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    Default How to keep regulars happy and satisfied?

    I was wondering how you girls keep your regulars that comes see you often, happy and satisfied every time?

    I have a regular client who comes to see me every week, it's been 2-3 months and tips me very well all the time. He comes once every week unless he's travelling for business purposes and always tells me when he will be back to see me without me ever asking. I enjoy spending time with him, he's sweet and nice but doesn't talk much at all. He doesn't try to see me OTC, doesn't ask personal questions or for more, which I really appreciate.

    He seemed very happy every time he left but recently, I have the feeling that my performance have diminished a bit... He's a regular I really would love to keep even though I am aware that regulars don't last forever... So I was wondering, what do you girls do to keep things interesting with regulars you have already seen many times? I mean after awhile, even though you try not to have a set routine, isn't it always the same thing? I really want to make sure my clients don't get bored but I feel like I am running out of tricks or special moves to show...

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    Default Re: How to keep regulars happy and satisfied?

    Well, the reason many customers become regulars is because they like the way you dance for them and your interactions, so they decide to keep returning to experience that. It may be boring for you since you do the same thing several times a shift for however many shifts a week, but they only experience it once a week, so it's not boring for them. In fact, they probably look forward to it!

    I would recommend paying attention to your customer's reactions to your moves though, and just cater more to his preferences. If you notice he really digs cuddling, spend more time doing that. If he compliments your ass every time you bend over, make sure to give him a good, long view more often.

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    I may loose a lot of respect or credibility by saying this... however I'll be the black sheep. I have worked in several clubs all around where being a fantastic conversationalit and spectacular sight will only get you so far. A few repeat visits at most. In the end, they are looking for what men want most... sexual satisfaction. Anyone telling you that they have a customer who visits them purely for conversation and slight excitment are far in few -in duration-. You can only make it last for so long. Every dancer I have ever encountered who have enticed a customer for a long period of time have had to prolong their sexual excitment. In one way or another. Perhaps my experience in the sex industry counts for nothing... but

    The game and money only last so long.

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    ^While it is certainly true that regulars - all of them, including ones who get extras or OTC or whatever - have an expiration date, I don't think increasing contact or sexual experience is needed to keep most of them coming back. I don't let my regulars get away with anymore than I let a first-time customer get away with, and that hasn't made them stop coming to see me. I do work in high contact clubs though, so perhaps that has a great deal to do with it as they aren't just getting conversation and air dances.

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    Default Re: How to keep regulars happy and satisfied?

    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    I may loose a lot of respect or credibility by saying this... however I'll be the black sheep. I have worked in several clubs all around where being a fantastic conversationalit and spectacular sight will only get you so far. A few repeat visits at most. In the end, they are looking for what men want most... sexual satisfaction. Anyone telling you that they have a customer who visits them purely for conversation and slight excitment are far in few -in duration-. You can only make it last for so long. Every dancer I have ever encountered who have enticed a customer for a long period of time have had to prolong their sexual excitment. In one way or another. Perhaps my experience in the sex industry counts for nothing... but

    The game and money only last so long.
    +1 true story

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    I also think there is an expiry date on regulars but there are ways to keep them for a little while longer I think ! Surprise him with a new outfit bought especially for him (lets say he just bought a new car and its blue...get dressed up in blue next time he comes and say you wanted to match his new car, stupid things like that...anything cheeky really, get a fake tattoo with his name on the night he comes in...), I would also buy him small personal gifts when he comes and I would also spend some time learning about something that interests him so that I could have a conversation about that. Make him feel really special! Make him have a great time with many laughs! Dancewise I dont think there is so much more you can do...but you could surprise him with a costume once its time for dancing!

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    Default Re: How to keep regulars happy and satisfied?

    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    I may loose a lot of respect or credibility by saying this... however I'll be the black sheep. I have worked in several clubs all around where being a fantastic conversationalit and spectacular sight will only get you so far. A few repeat visits at most. In the end, they are looking for what men want most... sexual satisfaction. Anyone telling you that they have a customer who visits them purely for conversation and slight excitment are far in few -in duration-. You can only make it last for so long. Every dancer I have ever encountered who have enticed a customer for a long period of time have had to prolong their sexual excitment. In one way or another. Perhaps my experience in the sex industry counts for nothing... but

    The game and money only last so long.
    Well that's def no secret. The point is to juice the shit out of him as much as you can before he starts suggesting other shit. These men, NO matter what happens... will ALWAYS have an expiration date.

    To OP, seeing you every week for 2-3 months without him trying to cross your boundaries is great! I think you juiced him out enough & if he comes in to see you again, even better. If not, NEXT! There is always more where they came from.
    Last edited by Vyanka; 08-29-2012 at 10:50 AM.

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    Default Re: How to keep regulars happy and satisfied?

    All the regular big spenders I've had has been like a revolving door. They don't last long because sooner or later they want to take the "relationship" to the next level. Or they realize how much money they've spent. When I see them, I sell like it will be they're last time. And, I always keep my eyes open for the next one. Don't become too dependent on them. Just remember, that lonely guy won't always be lonely or able to spend every week. These guys won't think twice about removing you from their budget plan.

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    Default Re: How to keep regulars happy and satisfied?

    every fling runs its course - I always look for next set of custies to play with.
    it doesn't hurt to notice custie preferences (in clothes, dance style - fast vs slow)

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