it's messy... embarrassing.
    4) Urination = no, just don't want to make a mess with piss, and most sites say no anyway.
    5) gagging = Never. Does not feel good.
    6) Vomit (Roman Fetish) Gross, never.
    7) Simulating abuse on my body. If it does not feel good I won't do it.
    Period play. Never say never in my case. Did cam during Shark Week a few nights ago in pvts. Not bad.
    9) Race play. Not interested, I have many friends who are of many races.
    10) Incest. Not for me.
    11) Anal. Have used butt plugs in privates. Not really into it.
    12) Being a Sub. I can not work under orders from a customer telling me what to do. I tried, not for me. I dislike it very much.
    13) Squirting = I can squirt an ocean. But don't like the cleanup. Rarely will I squirt.
    That's all I can think of right now. I seem to limit myself much. But I chose to be a sweet sex kitten kinda woman I guess. Sounds boring I know.
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    Double post - sorry...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Camigirl View Post
    OH God, Oh Lord please don't be angry with me but I am having a very very hard time reading what you wrote about the guy and his dog SweetLilyraven. I do dog rescue/training and own many, so coming from my background it's so very hard to understand why anyone would abuse an animal. I will drop that there. Oh my. Poor poor dog.
    Oh, trust me, I get it..I really really really hate animal abusers. I rank them right up there with child rapists. He kind of sprung it on me...and in that split moment I made the choice to watch it. My rationale was that the dog was the one doing the act on the guy, not the other way around. As soon as he logged off, I sat there for a moment wondering WTF I had just witnessed and decided that if he came back to my room, I'd ban him simply because I don't want to see that shit again. I completely understand your horror at it...I'm still trying to figure out how to track him down and report his ass to the ASPCA.

    I also moved a tiny bit into race play last week. I ABHOR the N word in real life...and it was for my very first custie who asked me to call him a big dicked N...I managed to choke out the word...and he could see from how awkward I was afterwards that it wasn't something I was okay with, so he thanked me for my valiant effort and that he wouldn't ask me to say it again (BIG relief!). I can now put it on the hard limit list and I'm glad "John" was so understanding...


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    Giving out boners for free since 2013. I'm practically a nonprofit.

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    -anal. it's just not for me. and NATURALLY this is requested every fucking day.
    - impregnation fetish.
    -young age play/pedo stuff.
    -MILF stuff. I'm not a fucking MILF, I hate kids, and being 30 (damn, 31 tmrw) does not mean I have kids
    -calling people Daddy
    -feeder fetish/ food consumption
    -boy/girl content
    -scat/golden shower stuff
    -rape fantasies.
    -no fan signs or writing dudes names on my body.
    - NATURALLY, no paypal. lol.
    -adult baby/diaper fantasies
    -meeting custies outside of the web, IRL
    -mom/son fantasies

    prob some other stuff too.
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    Never forget, it's YOUR room, not theirs. You'd be surprised how often a guy hears "no" yet will still stick with you. Sometimes it builds respect and a certain kind of reputation. And....despite the money pressure we all feel, there are more fish in the sea!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetLilyRaven View Post
    I'm working on developing a Domme personality but it's a real struggle for me. I just enjoy being submissive far too much.
    I feel you girl. I kind of don't like sissy boys BUT I'm a great dom when I apply myself. Plus, I do NOT like being degraded by some asshole I've never met.
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    Curious: How do you roleplay Anorexia (not how can you justify it, actually what and how you do it?) Never heard of that one before...
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    Things I don't do:

    - Vomming (I am NOT cleaning up the mess on my bedsheets)
    - Scat/ass to mouth (ew)
    - Pee (I did a pee show my first night cause I'd always been curious, but I don't think it's worth the risk of suspension)
    - Rapeplay (I'm kink positive, but any guy who fantasises about raping girls is a problem and I'm not encouraging him)
    - Pain (I have low pain threshholds)
    - Squirting (I can't)
    - Animals/kids (ew)
    - Big toys in my ass (it's way too tight)
    - Fisting (again, way too tight)

    Things I do do:
    - Anal
    - DP
    - General kink
    - Racial humiliation
    - Heel in pussy
    - Anorexia (this one makes me sad as hell for the fetish existing, but better a guy wank off over me than an actual anorexic)
    - Xenia Onatopp roleplay o.O

    I've only had one pvt where I felt so uncomfortable I called time on it. The guy entered my chat and instantly started barking orders and kept on going with a constant stream of fairly abusive shit. I put up with it for a few minutes until he told me to tear my stockings. At that point I dropped character, told him he'd need to pay about 20 bucks more for me to do that and booted him from my room.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katie Desire View Post
    Curious: How do you roleplay Anorexia (not how can you justify it, actually what and how you do it?) Never heard of that one before...
    Well, they want you to talk to them about your "eating disorder" and how hot it is. It's fucking sick. I didn't it was such thing until I started camming.





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    I have different boundaries for phone, cam and clips. My phone gigs are the most open. I have yet to find a topic I won't discuss. I have refused a customer because he gave me the creeps, though, and was very graphic in his taboo fantasy, to the point I was convinced I was talking to an offender, and didn't want any part of that. My clips are a little more conservative. I haven't done many yet. Just a few vanilla ones, but I'd be willing to do more kink if it was asked for. Especially if I don't necessarily have to show my face. I won't do age play in a clip at all, though. No scat, rape, talking about kids/animals either. Live camming is where I run across the most boundaries. It would probably be easier to list the things that I will do, instead of won't, and even some of those requests won't be entertained if I'm not feeling it at the moment. Like sub play. I'm occasionally able to be a sub, if I'm in a mood that is pretty chipper, but if I'm having a bad day, I'm not going to make it worse by inviting someone to bark at me. I'm also okay with age play, as long as it is kept vague, and isn't extreme. I most definitely look like a woman (full bush, pregnancy stretch marks and all), not a kid, so if they want me to pretend to be younger, the visual they sought out in me tells me I'm probably not preforming for a pedo. If I get a bad vibe, though, or they want to be really graphic, it is a no. And I never do that kind of accomplice play at all. I also don't do full anal. I do anal teasing, but again, only when I'm in the mood. I don't gag or puke on live cam either, but I would consider it for a custom clip. Being picky about what I do is probably bad for my immediate bottom line, but really, I want to be in this for the long haul, and doing what I'm up to seems like the best approach to avoiding burn out.
    I also don't do anything except nude chat/vanilla play/dirty talk in private. And anything fetish or taboo must be done in exclusive. Those limits are just there for business purposes, though.
    "Pain or damage don't end the world. Or despair. Or fucking beatings. The world ends when you're dead. Until then, you got more punishment in store. Stand it like a man...and give some back." Al Swearengen, Deadwood.

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    I limit most everything to Exclusive or blocks only.
    I will not to ATM at any price nor large toys anywhere in my body...
    Certainly anything that can get me banned from site is off limits completely.
    I do only nude boobs and BJ in private (about to change that too due to the 30 sec peepers).

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