
i agree with your original post, 100% however, the tone of the post came off as kinda hostile and knowing these women here on SW, you should have known it would turn into this.
back to the subject- it really does irritate me when girls in this industry turn into man hating machines and then bitch about not getting tipped or making money.... i love these men. they pay my bills and its so much fun getting this kind of attention from them. i truly appreciate them, these men respect us, pay us, allows flexibility, because of them i lead a certain lifestyle and so much more perks comes with this territory. i dont hate my customers at all and no i dont think they are sick at all.





But then why talk in such a way that incites most of us to be on the defensive? lol *confused*
In answer to the question that was in amongst all that nonsense, I don't think my customers are "sick", although I'm pretty sure a lot of them are not what society (and me to if I'm honest) would call "normal". But shit, normality is subjective anyway and there's an entire swinging (no pun intended!) spectrum of grey between the black and the white. I make fun of some of the strange things my customers come out with or are in to, i think probably because i cannot understand how they could really derive any sexual pleasure from it. I know that they do, my cam and content sales attest to that, but i still can't see HOW.
But there is a chasm of difference between say a guy who gets off on the thought of being eaten whole by a huge powerful goddess (still strange to many, but something close to my devious little heart lol), and a guy who wants to see you fuck your dog, or mess with a little kid!! I also have to question (at least in my own mind) guys who get off on scat, or pain. Yes I think there are some mental issues at play there, that go beyond society's definition of "normal".





*waits for you to be re-banned*...........
You do know you're not supposed to make a new account when you have done something to warrant you being banned..... right?
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...ere-did-she-go
Looks like mods made it pretty clear you are no longer allowed here..........
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xoxo ~ Sarah
I did want to clarify. I LOVE my customers. I love meeting new people.
I have encountered many people on these sites I really think are "sick". And not because they like feet, or whatever their fetish is. But I've heard so many horrible things about animals and children and I think those people have serious problems.
Those people are not my customers.
I love meeting new people and I love what I do. I accept that I may be judged and I don't judge anyone for anything but what I believe is 100% morally wrong to 99% of the population.
I think most of the girls here have some customers that they just plain adore that ask for some weird things. I know I do. And I may share with my camgirl friends that I had a weird show. I don't mean it to be condescending in any way, it's just that I can't exactly share that with my family when we talk about our day.
So I guess what I'm saying is, I like weird but sometimes it's hard to keep all the strange things I may see to myself. Anyone who is "sick" is not a customer. They are banned. I don't let myself be uncomfortable, or else this just wouldn't be worth it. I think if anyone does think their customers are "sick" is probably not being true to their personal boundaries. But that's a true customer, not so freak who asks you to do some nasty shit. (sorry that's how I feel about it)


its my question about a subject. Not about me. so keep carrying the drama if you please.




Accusing someone of being a guy / not a camgirl, picking at harmless things she's said because you already suspect this person isn't who they say the are, and ordering this person to be banned for what they're saying, to me, actually much closer to trolling that what the OP put in the first place. Regardless of how this question may have arisen, to me, it is a very relevant topic and one well worth at least a little thought by many of us here.
Let's be honest, I'm pretty sure that when she says "don't make it about me", she means something along the lines of this: "Don't let this stray from it's original topic, into personal attacks towards me" because how often do we honestly see this?





so so funny.
Could these types of thread/posts possibly have contributed to the reason that you are no longer supposed to be posting here?
I guess I just don't see the point in coming back to attempt to continue to do the same things that contributed to you being banned in the first place.
xoxo ~ Sarah

^^^ Thank you. I clearly cannot articulate as well as you but I do try. =)
I somewhat agree with you, Incantatious, I do think as a forum we're sometimes quick to label someone a 'troll' simply because they offer a perspective that differs from what is the 'norm' for us. In all fairness though, the OP wasn't 'harmless', the post was incredibly rude and insulting and many of the responses to it are based upon how it appeared before I cleaned it up. I tried to clean it up as quickly as I could, hoping we could keep it on the level that so many of the responses tried to maintain, but I get that it's hard to not respond on a personal level when someone writes something that contains insults that people take, well...personally.
I have a ton of respect for CW, I think she has an incredible mind for business and she's made a tremendous contribution to this forum. She's awesome. That doesn't change the fact that she re-emerges every now and then and posts vitriol that detracts from the many valuable things she has to say. That's why she keeps getting banned, and it does suck. For her and for us who lose out on the many amazing ideas and perspectives she has to offer.




If we're still on the topic of thinking our customers are sick...
I've encountered the really creepy gross kind of people who want me to crush kittens or physically harm my dog - those people, to me, are sick. (I'm a crime-show freak, I literally ADORE them, and I'm pretty sure a common theme among serial killers is harm to animals). I'm not saying these guys ARE serial killers, but I honestly cannot imagine harming another creature. (I am, by the way, vegetarian / vegan, which probably makes this so much more horrifying for me).
I've also come across the guys who are like "I have this fetish and it's really weird and most girls won't do it.." - this always makes me cringe.. - but it turns out to be something like.. will you flex your calves for me, or will you dress up like a clown, or will you blow your nose into a tissue and then show me the tissue because I have a tissue fetish.
These dudes, to me, aren't sick. A little weird, sure, but I have weird turn-ons too.
To address the judging point that cam2cam brought up, I don't usually judge my guys. I have a pretty strong band of regulars, and I like to have personal conversations with them. Yeah, some are a little weird or the things they say rub me the wrong way ("I guess if you're too busy to teach me to sext, I'll just practice with my cousin. We've messed around a bit before, I'm sure she's fine with it"), but if *I* am on sites working, and I consider myself to be fairly average, then I have no right to judge the guys on the sites PAYING either. Most of my guys are pretty normal.
(maybe I'm just lucky, or maybe they all keep secrets better than I'd like to think haha)
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Such a weird troll thread. This person makes no sense. There are some real sickos out there. People that have strange fetishes that can cause actual harm to any person/animal that they want to use for their own selfish reasons. If you think beast,rape,torture, incest, or anything like that is a normal "sex" act then you seriously need help.
Yes, people are judgmental about us. But that still doesn't really match the topic that you brought up.
Woah! Where did this baiting troll thread come from?
Ah well, I am bored. I'll bite. I don't think that my custies are 'sick in the head' or that 'they can't find a 'real' woman.'
I am going to get my kumbaya-yas out right now. I like to compare to myself like the show 'Touched by an Angel' but with more sex. (*smirks*)
What I mean by this is that we are all human. We've all have been lonely and it is its own personal hell. I think by making a connection with another person, even for a short time and helping them feel a sense of relief from that loneliness in some small way can make the world a better place.
Oh, and the money is good too.![]()
my customers are amazing!![]()
The only people that I think are really sick are guys that go to cam sites trying to push a cam model to meet them or to be their girlfriend with a 50-60 year age gap. There is something fundamentally wrong with their reality that they aren't able to connect and be honest with themselves.





Let me answer the question. I don't think my customers are sick. I am actually very appreciative of their support and admiration because being a Transsexual woman, society treats me like shit. I get treated like a pariah and shunned daily. They have provided me with a better quality of life. Not to say that there aren't some crazy requests but it is up to me to decide where I draw the line. I am in full control of what I am made to do.
I guess I am pretty lucky because the majority of my custies are very nice. They know I love compliments and prefer cash so the pvts keep on cumming![]()
What drives me crazy are the guys in general who push to be their girlfriend/marry them so that they 'can take care of you'.
I was taking care of myself before you decided to push your 'relationship ideals' on me and I will be taking care of myself long after. This isn't the 1900s. I will not become a spinster or die and old maid because some man didn't decide I was 'worthy' enough to marry.
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I love all my regulars. They treat me like a princess and I thoroughly enjoy my time with them. Of course there are assholes but that's going to happen no matter where we are. That's what we have a ban button![]()
I actually really enjoy my customers. The majority of my customers are just looking for company, and for someone to notice them. I always enjoy a good conversation, so I find it enjoying talking with my custies.
Are there ever some once in a blue moon customers that drive me nuts? Absolutely. Granted I can also name a few people IRL that drive me nuts too!





A cam model made a post about how the subject of rape came up in a convo with a customer. She found herself opening up to him about how she had actually been raped, and the guy responded by saying "Mmmm, thanks bb" and ending the session.
THAT son of a bitch is sick.....
There are plenty of NORMAL guys on cam sites. I don't think any of the models on here said that all of them are sick. And if guys don't want models to think that way about them, then they need to refrain from asking her questions about her children, and saying shit like "I wanna rape you so bad, bb." *rolls eyes*
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