Warning: A lot of TMI here:
So, I've been having sex for a little over a year now and I've yet to have an orgasm from vaginal intercourse.![]()
I'll have amazing O's from oral - but that happened, to completion, just twice. I like "manual" as well (not sticking fingers in - ouchies!), but have yet to come across a guy who can actually be gentle with that region.
Intercourse, on the other hand, feels nice but has nowhere near enough stimulation to fully get me off. I have sex so infrequently since losing my virginity that often times getting the guys penis all the way in still hurts a bit at first. Even guys playing with my breasts either feels like absolutely nothing or it just..pinches. Yes, I've tried other positions, they usually just hurt worse or are really difficult. And oh yea - my G-spot? It just makes me really want to pee. When I tried sensitivity creams with my S.O. the cream made his junk too sensitive for him to finish, and I've insulted enough guys already by using toys in bed.
Its gotten to a point where I really can't blame the guys, I just feel like something is wrong with me.
I feel like I'm surrounded by people who love sex, and sex is great, and everyones having nights full of glorious sexification, and guys want to have sex with me, and happy couples must have happy sex, and good sex is one of the indicators of true love, and, and, and...I hate it. I'm starting to fucking hate sex. Each time I get so excited thinking "this time will be different" but it just ends up the same: a sloppy rough fuck with me telling him to "harder!" "faster!" not because I enjoy it but because they'll hopefully finish faster and go to bed....
But I want to find pleasure in it so, so bad. What am I doing wrong? Is there some secret I didn't get? Or are my sexual partners just that shitty?
...I've been having pillow talk with my vibrators...please help![]()



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I always think about sex, I am always so horny but when I finally have sex, I don't feel that much pleasure and can't wait for it to end...


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