I'm just wondering?
I'm just wondering?

Hi Mia,
I was hoping to hear what some other ladies think about this, but I say yes. I think unless you are a seasoned pro they can tell anyway, even if you are just new to that particular club, you have an air of unfamiliarity about you, so why not make the most of it.
Firstly, I hate to say it but men love fresh meat...not all of them, but many of them love to think that they are teaching you something, introducing you, showing you the ropes...I've always found the regulars will share their little pieces of gossip - the manager is this way or that, watch out for that girl. Just like in a regular bar, people love to show how "in" they are with a place. Take it all with a pinch of salt but use it to get dances.
You can also be very flirtatious and somewhat coy and say things like "I think I am going to like it here, everyone seems very generous and like they know how to appreciate a pretty girl". Or something like "I haven't quite got the hang of getting dances yet, but the men seem really handsome and nice...or maybe I just got lucky with you" I mean, don't be fake or overdo it, but I don't know but I find that guys want to prove that they are one of "those guys" or validate that the club is good, and if they don't they are generally not worth the time.
Bear in mind if you have a much more aggressive, confident, sexy persona that is not going to fit you, but generally newbie's are a little shy till they get used to it. As a rule though if you are new and nervous you can still be sexy, flirty, bubbly and fun. Seem excited and happy to be starting your new job and you will do well!
That's just my two cents - would love to hear other perspectives.


Yes! I didn't and I wish I had! "new girl money"
I usually feel like new girl money is similar to time waster money. You can make money but it's from dbags looking for a new girl so they can talk to her forever/get a bargain lapdance/ try to grope her.
You will obviously look new in my opinion that just means you should be extra careful as far as guys taking advantage of you. You already look like a target, no need to advertise it more.

Hmm, I think based on the last 2 posts I may revise my original thoughts!! Yes, it's true you will get all of the above BS and more...
Most of the custies are way too fly to the game anyway.
I guess remember what the last two posters said and only pull out the new girl card if it feels like it will work. Intuition is really everything...you are gonna have to get really good at that anyway.![]()
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