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    So i dont know if this is common but we had a "staff meeting" at the club not too long ago and it was a witch hunt. the owner has a knack for publicly bashing each dancer infront of the other dancers and this time it was me. now im still a newbie ive only be dancing since May but i make my money...it isnt alot but its more then what i made at other jobs. Needless to say in front of all the dancers,and staff he points me out and says im a gorgeous girl but im boring...then proceeds to hop up on stage and imitates how i dance on stage! ...everyone was laughing, it was like high school all over again.He then tells me that maybe this isnt the place for me that he needs "showstoppers" and people who will invest there time in the club and that i have a week to get it together or he's letting me go. I'm 5'11 in 6 inch heels on a small ass stage with a very small pole its very hard to keep up among girls who are no taller then 5'6. I was embarrassed and felt disrespected and i havent been back since... the owner has called and called and i expressed how if he felt my performance was subpar that discussing it in private would have been more professional.

    I havent been back in 2 weeks...my self esteem has been shot,i have never had an issue with my body image until i came here.
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    Default Re: im tall cut me a [email protected]#$'N break

    Fuck him, what an asshole! If he wanted you and the club to make money, he wouldn't be tearing down your confidence... also, at most clubs a *showstopping* stage show (like lots of advanced pole tricks, etc.) doesn't make the girls (let alone the club) much more money... and the clubs where stage performance does matter are usually clubs with big stages... so it looks like the dudes just bullying you to make himself feel better, not uncommon but also not something you should have to deal with. So just find another club! A lot of customers LOVE tall girls and as long as you are confident you will do fine.

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    Oh my god what a douche! 5'11 is perfect runway model height! Fucking own it! Strip clubs everywhere seem to be full of ego tripping males who get off on making women feel shit about themselves. That sucks that it got to you so bad, good on you for not going back in I say try and find somewhere else with a little more respect for the girls, I would not put up with that shit.

    No one even really pays attention to stages anyway, I do kick ass stages with big costumes simply because I enjoy it but the crowd rarely gives a shit they just want to see you naked.

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    Fuck him, he's a douche.

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    he sounds like a right cunt! is he playing the "divide and conquer" rule, keep all the girls on their toes etc by seeking to fuck with all their heads? again, what a cunt! maybe all the girls shuld get together one night and do a performance based on how he acts, now that would be funny!

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    This happened at a black club right? Can you find a mixed club to work at? I don't know what it is about all black clubs but they don't seem to be able to appreciate anything different from the norm. They want all the girls to look, dress and dance the same. Slow and sexy is frowned upon. Only fast booty clapping and crazy pole tricks is applauded. There's nothing wrong with dancing that way, but you would think they would want a little variety. I don't have the patience to deal with the negativity and ignorance that seems to be prevalent in those clubs. You may do better in a club that has a racial mix of dancers and customers.

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    Default Re: im tall cut me a [email protected]#$'N break

    While I agree he was a jerk, what does your height have to do with anything? I'm 5'9" and wore 7in heels, making me 6'4". This never impeded my dancing.

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    Hells yah! Take your talent elsewhere!!! Its called "negging." Its a way some dude try to get the upper hand with chicks. You have a choice. You can stay and work for him and get treated like shit, or go somewhere else and make roughly the same amount of money. A lot of girls probably put up with it because its easy to stay. I bet there's a better place for you to work out there... all you need to do is look around. I guarantee it won't take long.

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    Wow what a jerk.. Does he really think publicly bashing people and making them feel awful helps them make more money? I am glad you haven't gone back. Even if you made decent money there, it's not worth feeling like shit. No amount of money is worth feeling like shit. Find another club and never look back. By the way, I am 6'2 in my heels.. Has never stopped me from making money. Big hugs and I hope you can forget about this incident as soon as possible
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    Quote Originally Posted by Courtesan View Post
    This happened at a black club right? Can you find a mixed club to work at? I don't know what it is about all black clubs but they don't seem to be able to appreciate anything different from the norm. They want all the girls to look, dress and dance the same. Slow and sexy is frowned upon. Only fast booty clapping and crazy pole tricks is applauded. There's nothing wrong with dancing that way, but you would think they would want a little variety. I don't have the patience to deal with the negativity and ignorance that seems to be prevalent in those clubs. You may do better in a club that has a racial mix of dancers and customers.
    Yes that's exactly It I'm at a black clubs nd the main issue he has with me is that I'm not fitting in, like he expects us all to look the same an act the same an then there's me .. He's complained about my hair, my choice of outfits and my music selections.
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    Default Re: im tall cut me a [email protected]#$'N break

    fuck him. I would want a public apology. work at another club.

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    im 5'6 and dont do shit on stage, because i dont care. i make my money and stage is a chore for me. its none of the owners business how you dance as long as you make him money he should shut it!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Courtesan View Post
    They want all the girls to look, dress and dance the same. Slow and sexy is frowned upon. Only fast booty clapping and crazy pole tricks is applauded.
    At my club, slow and sexy is key, anything fast paced is a little over-done... But you can do whatever you want! There is one girl who straight up go-go dances through her stage set! But I guess it depends on where you are. We definitely have variety, too. black white asian, body builders, thicker girls, scene/tattoo's, to playboy looking chicks.

    Come to colorado! And what a dick! If i were you, I would get online and leave horrible reviews on the club mwahahahahah



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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    While I agree he was a jerk, what does your height have to do with anything? I'm 5'9" and wore 7in heels, making me 6'4". This never impeded my dancing.
    I think she meant because the stage is cramped. I've worked in clubs that have a low ceiling that would be hard for a very tall dancer.

    I agree with the negging thing. Hope you're planning out your move to the next club. That's ridiculously unprofessional. Also, I'd love to have your height "problem"- the grass is always greener, I guess!

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    Dam you have a lot more self control than i do , i would of got him in private and beat the shit out of him with my stripper heel! You do not deserve that at all! It is people like that running these business's like an idiot causing numerous problems. Sounds to me he has no common sense or maturity to say the least . Ha just look at it like this ;Someone like that usually is super insecure in their life so they mimic and act out their error of behavior to feel empowered. So to break it down he most likely has a small dick and is on my webcam making me humiliate his worthless ass his mistress Don't let HIM ruin YOUR self worth. He will get his , there is no reason for him to make you feel weak. You just need a better club is all, and believe me the time and research invested into a club will go a long ways. You now know what you do not want in a club so go out there and find something better that will suit you girl Just smile and keep going

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    Are you dancing at the Junction in Newport News, Va? That owner sounds like the owner of that club. He would held meeting every now and then to bash the dancers publicly. I'm a bit shorter than you (a bit over 5'9", but I was the tallest dancer and all the other dancers weren't taller than 5'4"), but he was saying how big and manly my linebacker body looked. I simply told him: "well, people in here love my big, manly body, don't you see how much they tip me? and, if you don't want me all big and manly, take off those poles, is because of them I'm so big and manly". He spend most of the meeting saying how big I am, but all his "attacks", I decided to take them as compliments.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    Are you dancing at the Junction in Newport News, Va? That owner sounds like the owner of that club. He would held meeting every now and then to bash the dancers publicly. I'm a bit shorter than you (a bit over 5'9", but I was the tallest dancer and all the other dancers weren't taller than 5'4"), but he was saying how big and manly my linebacker body looked. I simply told him: "well, people in here love my big, manly body, don't you see how much they tip me? and, if you don't want me all big and manly, take off those poles, is because of them I'm so big and manly". He spend most of the meeting saying how big I am, but all his "attacks", I decided to take them as compliments.
    Im actually in the good ol nations catipal *side eye* lol which by the way dosent not have many options for clubs. I'd travel elsewere If i wasn't so broke.
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    Oh crap. I was gonna suggest you to try Baltimore, since is not too far from DC. What club in DC are you working at? I did a few amateur nights at the Stadium (back when they did them) and a few days at Camelot.





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    I feel your pain, I'm the same height. I've never been verbally attacked, but I have been 'discussed'.
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    That's fucked up.

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    I am 5'11" and wear 6 1/2" heels, I've dance on a small/short stage and I feel your pain, no inverted pole tricks or I will kick the ceiling out! That being said, FUCK THAT DUDE, that is AWFUL and you don't deserve to be treated that way. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him power tripping. Find a different club!! HUGS
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    I've never heard anything like that before! That's so rude and disrespectful, is that even allowed?
    I'm sure you can look for another club that respects their girls, and know that you're their bread and butter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylee84 View Post
    At my club, slow and sexy is key, anything fast paced is a little over-done... But you can do whatever you want! There is one girl who straight up go-go dances through her stage set! But I guess it depends on where you are. We definitely have variety, too. black white asian, body builders, thicker girls, scene/tattoo's, to playboy looking chicks.

    Come to colorado! And what a dick! If i were you, I would get online and leave horrible reviews on the club mwahahahahah
    Hahah, you need to come to the Denver threads and stick up for me because someone here dorsn't believe we have thick girls or tatted girls!

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    how incredibly unprofessional , what a wanker. i wouldn't go back either! you are statuesque and I'm sure beautiful and deserved to be treated much better as a human being with feelings, fuck that place!

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    ***Hey ladies ...so i said i wouldnt go back but i have came back after being begged and paid.And let me tell you i was gone so quick it was ridiculous... theres next to no money in there.im literally leaving with never more then 200$. and that just not enough for working from 3pm-3am. i really dont have any other club i can go to ..i just know i will not be putting up with the bullshit
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