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Its all about how you look at it
I feel like writing my point of view to help girls out there having a bad night or just reading lol. The one thing that i have realized that makes a girl successful is absolutely her attitude. What you give is what you get. (Not always accurate with a bunch a drunks but anyways) have respect for yourself and do not act like you rely on anyone but yourself. I have been there before, feeling like dying on the inside but, i think im ok" on the out. It is just simple being weak by letting your inner battles govern your life. We all have inner demons we deal with and sometimes they just win. Everyone is entitled to their bad days, just learn to control it. I believe being in the adult business does not mean you or anyone else ,are entitled to be a drama queen jack ass at work. All you really CAN do everyday is wake up, put one foot in front of the other ( w out tripping in those dam 8 inches 
), do the best you can all day , go to bed and do it again the next day. Life may not seem that simple but it is. Women have complex thinking so we can multitask etc... Men on the other hand =simple minded. I see girls worrying about their ass in their thong and its like" okay if your ass has a line that goes up and down it IT LOOKS GOOD! LOL Just work hard and do not think about the rest. Expect to be judged but never let that demolish your goals.. Be prepared for the things that may become a problem for you in the future. Never ever let anyone make you throw away your self worth. Some days your going to feel the insecurities/ stress that may come with this type of work, but it is really all about how you WANT to look at it. It is hard to do this type of work. To me it is empowering to know that i am making dudes think they have power but realistically it is YOU who is in control. You run the show and never ever let anyone tell you different. When i first started dancing the girls at my club hated me and it made me uncomfortable for the simple fact that i did not want my stuff to get messed with. HA some would even sit and laugh RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, while i was on stage. I knew that they had a problem but i realized that type of behavior just mimics spineless bitches. They did not realize that they looked like they were in high school and i lost alot of respect for them . . I was one of the younger ones so it happened alot, but i just ignored them and focused on the important things. The important things like what i had to do next and how i was going to make my goal for the night. I found that whatever you do naturally will be beautiful. Men seriously appreciate the fact that you are out there trying and displaying confidence. You probably here it all the time but the beauty really does shine within. When you talk to yourself negatively, that is who you are going to be perceived as. We all have seen it and probably within ourselves too. I just wanted to give my advice i have learned to anyone and everyone. Just remember to remain in balance with things and at least try to be happy. If anything always plan ahead and you will always be on your road to success.
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Re: Its all about how you look at it
I needed this. Thank you.
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Re: Its all about how you look at it
You're so right about everything you cover in this
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Your welcome ladies
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