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    Default Is it worth the money?

    Since I am addressing cammers, dancers, escorts etc, I was not sure where to post this. But since everyone reads under "The Lounge" I put it here but if I'm wrong, let me know.

    I have this regular who drives me insane however, he spends a lot of money on me and he has been saving my ass during this slow summer. He knows this and he becoming more and more needy. For example, I JUST logged on MFC...20 min or so into it, he PMs me "Let's go Skype." I tell him no, I would like to work on MFC. He gets frustrated at me and logs off. Before that while trying to entertain my room, he is demanding me to send pictures to him at that moment. There are so many annoying little things he does and he gives me this "I dont mean anything to you" BS

    And at the club, I have a regular who spends a lot of money but also getting more and more needy. He is always there in the beginning of my shift, starts my night off great with money, food and drinks but gets upset when I don't answer his text. He would text me trying to initiate small talk but I don't have time for that shit plus I hate texting back and forth about absolutely nothing- it's time consuming. I tell him this and he still takes it personal and also gives me this "I mean nothing to you" BS

    My question is, is it worth the money? This summer would of been a total flop without these two but it's getting so annoying that I'm not sure if its even worth it. I feel like I'm on call 24/7 or something. Do you guys put up with customers needy bullshit for the money? Or am I not being assertive enough? I'm starting to wonder if my peace of mind is worth way more than $$. And for the record, no I don't lead them on, in fact they both know I have a boyfriend.

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    Default Re: Is it worth the money?

    Block his ass dude.
    Maybe hang onto at least one of them until after back to school, lol.

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    Default Re: Is it worth the money?

    I am the same. I'm not the best at stringing along customers bc I like my "Me" time. I hate being bothered when I'm not at work. I wish I was one of those girls that could but I just don't have the patience for it. I say if they are spending money on you, acknowledge them so that they don't feel like they are being ignored but don't let them demand too much out of u!

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    Default Re: Is it worth the money?

    I had that situation at the beginning of summer. He'd demand I do what he asked me to at all times- since he was a "dom" (I don't know why dudes think that this means being an asshole, it doesn't). I kept telling him I'm trying to do a show and I can't just do what he wanted- if he wanted that we could go to private. It was simple stuff like stay laying down on my stomach, sit up when he told me to- but fuck that. I'm not here to be his bitch, I'm here to entertain an entire room. Eventually he stopped pming me or coming in my room- saying "I know your busy with your work" and "I know you don't wanna be with me". I do my best to just ignore regulars when they start needy drama, then they know I won't put up with it.

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    Default Re: Is it worth the money?

    I have one like this too... he is there as soon as I log on SM and is there my entire shift. He messages me on yahoo all night, acts like he's not important to me when I don't reply right away, constantly asks me to "hop on skype". He has also saved me a few times this summer but I feel as though I "paid him back" enough by now (skype shows, pics, texting, etc) yet he still acts like I "owe" him.

    He's also started to tell me that his account on SM is messed up and so he cannot join any more gold shows or take me private until it's "worked out"... yet he is logged into my chat every night. I know from my members account that if he had a billing issue he wouldn't even be able to access chat rooms while logged in. So, he has an "account issue" yet I referred him and so I get 20% of everything he spends on the site.... little does he know that I know he's actually been spending quite a bit on the site, all while telling me he can't join any shows because of his "messed up" account.

    So while he's lying to me about not being able to join shows, he's messaging me non stop on yahoo, texting me, asking me to get on skype, sitting in my room all night, etc. I'm about done with him, I don't "owe" him anything else and at this point he's just becoming a drain on my time and my hustle. So, my suggestion is that if your guys are causing you to focus attention on them and it's taking away from time you could be using to make money, cut them loose. Unless they are currently spending a decent amount of money on you, it's probably not worth it to keep them around.
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    Default Re: Is it worth the money?

    Not from a camming POV, but a SC pov.

    I personally put up with a lot of shit when it comes to money. I have a high tolerance for BS if I'm getting paid. I don't mind texting back and forth. I don't text right away, but I do answer. I make it clear though that I am NOT his g/f. I am a dancer and my time is valuable so I can't answer every text right away. I will answer on my own time. I'm not into stringing customers along, but as long as I'm clear and the customer understands the relationship, it's all good. If the customer can't handle that, it's on them.

    So if you can tolerate his BS, go and get paid. If not, cut him off. Pretty simple, imho.
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