At the gym I go to, there is this guy that works there that is always making eye contact with me, smiling, etc....
Well, when I first started working out there, I thought he was this another guy that recognized me from the gym that I saw out at a club, they kind of look alike. So I was always smiling back, being friendly, etc. ONLY because I thought he was the other guy. One day I realized that these are two different guys, so as I walked by the gym manager and he smiled at me, I was like, "Excuse me, this whole time I thought you were this other guy, that's why I've been smiling at you across the gym and waving hi. I wasn't hitting on you, Just wanted to let you know" I didn't say it in a bitchy way or anything, and the guy just kind of laughed.
Well, a week or so later, he helped me with a machine, and we started talking, a few days later he helped me with some dead lifts, then he was like, "When you first signed up for a membership here, all the girls told me about this new girl (you) that I was really going to like." I was like ok, what does that mean? You have a thing for short brunettes? He just kind of laughed and we dropped it, Anyways, fast forward three more weeks. This guy always comes up and says hi to me, usually interrupting me on the treadmill or something and making small talk. One day, I was talking to another trainer, and he came up and was standing there listening. Then he said something like, "Do you have a hot date tonight?" Because I was wearing a cute outfit leaving the gym. I said, "No, no date, I wish..." and the subject was changed.
Anyways, I guess what I'm wondering is, how do I construe all of this? Is this guy just being friendly or too shy to fully make a move on me? I honestly cannot tell. And I don't want to make a move on him (normally I would) because what if he was just being friendly, and now I feel like a jack ass and have to see him everyday at the gym..... He's totally not my type, way older and way too swoll, but I do think it's really cute how he seems to get nervous around me and I can feel him staring at my across the gym, then he always notices little changes, like my nail polish or hair, and comments on them.
What should I do? I do kind of want to jump this guy now..... only because it turns me that I intimidate him that much..... is that weird? What can I do or say to put him on the spot and find out if he does want to ask me out/like me, but in an indirect way? Help please, I need guys and girls advice....




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