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    A while after I started dancing, it seemed like guys got worst outside of the club. If I would ne out with simply a fb or male friend, a lot of them would come back and say that "so and so (guy) told me you strip". No guy has really ever disrespected me to my face, except for some drunk guys from my school who knew I danced and yelled out "hey stripper" during a party night outside. My closest male friend already knew what I do. What I never understood was why total stranger guys seem infactuated by me and go out of their way to tell a guy who I'm not even dating or considering dating what I do??? Or why they feel the need to have conversations about what I do when I never talked to them in my life? Have any of you experienced anything like this as well.

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    They just like to gossip? It's happened with some people I know. Someone I know from an organisation I was in, not really a friend but not total stranger either, saw me at work and apparently told several of his friend/guys he knows. I saw someone else at work and he said he'd already heard about it, and I'm not sure if he and 1st guy even hang out much outside of the org.

    To be fair it was only this one guy who felt the need to gossip, possibly because he is bullied a bit so wants to feel important?

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    Sometimes, people think of strippers as sort of 'Celebrities' and they're infatuated by girls who do it. Could be the case with him?
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    Yeah some people just have nothing better to do.

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    They must do! Lol. Cause I'm really lowkey otc, so people are shocked because I'm not on the party scene or fucked everyone. Because you know we're all whores (rolls eyes).

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    A while ago, I moved in with a friend who knew I danced, he told the other flatmate (who was a GIRL) that I strip..... she didnt care, but apparently her boyfriend and all her friends got really excited that she was living with a stripper??
    I take it as a compliment, it is sort of like a "celebrity" status.... but I bet when they meet me in real life they are a little disappointed im not a gorgeous blonde with fake boobs haha.

    I had some friends of an ex from yrs ago yell shit at me at a bar once, when they were dunk tho, i just ignored it Only happened once in 2 yrs so I think Im doing ok.....
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    Thanks I love what I do so it doesn't make me sad it's just always been strange how people who don't know me care.

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    Actually before I started camming I went to a party and the host was talking to me in the other room. He was telling me about the different people there and mention 'she's a stripper" talking about the one girl there. Funny thing was I was surprised because it's not something you're going to just know. Plus I could tell he had his own view of what the job does to women based on the list of not so pleasant things she's done in her past. He was trying to push me on the guy she showed up with but dude had two black eyes and had fallen on the floor more than once for being shit faced. I was like yeah so she's a stripper but she's not doing naked cartwheels in your living room. Look at your friend? I mean who really gets two black eyes and goes to a party looking like he never left the set of 28 days later. Guy looked half dead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sugarmouse0707 View Post
    Sometimes, people think of strippers as sort of 'Celebrities' and they're infatuated by girls who do it.
    This.

    People flip their shit when they meet a "real live stripper." It's like they think we're mystical creatures that only exist inside the club at nighttime, and then disappear into the ether when the sun comes up, awaiting another night to shake our money-makers... It's just so cool to see us out and about acting like real people lol

    Add to that the fact that people have very distinct notions already in their heads about "what kind of people" us strippers are and all the things that that entails (like in cherry's story). It's an instant hot topic of conversation for everyone to start analyzing you and every other stripper on the planet and offer up their opinions on us like we're a different species...

    In all seriousness though, the only time it really bothers me is when it's my own friends doing it. Just some of the stupid-ass ignorant shit they're willing to say in my presence like they think it's ok just boggles my mind... Otherwise, I couldn't care less what some stupid schmucks who my friends blabbed to are saying about me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    This.

    In all seriousness though, the only time it really bothers me is when it's my own friends doing it. Just some of the stupid-ass ignorant shit they're willing to say in my presence like they think it's ok just boggles my mind... Otherwise, I couldn't care less what some stupid schmucks who my friends blabbed to are saying about me.
    This bothers me as well. I have friends that I've known for years that have begun to behave this way. It hurts but they need to get over it or keep it moving.

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    I think its jealousy. Fuck it.

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