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    what do you guys do, have a babysitter, wait until night work between nap time? i have a 10 month old and a 3 year old....and my bf wants me to work during the day....soooo i dont know what to do.cause i dont know how much im going to make ya know...this suuuucks

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    When school is in session, I get on cam during the day, and at night when he's in bed.

    Now that it's summertime, I only get on cam at nighttime when he's sleeping.

    The problem with the "I work when they sleep" thing is trying to make time for you to get some sleep yourself.

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    I can't afford a babysitter or daycare, so I cam when he goes to bed. It limits my availability, but you do what you can. :-/ I generally get on around 8:00pm (my son goes down at 7:00), and log off around midnight. I live with my boyfriend who works in retail, so his schedule varies, and I'm able to cam sometimes when he's home, and he watches our toddler.

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    I cam during school hours...my daughter doesn't go to bed till late so it's just 10/11am till 3pm for me.

    I don't know how you can cam with a 10 month old and a 3 year old. If they both napped at the same time and for a decent length of time, then maybe, but in reality that's the time when you get other stuff done you couldn't do when they were awake. I can't see how you can cam when they're awake short of using duct tape and a locked door...but that brings other problems!

    Passive income maybe a better idea...I do instant message on Adultwork when my daughter is around but she's old enough not to need me immediately.
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    It's really hard to do that whole "work until he wakes up" in the afternoon, and "work until you're too tired to move" at night. For me, it's been very daunting on the soul to not have any time for doing baby-free or cam-free activities, and to lose sleep.

    Luckily, lately my toddler's been going down early (at like 6) so what I do is put him to bed, set a LOUD alarm and sleep for a couple of hours, and then work for 3-4 hours at night.

    I kind of want a babysitter to come to my house and watch my son while he's awake, but I think that would be really awkward explaining to her what I'm doing in my room all day. I'm sure the sitter would find out eventually. Maybe getting a good friend to watch your kids for a few dollars an hour would be the way to go?

    I know it sucks, you're not the only one going through the dreaded pre-k years =(


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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerstripper View Post
    my bf wants me to work during the day
    But how do you feel about this Ginger? And is he not aware that with 2 young children to care for, you already do work during the day?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post
    But how do you feel about this Ginger? And is he not aware that with 2 young children to care for, you already do work during the day?
    Definitely this. As the mother of two children, you know already that you put as much effort into your day as full-time employees; you're just not earning money for doing it. :-/

    If it's an ultimatum ("You need to work during the day because I said so"), then that relationship seems to be already lost. If he's just suggesting something that would make things easier for you financially, then it might be time to have a sit down and explain what you do all day. Toddlers make it very difficult to do anything during the day. I know our apartment is a disaster area because every time I start to clean, that's when my three-year-old decides that he NEEDS my attention, RIGHT THIS SECOND! :-P

    Camming was my boyfriend's idea as well, but it ended up working out for me, and there was a whole hell of a lot of discussion about it, and since we live together, he is perfectly aware of my inability to work during the day. Ultimately, you should do what's best for you and your kids. If you can't work during the day because you've got kids around, then he needs to respect that.



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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerstripper View Post
    what do you guys do, have a babysitter, wait until night work between nap time? i have a 10 month old and a 3 year old....and my bf wants me to work during the day....soooo i dont know what to do.cause i dont know how much im going to make ya know...this suuuucks
    OK so we know what your BF wants. What do YOU want? I'm a little older so I care not what my bf wants when it comes to our livelihood.
    When he is ready to pay all of the bills I'll be ready for his input on how to run my household and at what hours I decide to work.

    Me first.

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    During school, I cam while my twins are at school and the baby is asleep, if I need to. I only do that if I'm trying to meet my goal and I'm behind.

    My normal camming hours are after they are in bed. I usually stay on until 2am and don't end up falling asleep till 3ish, and they wake up at about 8am. I am very lucky though that my husband is here most of the day so he gets up with them in the mornings allowing me to get in about 8 hrs of sleep every night. If he wasn't able to do that, it would be A LOT harder.
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    Its a really tough balancing act, working with kids, especially kids that are so young!

    A couple of things that may help:
    - Put on your makeup and most of your camming outfit as soon as you get up (obviously not so practical if you want to work in full fet gear, or a glittery bikini, but put on your nice undies underneath your mommy clothes, or cam in a t-shirt and undies that you just wear with sweats). Being this "ready" means that barring juice accidents, vomit, etc, you can barrel into the cam room as soon as they are both down and start right away.
    - Same concept - keep your cam area set up and ready. If you have a separate area, perfect. If not, then get up in the morning and set it up. Again, it means that you can rush in there and get to work without taking extra time to set up.
    - Work whenever you can. Twenty minutes? Do it. You may make nothing, or you may be in a pvt for the entire 20 mins. Either way, just log on.
    - Do not feel bad about cutting a session short if you need to for the kids. Do not enable block sessions, as that would be a little unfair, but if you are midway through a long session, and you need to go tend to a crying/awake child, do it. Tell them whatever you want, but never feel bad about it - you are a mom first, a camgirl second.

    Finally, I have to echo what the others are asking about the phrasing of your post - what the boyfriend wants. It is incredibly helpful if you are working with kids to be able to have your partner take care of them while you work. If he is working during the day, that means you can work at night, and vice versa. If he feels uncomfortable being home while you work (it happens) then you have something that you need to sort out. Soundproofing works wonders. Maybe club dancing would be better - something you can do out of the house. Or maybe you have a friend with kids who will do some babysitting a few days a week in return for you taking her kids on a couple of other days? BUT If you don't want to do this, and he wants you to because he thinks that it will be easy money - then don't do it.
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