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    Default Id rather travel with someone...but how the hell? Trust issues too. What do yall do?

    ok so I don't wanna go out alone..I dont trust bitches easy but Id much rather have someone cool that we can travel together and have each others backs you know??? How do you find that?? You cant exactly ask any hot girl if they wanna be a dancer... Im new to this..I just dont wanna go out alone just for safety. Im super cautious...

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    Default Re: Id rather travel with someone...but how the hell? Trust issues too. What do yall

    go out where exactly? nights out? to and from work? i suspect your opening statement "i dont trust bitches easy" is gonna work against you ;-)

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    Default Re: Id rather travel with someone...but how the hell? Trust issues too. What do yall

    Like travel with you? A traveling partner?

    For me, I went by this criteria:

    Are they hot enough to get hired at the clubs I plan on working at?
    Are they good hustlers no matter the club or area? (You want them to do well, right?)
    Are they so good at hustling that I will lose money of they travel with me?
    Are they dependable? Do they show up regularly for their shifts?
    Can they drive? Do they drive drunk or under the influence? After all, you'll want to share driving duties maybe, and don't want to crash your car or get injured.
    Do they start drama? You don't want to get kicked out of a good club because of your travel buddy.

    I've worked with some girls from SW and traveled with one, and have also traveled with my ex-best friend, and two girls from my home club. I was very picky about who I asked though. I worked with the two girls for something like 2-4 years before I asked.

    Also, pack something like a mini safe or whatever to keep your valuables and money in. No matter who it is if for some reason they aren't making enough profit they may be tempted to steal.
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    Default Re: Id rather travel with someone...but how the hell? Trust issues too. What do yall

    personally i normally prefer to travel alone.unless you are really close to someone and you know you can stand to be with them 24/7 then its better alone.It can be lonely but i dont think its dangerous unless you let it be.I have travelled all over the world(working in strip clubs) and mostly its been alone.Its better to go it alone than wait for the perfect partner to go with you.

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    Default Re: Id rather travel with someone...but how the hell? Trust issues too. What do yall

    If the safety/loneliness factor is an issue for you than yes being with someone is better...but that is IF AND ONLY IF you pick your partner well because God knows there are a lot of crazy b*7tches who seem cool, nice and look like they have their act together but the reality is another story. They could end up stealing your money, clothes etc. they could end up being jaleous if you make more money They could even try to pimp you !...Happened to a girl I know, she almost got raped in a parking lot by 2 guys.They came at her litteraly telling her that they had paid her "friend"back in the club in full, to have a 3some. They told he to shut the f up, get in their car and get naked !!!! Thank God she had a gun with her ! ( that was in ATL) UN-BELIEVABLE !

    Personaly I will only travel with a girl I've known and worked with on a regular basis for at least a year and I am a really good judge of character so I never had a bad experience but i heard so many horror stories from other strippers...like recently my friend came back from a trip broke because her so called partner stole 20 000 $ from her and vanished ( that was in Toronto !) You CAN'T team up with someone you just met or barely know just because you have the same sense of humor or enjoy the same music or share similarities in your life stories, ALL THIS DOES NOT MEAN the person can be trusted ! NO NO AND NO !

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    Default Re: Id rather travel with someone...but how the hell? Trust issues too. What do yall

    Follow your instincts. Instincts and intuition are merely your unconscious mind picking up on things you don't/can't consciously see, and then sending a *WARNING* signal to your body for your conscious mind to interpret. Don't travel with someone you get bad vibes with. And otherwise, just bring locks for your suitcase(s) and dancer bag. I've made good friends that I've met dancing, and traveled with them. No big deal. Dancers aren't like a ~*special*~ class of people (lol well some CAN be but those girls are usually obvious), they all have different personalities and morals. I don't think you have anything to worry about.

    However, if you prefer solitude or a lot of quiet time, you should travel alone.

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