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    Duh Ugh 1-3 minute privates!

    Is this the norm ladies? I do have my share of longer ones but alot these guys take you private and want you to strip immediately and once I'm naked and start playing with myself they watch for 30 seconds and end the show. After multiple 1-3 minute shows my vagina feels like its going to fall off LMAO. Is this the norm for you ladies or am I doing something wrong? Is there a way to try an prolong them a bit? I now truly understand the meaning of one minute men!

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    Default Re: Ugh 1-3 minute privates!

    whats your price? i find lower prices realllllly attract the 1 minute men.
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    Default Re: Ugh 1-3 minute privates!

    3.99 a min - I'm just starting so I wasn't sure what to charge :/

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    Default Re: Ugh 1-3 minute privates!

    I go real slow and ask what they are in the mood for etc. I do not get undressed right off the bat either, I take my time. Maybe I am submissive but I don't get undressed until they ask and when they ask nicely! I am new too but these ideas were suggested by these great ladies and they work. I spend less time getting undressed and dressed again now.

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    Default Re: Ugh 1-3 minute privates!

    good advice thank you! so as a general guideline how many minutes in is it appropriate to so more than just get naked?

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    Quote Originally Posted by italianstarcamgirl View Post
    good advice thank you! so as a general guideline how many minutes in is it appropriate to so more than just get naked?

    I try to strip and talk about what the guy wants for 2-3 minutes if I can.
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    Default Re: Ugh 1-3 minute privates!

    i'd say its all about the tease, draw it out.... but also be aware that a lot of these hit and run guys might be recording the shows to publish elsewhere on net

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    Id say it's somewhat normal.
    Some days on sm id have a crap load of guys coming (cumming? lol) and going throughout longer privates. Sometimes the same damn cheapass staying for less than 30 secs, leaving and coming back. grrr
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    Default Re: Ugh 1-3 minute privates!

    1-3 privates usually make up the majority of my privates. I never get nude till after the 1 minute mark. I haven't figured out how to draw it out much longer than that but I have a timer on my computer to make sure I slow myself down and actually take 1 minute.

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    I've learned to make getting undressed take about 3 minutes or so. Toy play doesn't happen until about 5 minutes. Depends on the guy though too. The more the have spent on me the faster it tends to go, of course once they've spent enough you kinda know exactly what they love about what you do and you can stall that way too.

    Getting shows from girls can also be a great teaching tool if you want to know exactly how to do it. When I first started I had to work on getting that rhythm down, after a while though you'll get into a groove and be able to do it without it being so hard anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melodie View Post
    Id say it's somewhat normal.
    Some days on sm id have a crap load of guys coming (cumming? lol) and going throughout longer privates. Sometimes the same damn cheapass staying for less than 30 secs, leaving and coming back. grrr

    Yeah, and then SM support tells us to "report and ban the user". Oh, because you've made it SOOOOOOO easy for us to do so. Especially if I'm fingers deep in my vagina, I'm totes about to jump up click the guy's profile and report him. THEN wait for him to come back and ban him as surely he's left already.
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    I make the mistake of going too fast if I feel a bit nervous. It's easier if I haven't already been chatting to the person in free preview because then I can ask them how they are and wait for them to reply etc. I like to dress up in character and do a kind of role play strip, it gives me a reason then to show them what I'm wearing and invite them to be a corresponding character, imagining that x,y,z is happening.
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    I managed to get a few 9-11 minutes last night yay! I slowed it down a bit. :roflmao: when I got my first private ever I was like OMG a private! and clothes all came off within 15 seconds.

    Last night when they were asking me do stuff for them, I'd ask them to say please which dragged it out a little bit too.

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    Short privates aren't a problem for me on MFC anymore, because I've been firm with my "have at least 400 tokens for private" policy, and I don't accept privates from random guys who've never tipped.

    On ImLive and AdultWork, the very short private shows are normal, and it annoys me. I notice that guys (especially on AdultWork) will ask where from, and they'll leave as soon as I tell them...lol. It doesn't say that I'm an escort on my profile, and they need to stop wasting models' time with that "Do you meet?" crap. AW has escorts...the guys need to go to THEIR rooms instead.


    Quote Originally Posted by italianstarcamgirl View Post
    Last night when they were asking me do stuff for them, I'd ask them to say please which dragged it out a little bit too.


    I'm often telling guys to "say please" too...lol.

    I don't like guys telling me "turn around" or "show your ass," etc, because I'm not a fucking dog...lol. I smile and tell them to say please, and they usually do. .
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    ^ so I'm not the only one dealing with really short privates on AdultWork phew!! the guys I run into on there are so picky too
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    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    ^ so I'm not the only one dealing with really short privates on AdultWork phew!! the guys I run into on there are so picky too


    I don't know how other models manage to get long privates. The only site I get long privates on is MFC because I REQUIRE that guys have x tokens or more for private.

    On AW and ImLive, I could be showing off and teasing at just the right pace, looking good, and the guy's clearly happy, and then BAM! it says 'Private has finished'. *sigh* Hmmm...I thought he was "horny and ready to play." LOL.

    There are some really cheap guys out there, and I swear they say to themselves "Wow, I really like this girl, but I WILL NOT spend any more than 3 minutes private chat with her." LOL and SMH.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    I don't know how other models manage to get long privates. The only site I get long privates on is MFC because I REQUIRE that guys have x tokens or more for private.

    On AW and ImLive, I could be showing off and teasing at just the right pace, looking good, and the guy's clearly happy, and then BAM! it says 'Private has finished'. *sigh* Hmmm...I thought he was "horny and ready to play." LOL.

    There are some really cheap guys out there, and I swear they say to themselves "Wow, I really like this girl, but I WILL NOT spend any more than 3 minutes private chat with her." LOL and SMH.
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    I honestly think that alot of the guys are room hoppers and the same way we have timers they have timers also. I swear I set my timer at 5 mins and most of the guys always leave @ exactly 5 mins. So yeah its not u its just that they literally try to spend a few mins with every model on the site lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    ^ so I'm not the only one dealing with really short privates on AdultWork phew!! the guys I run into on there are so picky too
    no its not just u, i've had so many quickies on there lately that i feel like i been gang banged lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by WealthyCamChick View Post
    i've had so many quickies on there lately that i feel like i been gang banged lol
    u are lool

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    The guys who are signing up are getting $20 to spend, so if you cost $3.99/min, that's a 5 minute show. And I guess you should be grateful they spent most of it/some of it on you.

    Seriously, most of my shows are pretty short. I'm a believer in improving myself and my game, but some guys just don't have a lot of money to spend on camgirls. In fact, I'd say that MOST guys don't have a lot of money to spend. And most guys are all about getting it as cheap as possible.

    I understand this is our income and it's super frustrating, but sometimes I try to look at it from their perspective. I clip coupons, read sale papers & try to get things for cheaper. As long as they're not outright abusing the system, they're just doing what most other people in this world try to do. Sucks to think of ourselves as a product to be haggled over, but lots of men see us this way & they're not entirely wrong. So don't be offended and don't feel like a failure.

    You can, however, choose which people you cater to once they've shown you what they're likely willing to spend. But just remember that guys can surprise you. I've had many customers come in for 32 seconds the first time then stay 10 minutes the next time. And then I was grateful I wasn't rude or demeaning.

    Grocery store clerks don't despair over customers using manufacturer coupons. They didn't hand them out, the deals all go on at a higher level. SM has made some deals for us, some good and some not so good. And we can only control what we do.

    So sure, improve your hustle all you can. But recognize that there are some things, like the economy, that you can't control.
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    I'd like to suggest an alternate theory since you are new. If you have guys coming into prvt and leaving very quickly it could very well be that theres something wrong. Have you had any feedback? Hows your ratings? Any repeat customers yet? Any guy thats viewed your show and has been back in your free chat since?

    Since your new a lot of guys are going to be popping in and spending a few bucks checking you out.You really only get one chance to make a good first impression. Do you have good lighting? flattering camera angles? Do you swing the camera wildly around giving the viewer a headache as you zoom in to the money shot? Is the color settings on your cam set right so you dont appear orange or washed out?

    Are you giving away too much in free chat that theres nothing left to do in prvt chat but cum and leave? You want to peak a viewers curiosity in free chat. not over stimulate them. Learning how to effectively work free chat is hard and it takes practice. You'll get there but it takes time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by annabellz View Post
    I'd like to suggest an alternate theory since you are new. If you have guys coming into prvt and leaving very quickly it could very well be that theres something wrong. Have you had any feedback? Hows your ratings? Any repeat customers yet? Any guy thats viewed your show and has been back in your free chat since?

    Since your new a lot of guys are going to be popping in and spending a few bucks checking you out.You really only get one chance to make a good first impression. Do you have good lighting? flattering camera angles? Do you swing the camera wildly around giving the viewer a headache as you zoom in to the money shot? Is the color settings on your cam set right so you dont appear orange or washed out?

    Are you giving away too much in free chat that theres nothing left to do in prvt chat but cum and leave? You want to peak a viewers curiosity in free chat. not over stimulate them. Learning how to effectively work free chat is hard and it takes practice. You'll get there but it takes time.
    No, I don't usually adjust the camera when I am doing a show - thought I'd like to find an easy way to do so so I have more room to get up and strip ect. I'm working in my living room right now but we are going to change the third bedroom from an office to a cam room hopefully soon. Have had repeat customers and I have guys that have done shows with me that come visit me almost every night in free chat (I understand not everyone has $$$ everyday to drop on me in a private) So far I've been rated 9x eight of the ratings were 5 stars and one was a 3 star. Usually in free chat I just chat, smile, give seductive eyes, lick my lips from time to time and wiggle my ass every so often.

    Here are some pictures from when I was on cam last night - Any feedback on lighting, camera positioning ect?

    Thank you ladies! You are all so helpful I am so happy to have found this forum - given the line of work its not like I can just strike up the conversation with family and friends so its awesome to have this support system in place. (who do not know).

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    Your lighting seems fine to me. Perhaps someone else may have other input but I see nothing wrong. (you may want to consider editing your above post at some point and taking the pics down for privacy unless you want lurkers to be able to connect your SW account to your cam account)

    Oh and I just saw youre charging 3.99. Did you read the raise your rates thread? That could be why youre getting short prvts. Guys with not a lot of money to spend look for lower priced models to get the most bang for their buck.

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    Good point - I'll have to edit it.

    I did read the raising rates thread but thought where I was new to this I should start lower - maybe I should go up a bit? I'm scared to if I raise them noone will take me prvt and I wont make anything.

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