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    I guess I'll throw my hat in as well. Take my opinions for what they're worth (not much).

    Quote Originally Posted by hotexoticdw View Post
    There isn't one cookie cutter person of either sex that everybody fits the mold of. I still believe there are girls who don't mind or even like to be given the attention by MOST guys, maybe not all and you won't burst my bubble you just won't convince me. There may be some genuinely who have problems and some who do not, I don't think someone who is going to be traumatized for life for being groped should be running around naked, grinding dudes laps, and getting fondled all day. That's not healthy from any mental health standpoint. The complex probably started for many of said women from the stigmas associated with sexuality, being called a hoe or slut all the time for example by other women.

    I agree with you Rick, probably OFTEN making these tough choices they wouldn't otherwise make. I hope the job market expands so girls like that aren't strippers at all anymore.
    First, I think everyone has a different interpretation of 'attention'. There's attention in the form of compliments and flattery and there's attention in the form of groping, licking, harassment, etc.

    Second, if the only girls who were strippers were the ones who genuinely enjoyed stripping and all of the negatives that come along with the job, there may only be about two strip clubs in the entire country. That wouldn't bode well for a dancewear store. I've never worked as a stripper so I won't try to speak for them (especially on a forum full of actual strippers), but I'd say that more appreciate the financial and scheduling benefits from stripping than the job itself. I have worked in restaurants and while I didn't enjoy the actual job, I did appreciate that I could work around my school schedule. The tips on weekends were pretty good. Other than that, it's not like there are any intrinsic benefits to working as a waiter. I don't think many people found the job itself rewarding.

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    Hotie, dude...

    The problem I have with just about everything you are posting here is that you are blaming everyone but yourself for the possibility that your grabbing a dancer's tits may make her dislike you even if she says it's OK for you to do it. It seems to me that the only dignity at risk here is your own since you are so afraid to admit that grabbing stripper ass is just something you need to do even if the strippers don't like it.

    The first thing you have to do is come to grips with the simple reality that dancers dance to pay their bills. Everything they do and allow customers to do is done so that they can make a lot of money and pay their bills. You can prattle on and on about everyone being different and blah blah blah but I'm never going to buy into your idea that dancers don't like getting groped because of some sort of societal stigma that's been attached to it. For the ten or twelve years that I've been going to high contact clubs I've listened to dancers talk about how disgusting most of the guys are who poke and prod them (with full permission). Because ITC is a business relationship they will always stop short of telling ME that I make their flesh crawl since they want my money but I'm not naive enough to believe that I'm the exception to the rule. You need to stop kidding yourself into thinking that you are somehow different from every other guy who goes to a strip club to buy full contact LD's.

    To be clear, no one, well, at least not me, is saying that you are a bad person for wanting to pay strange women to grind on your lap. They are doing it to earn money and if you are a paying customer you are helping them to achieve that goal.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hotexoticdw View Post
    I think the underlying reason (which I think can be changed by a major paradigm shift and it will occur) women feel like this is somewhat evolutionary but probably also stems from cultural stigma (which exists worldwide) as a monogamous family oriented system allowed for greater survival and the Gods/Goddesses punished the sexual people with pestilence.
    I'll see if I can help salvage this thread. I agree with this point to a degree. I'm sure the external pressures of the job makes it that much more difficult. But I'll revert to my example of working as a waiter. Nobody turns their nose down at waiters, bartenders, etc. (except for REALLY snobby people). Parents don't disown their kids for working as waiters. I can tell people I used to work in the service industry without fear of judgmental looks or condescending remarks. Strippers don't have that luxury sometimes. However, that didn't make working as a waiter that much more fulfilling. At the end of the day, I was just some guy bringing food to people that wanted me to get the hell out of their conversation. I'm guessing here, but I don't think getting rid of all of the stigmas attached to stripping is really going to make girls love their job. Maybe make it more tolerable, but you're talking about wanting strippers who love what they do. I don't think it's as simple as you're making it out.


    Quote Originally Posted by hotexoticdw View Post
    There is likely an archaic reason which goes beyond psychology into the very biology of most females which makes them feel defensive but if we just selectively gene pool strippers we can have this trait removed and a grope friendly defense system as a dominant gene structure in just a few generations anyway. Either that or the strippers will be replaced by Japanese androids, we still seem to be a good 30 years off from that though.
    I'm guessing you're going to lose a lot of people here. It sounds like you're suggesting we breed women to become strippers like we do with race horses. That doesn't really coincide with your previous idea that women who don't want to work in strip clubs shouldn't (although genetic engineering is, I guess, one way to circumvent that). It also doesn't go with the idea that we actually improve the industry by cracking down on exploitative managers, enforce laws regarding touching, hooking, etc. and combat some of the negative stereotypes surrounding the industry (which you also talked about). This just sounds like you're saying we breed girls to put up with the problem instead of fixing it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    ....you want the less desirable dancers because you think they are more desperate.....
    Actually the mature women sometimes have less of an ego issue, I don't want touch a woman who feels she is too good for me.

    But often the mature women (both in clubs and in real life) have outgrown that. They're more earthy, less aloof, more truly comfortable with sex-play. When you've lived and experienced a lot, there's not much to prudish about any more. When a woman who's just spent an energetic session of mutual contact sits down with you for a leisurely drink afterward, to chat about life, goals and family, I don't think it's likely that you give her the creeps and she can't wait to get away.

    These are the women I prefer and they seem to prefer guys like me.
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    Default Re: Milfs, Gilfs, and BBW dancers - Isn't there a place for them?

    Wasn't this trainwreck of a thread originally about Milfs, Gilfs, and BBW dancers?

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    ^lol yes.


    Actually the mature women sometimes have less of an ego issue, I don't want touch a woman who feels she is too good for me.

    But often the mature women (both in clubs and in real life) have outgrown that. They're more earthy, less aloof, more truly comfortable with sex-play. When you've lived and experienced a lot, there's not much to prudish about any more. When a woman who's just spent an energetic session of mutual contact sits down with you for a leisurely drink afterward, to chat about life, goals and family, I don't think it's likely that you give her the creeps and she can't wait to get away.

    These are the women I prefer and they seem to prefer guys like me.
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    I'm guessing you're going to lose a lot of people here. It sounds like you're suggesting we breed women to become strippers like we do with race horses. That doesn't really coincide with your previous idea that women who don't want to work in strip clubs shouldn't (although genetic engineering is, I guess, one way to circumvent that). It also doesn't go with the idea that we actually improve the industry by cracking down on exploitative managers, enforce laws regarding touching, hooking, etc. and combat some of the negative stereotypes surrounding the industry (which you also talked about). This just sounds like you're saying we breed girls to put up with the problem instead of fixing it.
    What you were referring to was a joke. I really should have said sarcasm in parenthesis. Bazinga!

    We went 50 places with this convo. Ultimately I think stripping is a dignified profession and people who feel like trash doing it would be better off finding other work but not everyone feels that way. I hold that opinion and based on knowing plenty of dancers/ex dancers myself, not all feel that way but some don't feel like the garbage of society and regardless of fondling and the disrespect men show they make great money and can live higher quality lives than many of us.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hotexoticdw View Post
    We went 50 places with this convo. Ultimately I think stripping is a dignified profession and people who feel like trash doing it would be better off finding other work but not everyone feels that way. I hold that opinion and based on knowing plenty of dancers/ex dancers myself, not all feel that way but some don't feel like the garbage of society and regardless of fondling and the disrespect men show they make great money and can live higher quality lives than many of us.
    It's all about compartmentalization. Sex workers, be they dancers, escorts, porn actresses or even cam girls have to be good at it in order to be successful at sex work without going half bonkers. In reality a lot of girls do try dancing, hate it and quit pretty early on. More often than not though the money is the great motivator and women learn how to compartmentalize what they do (or let customers do) at work and live the rest of their lives as normally as possible.

    In over twenty five years of clubbing I've never heard a dancer refer to herself as the garbage of society. This sort of pop stripper psychology only comes from customers.
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    See Kelly and that's my point, we aren't cookie cutter molds of each other. We all have different likes, I would LOVE a random woman to come grope me, I would absolutely enjoy it without question and you could line up every woman from here to the other side of the continent to take turns with a few exceptions maybe and anyone who was sick/contagious. I also know girls who are like me, but many aren't, many don't like it but don't care, so many different people in this world and far too many to just generalize.

    I respect you don't like it though, I just think that had you worked in a full contact club you would have been pretty miserable every day and you probably would have done better to work in -ANY- job rather than that if you are especially sensitive about it.
    You'd like a 300 pound toothless woman to come up to you and grope you? You say that now but I bet if the most repulsive woman groped you it would creep you out. That's how dancers feel and to be blunt many (probably most)of the guys who grope dancers are men they wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole.

    No I wouldn't like working in a no touch club but see I didn't have to resort to that. I made money at the no touch clubs and back when I danced the girls who could only work at the touching clubs were the ones not pretty or in shape at all. Back then stripping was entertainment not sex for lonely desperate guys who couldn't get a woman other ways.

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    You'd like a 300 pound toothless woman to come up to you and grope you? You say that now but I bet if the most repulsive woman groped you it would creep you out.
    I think there is a fundamental difference between women and men in that area or maybe it is just something different about a minority of us. I personally can't understand being bothered by it really, not saying I would have sex or want someone who was sick/smelly touching me. It doesn't even make sense to me to be honest, if a complete troll of a woman played with my junk or grabbed my butt for a sec, I would enjoy giving her a little thrill and move on. Not saying I would seek it out. Then again that could be pretty abnormal in and of itself, no clue.
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    I like MILFs, as long as thier actual MILFs, emphasis on the F, aka thier still hot.

    GILF she'd better be as hot as actress Ann Margret, or I'm not interested.

    As for BBW, girls don't have to be aneroxic, but I don't want BBW ethier, someone in the habitiabal zone. I'm not too fussy.

    I feel a little hypocritical as I'm not gorgeous, but then I remember that I'm the one paying, not the other way around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hotexoticdw View Post
    I think there is a fundamental difference between women and men in that area or maybe it is just something different about a minority of us. I personally can't understand being bothered by it really, not saying I would have sex or want someone who was sick/smelly touching me. It doesn't even make sense to me to be honest, if a complete troll of a woman played with my junk or grabbed my butt for a sec, I would enjoy giving her a little thrill and move on. Not saying I would seek it out. Then again that could be pretty abnormal in and of itself, no clue.
    The thing about the 300-lb sweaty, lumbering, smelly bufferillas Kelly is describing is that you, as a male, do not ever see them in the world. You are blind to them. One could walk right up to your face, cock a .38 revolver, hold it to your forehead and blow your brains out without you actually ever seeing her standing there. If you miraculously came back to life and told the story to your buddies, it would go something like this:

    "So check it out. My head just fucking exploded! I was like standing there all by myself and suddenly "kaboom!" and then, lights out."

    In crowds this happens all the time: guys getting spun around or knocked over or have a limb displaced or an arm torn out of its socket from a collision with an object of considerable size, heft, weight, and momentum that they never even saw.

    Now imagine that instead of enjoying the absolute cognitive blackout your brain imposes on you as a form of protection against this visual apocalypse, you had to pay your bills and feed yourself day in and day out for months or years on end by entertaining, seducing, flirting with, listening to, pretending to adore, crawling all over and rubbing your nude body on top of all these freakishly proto-gelatinous Shamu behemoths, with decomposing-corpse breath, slimy octopus hands, pocked, diseased faces and all covered with the gruesome stink of Hell.

    Don't tell me you "wouldn't be bothered by it."

    All there would be is this exact cartoon outline in the wall of your flailing body fleeing in terror.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    You'd like a 300 pound toothless woman to come up to you and grope you? You say that now but I bet if the most repulsive woman groped you it would creep you out. That's how dancers feel and to be blunt many (probably most)of the guys who grope dancers are men they wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole.
    Haha I used to get the equivalent to this every night, at the last club I worked in Daytona--where they would hire literally anyone without a dick, and they would be grabbing my shit on their way in and out of the dressing room (right next to the DJ booth). Still get it sometimes here from some of the unattractive dayshift girls.

    While I could never be entirely oblivious to any woman grabbing my shit, you do kind of learn to roll with it and keep playing the music, talking into the mike without missing a beat, etc. I do think it's a little easier for guys to do this maybe. As far as being oblivious to the sight of really nasty looking women onstage, that is impossible I fear. I wish I could just ignore them entirely, and sometimes I can if it's busy and I am not looking at the stage. That club in Daytona had a couple of grandma types too!

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    No I wouldn't like working in a no touch club but see I didn't have to resort to that. I made money at the no touch clubs and back when I danced the girls who could only work at the touching clubs were the ones not pretty or in shape at all. Back then stripping was entertainment not sex for lonely desperate guys who couldn't get a woman other ways.
    I wish we could return to the way it was, but alas it seems those days are long gone, in all but a few clubs.
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    That's just sad and why I will likely never dance in a club again. I saw quite a few of those in one club I worked in and asked the manager why. He said that now that that they loosened standards on what was allowed (and got money hungry)they hired dancers they would have rejected. I always say that this problem is caused by the owners becoming greedy on money and more competition. I don't really need to mention that the no touch clubs were from somewhat picky (midlevel)to extremely picky (upscale).

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    All Good Things, Your whole post was hilariously descrptive, especially "bufferillas"- loved it and laughing so hard!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    I like MILFs, as long as thier actual MILFs, emphasis on the F, aka thier still hot.

    GILF she'd better be as hot as actress Ann Margret, or I'm not interested.

    As for BBW, girls don't have to be aneroxic, but I don't want BBW ethier, someone in the habitiabal zone. I'm not too fussy.

    I feel a little hypocritical as I'm not gorgeous, but then I remember that I'm the one paying, not the other way around.

    What is it about Ann Margret?
    She's like 70+ years old, and I would crawl on my hands and knees through broken glass just to wank off in her shadow.
    She takes GILF to a whole different level.

    Oh yeeeaaaahhhhh....I'd hit that .

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    What is it about Ann Margret?
    She's like 70+ years old, and I would crawl on my hands and knees through broken glass just to wank off in her shadow.
    She takes GILF to a whole different level.

    Oh yeeeaaaahhhhh....I'd hit that .
    What about Barbara Eden, that chick is nearly 80 and good GAWD she is still gorgeous! Some say men age well like Robert Redford or Sean Connery (who doesn't age), but I have to admit some ladies stay ungodly beautiful all the way until the bitter end. That's nice, at least in most cases that is a nice testament to our plastic surgery technology lol.
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    Ann Margaret and Barbara Eden are not everyone's thing.
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    Ann Margaret and Barbara Eden are not everyone's thing.
    Nope, it is definitely a fetish, but then barbie isn't everyone's thing either. Want to bore the hell out of me, take me to a club with a bunch of cookie cutter barbie types, they can grind me all day and I probably won't even get a charge out of it. Many of the other guys there will be drooling all over themselves, we all simply have our own tastes.

    However club owners who just hire one body type, I think that's pretty dumb. It isn't like there isn't a large enough following of mature/bbw lovers to make successful tube sites after all
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    Quote Originally Posted by hotexoticdw View Post
    Nope, it is definitely a fetish, but then barbie isn't everyone's thing either. Want to bore the hell out of me, take me to a club with a bunch of cookie cutter barbie types, they can grind me all day and I probably won't even get a charge out of it. Many of the other guys there will be drooling all over themselves, we all simply have our own tastes.

    However club owners who just hire one body type, I think that's pretty dumb. It isn't like there isn't a large enough following of mature/bbw lovers to make successful tube sites after all
    Right, you have to have a mix. If I want to see the cookie cutter girls, I can go to Cheetah or Pink Pony in Atlanta. While I like one girl at the PP, the rest are so boring and mostly copies of each other. My kingdom for one girl that is fun, has a wicked sense of humor and is attractive to me.
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    The club I frequent has a good variety of girls, from model types to girl next door types. Each is attractive in some way or they wouldn't be making money. Some of the larger and older girls are also the most fun to talk to and have a dance from. Some of the hottest girls are BORING!! I encourage any girl who is interested in dancing and has personality to not focus on her body type as a negative or an excuse not to dance. It's not a job for everyone of course, and I think the negatives of stripping are what she should focus on when making a decision. Not her looks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Easy Mark View Post
    The club I frequent has a good variety of girls, from model types to girl next door types. Each is attractive in some way or they wouldn't be making money. Some of the larger and older girls are also the most fun to talk to and have a dance from. Some of the hottest girls are BORING!! I encourage any girl who is interested in dancing and has personality to not focus on her body type as a negative or an excuse not to dance. It's not a job for everyone of course, and I think the negatives of stripping are what she should focus on when making a decision. Not her looks.
    Man, you articulated the point of my OP perfectly. There is this old saying I used to hear a lot, "Turn women upside down and they are all sisters" and all I can say is that is probably the biggest load of general nonsense I have ever heard. Every woman has her unique qualities and just about every woman is going to be beautiful to some man out there.
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    This has been a very interesting read. Considering I'm a BBW and GILF. I don't dance at clubs but I have started camming, there is something out there for everyone, that's for sure.
    I just gotta be me!

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    ^ If you cam on MFC I will have to check your channel out, I think the cam girl world just got a little sexier! Variety is the spice of life, no joke, too much of the same is just boring!
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    There is this old saying I used to hear a lot, "Turn women upside down and they are all sisters" and all I can say is that is probably the biggest load of general nonsense I have ever heard. Every woman has her unique qualities and just about every woman is going to be beautiful to some man out there.
    LOL, I've never heard that one but yeah, it's a load of crap!. There is no place where this is more true than in a strip club. Years ago there was a dancer at my then favorite club who was in her 50's, not very attractive and really not much of a dancer. Other girls used to complain if they got put on a stage set with this woman because she would drive away every customer at the stage (none of them wanted to have to tip her). But guess what, this woman had regular customers lined up for private dances every shift that she worked! If you read the male-oriented strip club boards you walk away thinking that only tall blondes with big tits or extras dancers make any money in a club. It's really not the case at all. Most of my faves never get mentioned on the local club chat boards because they don't fit into the "big buzz" categories that guys seem obsessed with...yet they all make very good money. You can be beautiful but boring and spend the night selling one dance to thirty different guys or you can be friendly and approachable, develop some regulars, and not have to work quite so hard to make your money. Every girl is different just as every customer is.
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    What club is that?

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