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    Default Am I doing it wrong?

    These dudes get into private w/o asking first, then the pay a dollar, then they want me to get naked.

    I tell them they have to pay me more to see more, and they say, but we're in private! then they log off, if we're in private does that mean they get whatev?
    I just gotta be me!

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    all day today i kept saying this aint burger king or mcdonalds u cant have it ur way till u pay then a guy was all i just want a sample im all this aint baskin robins either

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    Default Re: Am I doing it wrong?

    Quote Originally Posted by Eye View Post
    These dudes get into private w/o asking first, then the pay a dollar, then they want me to get naked.

    I tell them they have to pay me more to see more, and they say, but we're in private! then they log off, if we're in private does that mean they get whatev?
    Just my advice any other advice may differ.

    Okay, when a guy comes into private, say "hi, what would you like to see" as a first thing. Slowly strip after they answer and begin to oblige their requests. Some guys will leave right after you ask, some guys tell you. Get naked slowly, but don't tell them "you have to pay more to see more" you will get BAD BAD BAD comments from doing that kind of thing.

    Basically, it's about the "stall" you don't want to get naked immediately, but you don't want to push away your custies, or worse, get a rep as a girl who doesn't get naked in pvt like she says she will.

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    Whenever guys go into private they are paying you the amount you have set up already as your per minute price. So every minute a man is in private, you are getting paid. But still, for the first thirty seconds a guy doesn't get charged so like the other girl said tease him, rub your breasts inside your clothing but never show pussy before those thirty seconds are up. After that, he's charged for one minute and after one minute he's charged by the second so feel free to do whatever you're comfortable with.

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    u on a token based site or ppm site?
    if ppm, ur rate should be set to what u want to be paid
    i dont know of any site that lets anyone enter pvt/group without the customer paying the rate u set tho
    if token based, maybe have in your profile or room topic the minimum tkns before nudity?

    whoever is in pvt with you gets what your willing to offer, I assume u know your performance boundaries already & to not do anything ur not personally comfortable with
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    Let's get this money ladies!!

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    Pretty much what drearea, Seductive, and WealthyCamChick said. The guys are paying per minute if they're in a private chat with you, so you don't need to ask for more. However, if you're on Streamate, you can tell men that you require a block session for certain things such as anal, fetish, shower/bath shows, or anything else if that makes you more comfortable or for the convenience.

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    No need to tell custies they have to pay more to see more. When they take me pvt, I usually ask for their name, where they're from and 'how can I make it worth THEIR while', and if they cam. In my personal experience, if a custy want you to take all your clothes off after he takes you pvt RIGHT AWAY, then the bastard will most likely be a ONE minute man.
    I am not a one minute type of girl, I want to develop a personal 'bond' so they'll remember be and cum back. Quality over quantity any day!
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    Default Re: Am I doing it wrong?

    Everyone said it better than I could. I agree with all of them.

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    One of my biggest problems in camming is getting naked too quickly. Like, I have a little stopwatch thing that lets me know when their free 30 seconds is up. I ask what they want to do. Sometimes they don't even answer, which is really obnoxious (I still have issues not knowing what to do here). That's when I slowly start to strip down. But I think my new strategy will be to talk to them and tease them until it hits the 1:30 minute mark. I can't stand the cheap asses that leave after like... 2 minutes. Hopefully it will work.

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    If you are on SM and haven't raised your rates yet, it's recommended in many places that you do so. I think it starts out at like $1.99 a minute for private on SM and most girls recommend you bump it up to at lest 3.99 or 4.99 a minute instead, even if you are new. This higher rate tends to deter "one minute men" as well. Also, on SM, the first 30 seconds of private chat are free for them, so take the first 30 seconds to do what everyone else recommended: ask what they want, make sure your cam is adjusted, etc.
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    Do these things mainly only work on Streammate or would they be good tricks of the trade for any camsite? I just closed my studio account there (Thanks to Roast and the "How to avoid studios" thread) but I work other cam sites. Would these tricks be considered normal ways to have a good intro and outro to pvt or would they just annoy guys? I'm trying to build up my repeats and get longer shows.
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    Always dress like you're going to bump into the woman seeing the man who broke your heart.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Snowy0Star View Post
    Do these things mainly only work on Streammate or would they be good tricks of the trade for any camsite? I just closed my studio account there (Thanks to Roast and the "How to avoid studios" thread) but I work other cam sites. Would these tricks be considered normal ways to have a good intro and outro to pvt or would they just annoy guys? I'm trying to build up my repeats and get longer shows.
    If you're on a site where the guy starts paying the second the private starts, I wouldn't stall too much. I wouldn't immediately start humping a giant dildo either, but I would ask him what he wants while flirtatiously getting undressed within the first few seconds of the private. Guys understand why girls stall during the first 30 seconds on SM, but I think it would piss a guy off if you were still fully clothed after 30 seconds on MFC, unless he made it clear that he wanted you to take your time or just talk to him.

    Just my $.02.

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    Agreed! If they are already paying your per minute rate, I would generally not ask for even more on top of that. Of course be somewhat slow, but guys DO NOT take kindly to time-wasters. I like reading other girls' reviews and the comments that say "Time waster" are quite off-putting.

    That being said, make sure you are charging a rate that represents what you do in private. That way you don't have to ask for more. The only time I ever ask for tips while in private is if the guy wants to be a money slave. Or if it's a role-play/action that I don't normally do. But in that case, I usually just say I don't do that normally. But that I could be persuaded, *wink*.

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    Thax for the insight Caroline and Red =^y^=
    Quote Originally Posted by BombshellBelle View Post
    Always dress like you're going to bump into the woman seeing the man who broke your heart.
    Quote Originally Posted by sexyadrienne View Post
    Yes, sex sells, but it sure as hell doesn't sell itself!
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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyAdams View Post
    You're a sip of fine champagne darling, and the guys who deserve to taste you should be able to buy the whole glass.


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