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    I am almost about to throw in the towel with this escort business. These men are so cheap and nasty. They make me hate them. Ugh

    I could see if I had spread eagle shots or motel bathroom pictures but I dont. This is so disheartening. Thank goodness I started with massage. I would be one broke chica right now.

    Guess I gotta check my pride at the door and join one of those review boards where most of the guys will probably only contact me to get discounts for a raunchy, tasteless review. I looked through some of the comments and I see things about other girls like "Oh, she's new and doesnt have any reviews. She has a lot of nerve to be charging $200 for an hour." Wtf? How much are you supposed to pay a decent girl?! Should I just put "2 packs of Marlboro Lights and a can of Diet Coke for 1 hour" on my rates page instead?! Then half of them wondered why they had a crappy experience. Well you paid a girl $60 for 15mins...wtf did you expect? You really thought Adrianna Lima was going to show up at the door in her best VS lingerie offering you a glass of wine and feeding you strawberries?!


    PS. Im not whining, Im just ranting. I know it's not going to be a cakewalk but Im just repulsed by 99% of these guys right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ItsSamyall View Post

    Should I just put "2 packs of Marlboro Lights and a can of Diet Coke for 1 hour" on my rates page instead?!
    Actually that's a pretty good ad..... Worded somewhat differently, and with your actual rates..... It might help biz a bit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikef View Post
    Actually that's a pretty good ad..... Worded somewhat differently, and with your actual rates..... It might help biz a bit.
    I usually would take this as a joke but after the week I've had, Im not so sure. I dont know whether to laugh or cry.

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    It blows my mind that men expect anything even remotely close to a decent experience, when they're booking a 15min appointment.


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    ^^Oh I know, and then they'll write a review saying the appointment was "rushed".

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    I've been getting guys emailing me asking if I'm "GFE" and in the same sentence ask me if I do 15mins/30mins...how the hell am I supposed to provide GFE in 15mins?!

    Im assuming that's their way of asking if I give BBBJs. They think if you're new and don't have reviews, you will do anything. I hate men that prey on desperate girls.

    Thank goodness for FBSM. If I had started escorting first, I don't know where I would be.
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    This scares me =\

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    Default Re: What is up with all these men asking for half hours and 15mins?!

    What sites are you advertising on? If its on BP, then those sort of responses kinda come with the territory. You can't advertise on a place where there are many girls offering 15 minute and 30 minute appointments without expecting to get inquiries for the same service.

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    it doesn't matter where your advertising, these type of inquiries come in waves. even if you advertise on places where girls offer a higher rate you will still get these type of annoyances.
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    From what I've seen, even a girl who did offer a 30 or 15 min session is only considered "worth" seeing again if she allows that session to run over. So to me, guys who seek such things are deliberately looking to rip girls off.

    The best thing to do is put them in their place and fast. I hate how much those hobby board types try to control the market, fuck them! They are desperate for us, that's why they have all this time on their hands to talk shit. Don't let them forget it.

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    Those boards are a trip, especially that BESTGFE. Most of those guys I see posting are disgusting. I see topics like "ISO streetwalkers", "Review BP Car Date"," ISO Affordable Gangbang", etc and I think to myself, "These are really the assholes that hold my escort career in their hands?"

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    Ok first of all, I love penises too much to ever think they're stupid but damn danielle that was funny lol.

    The reason why you are attracting men like that is because you are advertising to them. When you write your ad,
    take your pictures have the client you want to attract in mind. Present yourself as someone of quality and as jannisary
    said - Where you advertise has a lot to do with it. However, I will have to disagree with anyone who says backpage isn't a good place to advertise. It depends on where you are located. It's a regional thing. Backpage can be good or bad.

    Sure there are assholes on review boards but DAMN I must have been doing something right because I've only been fucked with once. If you are a good companion, people will soon realize they cannot fuck with your business. They will get tired of trying to sabotage you and leave you alone. Review board guys can be gross and annoying but the good guys actually outnumber the bad. ALWAYS search the guy's posts to see what type of person he is BEFORE you agree to see him. NOT doing your research on a guy and still agreeing to see him only opens up a can of worms if something were to go wrong.

    As for bestgfe, I used to be on that site. There is nothing wrong with it. I actually liked the majority of the people there. I mean I would spend hours there laughing my ass off at the ridiculous threads and saying off the wall things to the guys. Have fun with it. I just don't understand though.... If you are not a car date girl, why are you looking at the car date threads? Why are you letting what the men post about bother you? Why can't you just post your ads and keep it moving? Bestgfe has A LOT of high rollers that ONLY lurk. I know because I was a prolific poster there and they contacted me all the time wanting to meet up for dates. Some people like Target and others like Saks fifth avenue. There is nothing wrong with any of them. I love a good deal too and dammit if I were a guy I'd probably be on that board trying to find me some "Good cheap head". I mean let's keep it real. Who doesn't like a deal?

    I have been to two bestgfe m&gs and met a few of the guys there and most of them really mean no harm. Yes I charge a premium for services but If I were a hobbyists I'd probably be a cheap ass hobbyist too, I hate spending money. Everyone can't spend $300. Bestgfe is a mixture of markets. There is a high roller section there if you haven't noticed. Stop letting such threads like "Affordable gangbangs" and groups like "Searching for cheap head" bother you and FOCUS on growing, building your business because right now you are worried about the WRONG thing. You are not in the streetwalker market. I can't stand when $300 an hour girls call me up complaining about $50 specials others are charging on backpage. My response is always what the hell does that have to do with you? If the girl wants to sell herself short let her, you are not in the same market as her. Worry about you!

    It's $75 a month to advertise on bestgfe. I have represented ladies that made 10-14k in two weeks just by advertising on bestgfe. Isn't that a good return on $75 a month? One of the ladies I represented went from being just another $300 escort to a hdh in a matter of weeks. She became that popular and a lot of guys on bestgfe refused to pay her rate. What did she do? She took her business elsewhere and she's doing even better now. You need to know where to advertise. You need to know what your time is worth. If you are giving shitty service, in this economy it's not going to fly. If you need to revamp your business with new pics, new texts and new rates - do it. Keep things fresh and interesting and your business is flourish. Treat your client as if he's your long lost lover when you're with him and you'll never go hungry. Read. Better yourself. Save your money for those days things are slow so you're not panicking when things aren't going well. This is what makes a good companion. Take care.
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    You attract guys with your marketing. So yes the guys that contact you have a lot to do with your advertisements. I was an full time escort for 3 1/2 years and I can count on ONE hand how many time someone tried to haggle me. It's not as common as people think. However, I do believe that some ladies get it more than others.

    Tease, You simply overreacted and took down your reviews so guys are going to think you're flaky. I think you should ask ter to reinstate your reviews and go back to being the "old you". Start collecting deposit with greendot. Being out of $200 because someone cancels last minute is ridiculous.

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    You attract guys with your marketing. So yes the guys that contact you have a lot to do with your advertisements. I was a full time escort for 3 1/2 years and I can count on ONE hand how many time someone tried to haggle me. It's not as common as people think. However, I do believe that some ladies get it more than others.

    Tease, You simply overreacted and took down your reviews so guys are going to think you're flaky. I think you should ask ter to reinstate your reviews and go back to being the "old you". Start collecting deposit with greendot. Being out of $200 because someone cancels last minute is ridiculous.

    XOXOXO
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    My bf's old boss as a lover of Escorts but saw the whole set up as a game. No matter what site or how classy or where she advertised, he would try to talk her down on prices or be like "but bb I only need 15 mins" ect Some guys just like to see what they can get away with (read some as ALL)

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