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    ..because a seemingly friendly DJ that I've worked with off and on for 4 years, cold-cocked a dancer in the face to the point of severely bleeding last night. He was allowed to keep working.

    I'm still numb from hearing this.

    We have 3 or 4 huge Russian bouncers in security uniforms working on the weekends. Yet nobody to protect the dancers?
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    Default Re: I was left speechless....

    Quote Originally Posted by Dorien View Post
    ..because a seemingly friendly DJ that I've worked with off and on for 4 years, cold-cocked a dancer in the face to the point of severely bleeding last night. He was allowed to keep working.

    I'm still numb from hearing this.

    We have 3 or 4 huge Russian bouncers in security uniforms working on the weekends. Yet nobody to protect the dancers?
    Shit like this is insane. I've seen managers, bouncers, bartenders, makeup artists, housemoms, and djs rip dancers to shreds (verbally) for sport.

    But I have never heard of anything remotely close to what you've described.
    I've been on the wrong end of "the customer is always right" mentality with security personnel. Many times, sadly, the dancers are placed very low in the pecking order.


    She can press charges. I understand why she may not.... but damn, this situation sucks all around.
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    Default Re: I was left speechless....

    That's horrible! I hope the poor girl it happened to presses charges. Shit like this reminds me how lucky I am to work at a club where the management is reasonable, the DJs range from one that's a totally wonderful human being to one that's somewhat of an asshole but still nothing serious, and the floor guys are 100% on top of things.

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    Wow! I wonder what managements excuse was for allowing that to happen or not doing anything about it? What the hell did she do to have a dj do that to her (I couldn't imagine any good reason that would warrant a reaction so severe!). Wow! Let us know
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    Dj's can be pretty fucked in the head and have weird complexes. One of the dj's at my club brings ghb to work and feeds it to some of the girls. He's on cam for goodness sake!! Like directly under surveilence!!

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    This is what I was told: The girl is apparently a bit of a "chola" from the South Central part of LA. So she's seen her share of gang violence from what I heard. I don't really know her. She got into an argument with usually affable DJ. He ended up punching her in the face. I was told later that night, the DJ was hanging with some of the security guards. He was telling them,"If a bitch comes at me like a man, I'll treat her like a man". I was told the guards were laughing.

    I don't know what they argument was about, but I know that wasn't necessary. I stopped working closing shifts at this club a long time ago. I also try not to work weekends. I was doing this to protect myself from DR & custie drama. I didn't realize that I have to look out for the staff as well.
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    This is horrible and wish I could say I am surprised but am not. I have known many staff to hurt dancers, including DJs, bouncers, manager and more. Why this industry attracts a lot of men who hit women I will never known but have seen things like this. I saw a regular slap a dancer with a manager there who did nothing, I knew a bouncer who would beat up women for sport (never saw this luckily). Sadly this industry attracts a lot of lowlifes who think dancers are trash and of course many outside the industry think this as well.

    If one of these guys had hit me I would have told my dad and he would have had the guy killed or maimed and I am not kidding.

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    Its sad when the people who r supposed to protect us disrespect us just as badly as shitty customers do..There is nowhere to turn..

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    I'm still really shocked. The DJ has always been so nice to me. I just hope she will be ok. He really shouldn't be allowed to work there.
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    Default Re: I was left speechless....

    what club was this at?

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    Club 7557 in Van Nuys
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    Default Re: I was left speechless....

    did that used to be vip or rouge?

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    Default Re: I was left speechless....

    Quote Originally Posted by Dorien View Post
    I stopped working closing shifts at this club a long time ago. I also try not to work weekends. I was doing this to protect myself from DR & custie drama. I didn't realize that I have to look out for the staff as well.
    I should pay you to think for me. I need to write this down so I don't forget.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dorien View Post
    He was telling them,"If a bitch comes at me like a man, I'll treat her like a man". I was told the guards were laughing.
    Sounds like he has previous experience smacking women around. The guards probably envy him because he did what they have often wanted to do, and maybe now they will because he set an example for them.

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    ^
    No, those clubs are located in a different part of Van Nuys and North Hollywood, I think.

    Gosh, I hope he doesn't inspire a chain of violence. I haven't worked with him since I heard about it.
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    That sounds awful honey. Did you dancers help this girl out? The dude is still working there?!?!!

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    ^
    I wasn't there. The dancers that told me were very hush-hush about it and didn't really want to elaborate. But they did say, he did this to the wrong dancer. Apparently, she has connections to gang members who could mess this DJ up.

    I don't want to be around when this happens.
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