Unfortunately we've gotten a lot of negative feedback about the cam girl breakdown video thread so we've locked it (even though I think it's an interesting thread) and started this one. Some people have found that the cam girl in the video is, if not a SW member, at the very least aware of SW and possibly was reading the thread (I totally would, I'm a gossip whore when it comes to me). Since she's most likely reading this thread too, let's give her some advice and constructive feedback.
Let's keep the thread free of, "you should have" and, "If I were you I would have". That never makes anybody feel better. Let's concentrate on support and advice for what she can do moving forward to make herself better.
Here's mine:
Stop camming if you can. It's obvious that you hate it and that it damages you. If it's true that the breakdown you had on video is a typical one for you, this is really harming you in a permanent way. You seem like you could be a really great person, you're very pretty, and I'd hate for you to go on doing this to yourself. Get a job outside of the industry, if you can, and seek therapy. Your accent indicates that you're from the US. There are lots and lots of programs for low or no cost therapy sessions. You can get in one, I'm sure. If you get in one and you don't like the therapist, go to a different one. Your therapist works for you. You need to be happy with the person and able to talk to them and be comfortable sharing intimate things. You can do it. I trust and believe in you. Your sense of self and will is clearly very strong. If you apply that to doing something that makes you happy and to healing from this ordeal, I'm sure you will be successful.




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