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    Do you have any ways and means? I have in the past, brought mine little gifts, sent them pictures etc. Usually the ones I have known will spend a bit more £ than most, ones I could rely on to know I would make money on an otherwise quiet night.
    Some can be quite difficult though, expecting preferential treatment that goes beyond my comfort zone, or getting funny with me if I spoke to other customers when they were about.

    Anybody had issues like that and how did you get around it?

    I would like to keep them giving (obviously) without doing things that I do not feel comfortable with.

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    Default Re: Keeping regulars sweet?

    Text messages etc.

    There are ways of suggesting you need more money from him instead of having to spend your time with another man- but some men are going to be jealous regardless because on some level I'm sure they realise that you aren't available to them.
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    Default Re: Keeping regulars sweet?

    My experience with regulars (in the USA) is that if you give them anything at all above and beyond what other customers get, they will use your generosity to manipulate you. If you give them an inch they will try to force a mile out of you and then your life will become a constant tug-of-war just to keep your boundaries and your sanity, assuming you have some (not everyone in this industry does).

    My advice is to never give your regulars anything beyond allowing them to keep their fantasies. The best thing you can do is leave them hanging, hoping and wondering. The vast majority of regulars are people with very poor social skills who aren't capable of real relationships (in my opinion) and they know they are paying for your time, they know you are a commodity that can be bought. But for your own sake you need to leave work at work or being a commodity will transfer into your personal life and once they get you out of the showroom and away from anyone who would hold them accountable they are going to hit all the speed bumps as fast and as hard as they can and unlike a rental car they don't have to pay for any damages or worry about loosing their deposit.

    It could be as simple as having your work phone turn into something you absolutely dread. Or you might find yourself having to deal with someone who believes they own you. Little gifts tend to be interpreted as promise rings and wedding dowries or they become a distraction. Why would a guy pay to come in and see you when he can spend some alone time with a picture you sent him of yourself on your smart phone?

    The best thing you can do is be aware of what your customer is paying for, time spent with you. That is your commodity and that is what you are selling. And strippers are like restaurants to men, sometimes they will eat Italian for months and months, making that Italian restaurant their regular haunt but then they will suddenly decide they love Mexican food instead. And you can't take it personal or spend any energy (that could otherwise be used to profit) worrying about it.

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