she got wet during a dance. does that mean she likes me? serious question, NOT TROLLING as i did not make this up.
she got wet during a dance. does that mean she likes me? serious question, NOT TROLLING as i did not make this up.
Not at all.





No she needs diapers.
LOL priceless! So very true.
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Nope, I often even put lube on before I dance to make it look like I'm wet
i get horny all the time when i work. but that is only because i turn myself on and i get into this zone. its the only way i get through the night. love and entertain myself.
so no. she doesnt.





The only thing a dancer likes is your damn wallet!! What will get her "excited" is a stack of money. That's it.
The end.




Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.
Being a veteran I know better than to imagine an ATF really likes me. My current one though...well I know her name, have her cell # (her real one) and I know where she lives (which is in my neighborhood!), and we're FB friends, and I know lots of intimate details of her marriage and personal life. I even told her yesterday that she shouldn't let even her good regulars know too much about her private life because you know how guys are, and she said, "Yes, I keep it all private but I trust you. I want to share all this stuff". Hmm. I don't ask about any OTC action, and she hasn't offered, although we did touch on the subject yesterday from the perspective of how complicated dating would be since we're both married. Although her H is a guest of Uncle Sam for a while unless he gets out for good behavior, and my divorce is close at hand.
This is the girl that refuses to let me tip her. WTF? She should be taking me for every cent she can, right? I really like her and I suppose the acid test is if she wants to take it farther. I'm cynical enough to think of myself as a shoulder to lean on with cash in his pocket but I'm nowhere near as big a spender as some of her regulars. Well, if she's selling fantasy she gets top grades! I AM an easy mark, huh. I think I have it figured out but it's sure unusual in my experience.





What does "she won't let me tip her" mean exactly? She won't take anything from you or she just declines the couple of bucks here and there that generally constitute tipping? If she's still taking the sizable cash payments from you, it seems declining small tips might just be part of her game plan to keep you on the hook. If she's turning down serious money from you, its probably safe to say your relationship has moved to a different place than strictly dancer/customer status. I have experienced both situations in my club history.
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When I first met her I'd tip $10-20 for VIP or CR dances. When I started seeing her exclusively she started handing the tips back and said I didn't have to do that. I spend about $200 total per visit a few times a month so it's nice money but like I said, she has guys who drop much more on her than I do. She's one of the top earners. I suppose I'd stay in my budget whether it was in tips or dances but she gets 100% of tip money so it's costing her a few bucks when you think about it. I'm very cynical about reality with dancers having been one of those clueless customers in the past. Plus I'm not looking to have any relationship now, let alone with a dancer! I mean, that's the whole point of going to the club in the first place. But...I DO like her. My plan I suppose is to wait see if she asks about an OTC date. I don't want to be another asshole customer that suggests it. She knows I'd be interested if she is anyway. I think...
When I first met her I'd tip $10-20 for VIP or CR dances. When I started seeing her exclusively she started handing the tips back and said I didn't have to do that. I spend about $200 total per visit a few times a month so it's nice money but like I said, she has guys who drop much more on her than I do. She's one of the top earners. I suppose I'd stay in my budget whether it was in tips or dances but she gets 100% of tip money so it's costing her a few bucks when you think about it. I'm very cynical about reality with dancers having been one of those clueless customers in the past. Plus I'm not looking to have any relationship now, let alone with a dancer! I mean, that's the whole point of going to the club in the first place. But...I DO like her. My plan I suppose is to wait see if she asks about an OTC date. I don't want to be another asshole customer that suggests it. She knows I'd be interested if she is anyway. I think...

Good point. That's why I'm easy I suppose.





Don't over-think it too much. Turning down a tip after you've spent $200 is not that big of a deal if you are a regular and a nice guy that she looks forward to seeing at the club. If you showed up looking to waste her time and spend nothing I'm sure it would be a different story. You don't and she appreciates that. To be blunt you are never going to hear a dancer talk on this site about guys they actually like and don't care how much money they spend. it's just something that happens but it's not the kind of ITC relationship anyone can go looking for.
Now, the whole OTC thing can also be complicated or simple depending on the two people involved. I've had girls who will gladly dance for me and take my money even if we are friendly OTC. I've had others who asked me to stay out of the club when they were working and we weren't even having sex OTC. Everyone's brain is wired a little differently when it comes to friendship, intimacy etc. Bottom line, if you are both on the same page it's all good. If it starts to get weird it's probably already too late to fix it. Lol, there are definitely a few clubs and dancers that I have on my "avoid, too much drama" list.
The whole "does she like me" thing is never that simple but one thing I've learned is that dancers don't generally leave much to the imagination when it comes to letting you know how they feel about you. In my experience, being trusted is a lot more fun than being the cute guy or the money guy.






Easy, wait till she starts refusing the big money. Then it gets confusing as hell. Being in that gray area is a like a blind man in a dark room in the middle of nowhere.
In my limited experience with this - you can't really expect to put a label on it, so don't try. Instead, just follow her lead. She'll tell you where she wants to go and how fast she wants to get there. Otherwise, status quo rules the day. Safer and saner that way.
^ When a dancer wants to be your girlfriend, it's not just that the money is not important, it's that the money is never even there; it's not even visible at all, and never even enters the room at all.
A dancer who wants to be your girlfriend shows up at your door, fucks you within an inch of your life, plays crazy kinky games, won't leave, texts customers from your bed, sleeps in with you every day for a month or two or more, wants to move her stuff into your house, and basically takes up every inch of your life.
Pretty much like every hot girl who is used to guys giving in to them, at least for the short term.





Well, maybe if you only date 20 year olds....
The last couple I've been involved with rarely give their phone number to customers, have their own homes and like living alone, will sometimes go for a week or more without begging me to come over and have have sex with them and, as a rule, don't like games...
Granted they are all over 35 but I'm almost 55 and that's the age range-and maturity level-that I prefer.
^ I can only speak for myself, but what all my experience and "maturity" have taught me is that the women do the choosing.
Agreed. I suppose my experience is to shop in all aisles. I try to be as broad-minded as possible on that subject.
Except the GILFs. No offense to those with this particular fetish, but the Depend aisle was never a place where I thought my cart belonged.





LOL, No GILF's for me either. Also, no drama, no daddy complexes, no women the same age as my kid and her friends and, most of all, no women looking to have kids! I admit to being a lot more open minded on who I spend on in a club than who I want in my bed.


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