Are we talking like morbidly obese here, or just thick/average weight dancers?




Are we talking like morbidly obese here, or just thick/average weight dancers?





No one was telling you to spend money on girls who you did not find attractive. My posts were a response to your body shaming not your taste in women. You like what you like. I was saying you do not have to body shaming chicks you do not like. Gosh, it took you awhile to answer the handsome question. Interesting.



After reading this thread....Some of the comments are just so disrespectful, hurtful, and ignorant. I think this is the first time I have ever been offended while reading a thread on SW.
If BBW, Milf, Gilf is not your thing....Move on. It is really that simple. There is no need to be a dick and make unnecessary comments...even if it is 'your opinion'. Didn't your parents ever teach you that if you don't have anything nice to say then shut the fuck up & move the fuck on?! Damn.



I wasn't planning to answer because I thought it was a silly question, but you persisted in asking so I responded. I'm not trying to date you, so if it makes you happy to think I look like a troll, go for it. I'm guessing you aren't my body type anyhow.
I'm not body shaming, I'm criticizing their qualifications as a dancer. Just like I would criticize an artist who couldn't draw, or a quarterback who couldn't throw a pass. Just because a woman is willing to take off her clothes in public, doesn't mean that she should.



To be completely honest with you dear, you are quite frankly expressing your 'opinions' in a very disrespectful manner. To quote you
BBW is not a nice way of saying fat. BBW clearly means big, beautiful, woman(women). Someone in the double digits in pants/dress size is typically classified in the BBW category. A requirement for dancing: know how to dance? maybe? There a number of BBW, milf, gilfs that can dance and they should be allowed to do so if they are comfortable in doing so and have the talent to do so...I don't see how that affects another dancer. Being fit is not a requirement for dancing, a requirement for dancing is clearly having the talent to do so. Each and every dancer should be focusing on their own hustle. Just like I think the guys/gals who go to the club looking for entertainment should seek out what they are into, focus on that. See a bbw? Turn the other cheek. See a milf or gilf? Keep a closer eye on the dancer you are attracted to then who is right in front of you. If you are looking at those women you aren't interested in then maybe the women who you are interested in arent keeping your attention very well then are they which means that may just suck at being a dancer themselves?!
Name calling and being a dick doesn't get you anywhere with the ladies around here. Just makes you look more like a jackass.
For my own sanity, that is all I'm going to say about it.
For the record, I'm not referring to dancers with a few extra pounds. I'm referring to BBW, which is a euphemism for "fat", per the urban dictionary:
"a politically correct description for the plus size woman as opposed to the derogatory term of Fat."
I'm all for calling them BBW as a kinder term, but I don't think they should be dancing. We disagree, and I respect your opinion, and I'll just leave it that we agree to disagree.




What is attractive is subjective, theres a very wide range. It's also generational and cultural. Looking at the exotic dancers at the turn of the century , I'm sure many now would call them fat and our skinny dancers now would be gross to them. I feel like white culture also prizes thinness a lot more than other cultures. Just because you don't like seeing it doesn't mean every other guy agrees with you, and you aren't the ONLY guy who goes to clubs lol. I think you're overreacting a bit and being a bit of a delicate flower w the whole rotten strawberry analogy but w.e.
And what is wrong w milfs and gilfs? There are a ton of moms who strip and age shouldn't matter if you look good.








From a purely statistical point of view, the average American woman is now overweight or obese. If you wanted to see "average" women you may as well save your money and go to the mall.
I second the opinion that you should stick to upscale clubs. They are strict for a reason.
I'm not exactly a "rotten strawberry" but I did see some "withering" on the scale. No biggie. Just gonna clean up my diet and work harder.
With regards to "body shaming": This is a looks based industry and certain clubs have certain standards. Not everyone will fit them. Hell, I can't get into a lot of clubs at my present weight.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest



Gameover, there are guys who like bigger gals, including BBWs. This ties into Tempest's statistics. At the risk of writing something crude, a man I worked with used to say the following, "do you know how I know God loves bigger girls? Because he made soooo many of them!" It's hard to argue with that logic.
He was a highly compensated blue collar chap. And he wasn't afraid to spend it, after his family was taken care of.![]()
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He's exhausting. I bet I would hit the 'block' button so fast if he ever came into my chat room.
And at the club? I would pray the music would drown him out.
He has strong views, because more than likely, the ' one who got away,' when he was in puberty, was the neighborhood Milf/ BBW, or even gilf .
Poor thing has never been able to let that go.








One more thing...
If you aren't into Milfs, Gilfs, or BBWs...Why did you decide to click on a thread that talks about them specifically? Especially if you had nothing nice to say? I mean I get it is a free world and on this forum you are free to speak your mind....but it boggles my mind that you just *had* to throw out your offensive opinion intentionally to most likely hurt someone else who may very well fall into this category. It doesn't take much to just skip over a thread that discusses women you aren't even interested in.
Just saying.
/rant over
Jesus Christ this thread! I shouldn't engage, but I'll bite just this once.
Gameover:
1.) First off, I do get your point that strip clubs should have beautiful women. This is a looks based business and strippers are supposed to be beautiful entertainment.
2.) However where we disagree and what the other girls are saying is just because a girl is bbw or older DOES NOT mean she is unnatractive.
3.) Many Clubs hire these women because customers have different tastes. It's ok if you like the cliche skinny young chick with giant boobs. Nothing wrong with that! But you don't speak for all men. Lots of men enjoy these types of entertainers as well as heavier or older ones.
4.) I'm so confused at your strong animosity towards bigger ladies. If you don't find them attractive then fine, but I don't see how seeing one heavy woman is so repulsive to you that it ruins your whole time.
To any heavier Dancers: don't let this get you down!!!! You are not "just some woman from the mall" because you are thicker.





"Thicker" and other euphemisms don't do anyone any good, myself included. I gained weight and it doesn't look good.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
I posted because the thread asked if there was a place for BBWs in strip clubs, and I believe pretty strongly that there isn't a place for them. They really kill the mood for me in a club. I felt strongly about it and so I posted. Why should I not post about a topic that really bothers me?
And, I've said nothing against milfs or gilfs. I'm fine with milfs and gilfs as long as they are attractive and fit.
How many BBW do you see in Playboy? There is a reason. It is not helpful to an obese woman to tell her that she doesn't need to change. Being obese is bad for your health, and is not attractive to most people. It is something they CAN change. Calling them BBW is a disservice to them. To me, this is just as stupid as not keeping score at kids sports games. Telling kids that scores don't matter is not preparing them for the real world. In business and life, we DO keep score.




^ they just recently did a playboy w Ashley graham actually lol. Hardly obese but she's no twiggy blond chick w fake bolt ons. They also had an older woman on there.
As I said, what's considered attractive is changing as it's very much generational and cultural. Maybe morbidly, morbidly obese has never been "in" but there's so much in between. YOU don't find it attractive =\= it not being attractive at all lol sorry



Well, playboy has a different sort of look they like so of course there really aren't any BBWs but I still don't think playboy is everyone's ONLY standard of hot. I am a woman who is into woman and the women I see in playboy don't really appeal to me. I prefer exotic women with body mods and playboy doesn't tend to go for those types either so I don't necessarily think someone isn't desirable just because they would never appear in playboy. I know quite a few men who feel the same way as I do. I definitely go for more sucidegirl and than playboy.
You prefer fit women and smaller body types. I get that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody has a right to their preference no matter what that preference is, but I think what people are trying to say to you is that there ARE men who want to see other things which is why strip clubs hire some women who aren't necessarily appealing to you.
I also won't deny the fact that VERY large women are an acquired taste. It's a niche but there are men out there who are who only love very large women, so that's why some strip clubs have one or two there. If they weren't making ANY money and NOBODY wanted to see them they wouldn't be working there.













"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





You better hope that your words don't prove prophetic, Game over. Now there might be strip clubs that have bbw donkey shows.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
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