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    Default Tired of being skinny

    OK Im 5'9 & 120...Resulting in no boobs/ass...Constantly being told how skinny or little I am has made me have somewhat of a complex... I just want to get to a normal weight range and fill out a bit... i eat like crazy but cant seem to put any weight on.. Did anyone else sturggle with this backwards weight issue??? What did you do to fix it or at least camo. How small you really are??

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    It's a little different for a guy, but those of us with a very high metabolism (as you clearly have) will have a lot of trouble gaining weight. It took me years and years of working out to get to where I am now, and I will still get somewhat underweight if I slack off on eating a lot of food.

    I'd say relax and go with the flow. It's certainly annoying to hear the comments all the time, but have you ever noticed it's always the overweight people who tell you the most how skinny you are? Consider the source.

    Plus just as there are guys who like the 'curvy' look, which to me usually means 'slightly overweight' or just plain 'overweight'; there's plenty of guys who really like slender women. I should know, I'm one of them. Usually when I hear women saying 'Oh she's pretty enough but she's got no ass.', the girl they are knocking has a perfect ass, in my book. Chacon a son gout...

    You might also try lifting weights, it could add some pounds, and there are some exercises that will add bulk to your ass for sure. Bench press and military press type exercises will add a small amount to your bust. You'll be able to do pole tricks better, it will make you feel more confident, and the endorphins from a good hard workout are literally natural 'feel good' drugs your own body produces after about 20 minutes or so.
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    Default Re: Tired of being skinny

    No matter what size you are people will ALWAYS have something negative to say. Fuck em.
    I'm on the skinny side too, though! On top of that I am a black girl, so I hear "I prefer girls with ass" or "you got some small titties" ALL the time. I honestly could care less what they have to say. Just remember there are people out there who would KILL to be thin! Embrace the compliments, ignore the negativity.

    I used to dance at a black club, which in the black community ass is more important than boobs. I still turned heads CONSTANTLY because of the amount of confidence I had. Man like confidence, period. It's just damn sexy!

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    I think we all think the grass is greener on the other side of the pond. As long as you look healthy and you have nice skin and hair fuck what everyone else says. Plus I noticed you're here in PA. Everytime I see a slender attractive person with teeth I always wonder if they're from PA

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    Well Im not originally from PA lol... just moved up not long ago, so tell your companion nt to spread any rumors lol... Im mixed so I feel like I should have a body.. its in my genes right?? Im not particularly bothered by the next person insulting my weight n height.. I dance in 8in, it sets me apart!!! I also kno theres money in the club for a skinny girl wit no butt ;-) Thanks for the responses. I was hoping for a overnight cure but I guess Im just meant to be skinny... Ill have to continue to chugg my ensures and do squats with my boo ;-) all with my fingers crossed!!

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    Default Re: Tired of being skinny

    If you want to disguise it, consider implants, obviously modest and natural because they will easily look out of place on your frame, but that should disguise the thinness somewhat and give you some curves and a fuller figure. Try weight training along with drinks like ensure and muscle building protein powders to get some definition.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Reddz9121 View Post
    Well Im not originally from PA lol... just moved up not long ago, so tell your companion nt to spread any rumors lol... Im mixed so I feel like I should have a body.. its in my genes right?? Im not particularly bothered by the next person insulting my weight n height.. I dance in 8in, it sets me apart!!! I also kno theres money in the club for a skinny girl wit no butt ;-) Thanks for the responses. I was hoping for a overnight cure but I guess Im just meant to be skinny... Ill have to continue to chugg my ensures and do squats with my boo ;-) all with my fingers crossed!!
    I'm in mourning for you. You and half of the supermodels of the world can cry together. I told my gentleman companion you weren't from PA and he muttered "Figures, especially if she's got teeth!"
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    Those ass implants look horrible, don't ever do it!
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    Default Re: Tired of being skinny

    i was referring to breast implants, i agree that butt implants are horrid and have yet to see a nice outcome


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    Default Re: Tired of being skinny

    Girl, a lot of ppl wish they had your problem! ;-) Girls with fashion runway model bodies bank at nice clubs btw.

    I rather be under weight, than over weight.

    I agree with ass implants looking terrible. I have never seen a set that looks normal. Shots too. I saw a girl whose shot substance migrated on the side of her leg. Awful.

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    i understand you, OP but i have learned to love my body. by doing that, i mean working out and eating right- when you do this, no matter what body type you have, you will look good.

    i wanted plastic surgery for so long but watching bridalplasty really freaked me the hell out. love your body and take care of it. there are things you cant help so help what you can.

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    I am happy with my body... we all have things we dont like though , and society nowadays has implanted young feeble minded people with visions of huge asses and big boobies!!! Honestly as I looked around the club last night and saw 16 diff women with completely diff body types gettin paid I thought back to my post.. if every woman could see behind a SC door self esteem issues would probably dimish at least a small portion... If they pay for it they can <3 it right??? Im happy with me and so is my Boo but a girl can dream cant she ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reddz9121 View Post
    Well Im not originally from PA lol... just moved up not long ago, so tell your companion nt to spread any rumors lol... Im mixed so I feel like I should have a body.. its in my genes right?? Im not particularly bothered by the next person insulting my weight n height.. I dance in 8in, it sets me apart!!! I also kno theres money in the club for a skinny girl wit no butt ;-) Thanks for the responses. I was hoping for a overnight cure but I guess Im just meant to be skinny... Ill have to continue to chugg my ensures and do squats with my boo ;-) all with my fingers crossed!!
    Mixed? Please, be more specific.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    Those ass implants look horrible, don't ever do it!
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    I'm so glad to hear this. When I first started working for the Latin club where I work, I wanted so badly to have more curves. I was already squatting. So I started going home after work and stuffing myself with tortilla chips. I had considered ass implants or gel. But I'm an athletic person. I probably would have ended up changing the shape of my booty or making it lop sided. Like the OP, I'm mixed but half Latin.

    Now I embrace my petite-ness. I'm short, a somewhat high register voice and big fluffy, curly blond hair. I try to give off sort of a 'fairy' vibe. I'm not for everyone, but there will always be that one guy who is really into my look. Also, more than a handful of custies have asked me if certain dancers have booty implants. I steer clear of drama and always say I don't know. Then they usually say something negative and then buy dances:-)

    I have nothing against dancers who get this done. Some can really pull it off, but others look odd.
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    Rock what ya got as long as you are healthy! I weighed 130 up until I was in my early 30s and I'm nearly 6 ft! No amount of drinking, binge eating, etc. could change that. I'm 180 now lol. It'll eventually catch up.

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    Default Re: Tired of being skinny

    Work out like a Brazilian woman. They work out with heavy weights for a thick, curvy look. I used to hate my body when it was skinny but now I'm defined in a feminine curvy way. This website helped me a lot.

    http://www.nowloss.com/ Click on "go here to get curves".

    Mulher Melancia is famous in Brazil for her curvy body and huge watermelon ass...this is how she works out:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rBV4F...ure=plpp_video

    More Brazilian women examples :

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8g1DBjIHdM

    Nicole Bahls, Brazilian model gym pics

    http://www.zimbio.com/pictures/aEWwh...orking+Out+Gym

    Working out like this really does work. I get "curvy" comments from my best friend and beyonce comments from my boyfriend and I used to be skinny!


    I think Nicole Bahls is the best example because she is proof that you can workout with heavy weights, train hard, and look feminine and curvy NOT overly muscular like a few of the women in the 2nd video. Those women probably train professionally or something and I think the muscular thigh look is fashionable in Brazil.

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    Im mixed with black and white... and thanks for the tips.. My parents always said it would hit me when I get older... 23 with kids should have put some weight on me right?? Wrong.. lol I love ne and how I look now, just invision a thicker version of me.. who knows maybe once I figure out how to get the weight on Ill go crazy and wana go back to the current me.. mayb, mayb not... I understand we all have body issues but I wouldnt call this an issue because im ok either way... Im afraid to workout though because I wouod hate to loose any weight and turn into the sickly looking skinny...

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    girl i am 5'3 and only 84 lbs...so yeah thats way underweight according to my bmi. i think its even more frustrating to go to bookstore and only find topics on how to lose weight...NOT gain. Honestly it will take some time, but you gotta learn how to love the skin that you are in. Yes i wish my collarbones werent so pronouced..but i got a guy on mfc that comes in every week to see those bad bones and pays good!! Yes i stuff my face with all types of food, but if you have a high metabolism like me, it wont stick on you or only goes straight to your stomach and not spread out to where you want it (like my ass!...please!) lol you gotta change your way of eating, like instead of getting white bread..get whole wheat or rye. Instead of grabbing that soda...grab that juice instead *more calroies and nutrients*

    Hope that helps!

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    Eat all the lean protein and good carbs you can. Focus on eating multiple small meals rather than a couple big ones.

    And lift all the weight. Heavy squats are gonna help out your booty, presses for your chest, and work your shoulders too- it's going to help give the illusion of having a slimmer waist and make your shape more hourglassy.

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    train with weights and go to a nutritional store and ask for a protein shake that will help you gain weight. Drink one after every weights session. Never do cardio. You get enough at work probably.

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    This to me is the hardest to change but can be done. My exwife was 5'3 & would stay anywhere from 112lbs to 115lbs & had a very high metabolism, she could eat whatever & whenever she wanted. The most I got her up to was around 117lbs to 120lbs with very high calorie meals, especially breakfast & end of the night. She would train with weights & used yoga for stretching & flexibility. There is a science to looking good & there is a science to being healthy & very seldom do they overlap. I don't believe in force feeding but it could work if done right.

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    Trust me it's better to be told to eat a sammich than to put one down.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Trust me it's better to be told to eat a sammich than to put one down.
    I concur.

    As for the OP, try to eat (if you arent already) a healthy and balanced diet. Oatmeal, fruits, vegetables, nuts, whole grains, no candy/junk food.

    Also avoid stress...its detrimental in every way.

    Maybe go to the doctor and have a physical just to make sure everything is functioning properly.

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    also, OP how old are you? Most women I know didn't develop more womanly bodies until their mid twenties. My boobs were always a full b-cup until around when I was 23 and now they're a full c cup. Also I have become more hippy...I guess it runs in my family.

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