Have stopped dancing for what ever reason. Your job is very sexy, how do you replace that when your not dancing? How do you get an outlet for all that sexy that builds up? TIA


Have stopped dancing for what ever reason. Your job is very sexy, how do you replace that when your not dancing? How do you get an outlet for all that sexy that builds up? TIA
Stranger in a strange land
I don't think you realize that stripping is just a job to most women, rather than an outlet for their sexy.





Dancing is a very unsexy job. Oh and for the record this idea that strippers are all sex crazed is very wrong and a myth.







No not kidding. It seemed to me that with all the touching and close personal contact, it may be missed if they left for what ever reason. I did not mean to imply they are all sexpots. But it seems to me that in your job, whatever it maybe, things may be missed if they are taken away. Sorry to ruffle the feathers.
Stranger in a strange land



You obviously watched too many movies/ read too many fiction stuff.
Do you think accountants miss crunching numbers and filing taxes after retirement, and feel the need to find outlets for their math energy?
The touching and contact is just part of the job description. While it may do something for the customer, the dancer is usually thinking about other things, like what she's going to buy with the money she makes during that shift. Besides, dancers, like regular women, have relationships in which to experience enjoyable touching and contact.


I know a CPA who gives back to his town by doing taxes for free. Dont get me wrong I not saying for dancers to give free dances. I was just wondering if this may happen. Whats good for one is not good for all. Seems I've hit a nerve or two. I did'nt mean any harm.
Stranger in a strange land





Yeah, it's pretty much the un-sexiest thing ever. When I quit, I actually regained my sex drive... whereas when I was dancing, I'd come home and be like EW DON'T TOUCH ME





It's true he's way off the mark about missing the sexuality, but there is one thing I have known some retired dancers miss, which is the adrenaline rush of putting on a show. It affects DJs too, I always miss it after a while when I have taken the much needed breaks (twice now in 12 years).
It's got nothing to do with the sexuality, so you are correct of course--rather it's the theatre aspect of the business that is sometimes missed. But this will not be anywhere near as common in people who have worked in the lapdance factory type clubs, without much emphasis on stage.
But sorry Yoda, this is kind of a threadjack I guess.![]()
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I will admit sometimes I miss dancing on stage but I enjoy dancing anyway in general. I mostly miss the money and nothing else.
Lapancing is an unsexy job.
You constantly have hard skin/bunions/achy feet from walking around in ridiculus heels.
Your skin gets bad from the heating/air con/lighting/stress/late hours in clubs
You're too knackered at all the wrong times, to engage with your partner unless you are very careful to keep a check on all things personal.
You have to dress up for work and make sure you look your best for your job. So the novelty of dressing up is non-existent, rather all you want to do during free time/when you get home is take off all your slap and get out of your dressy clobber, and put on your comfiest pjs. Dressing up for nights out isn't fun any longer.
Your hair gets ruined by constant styling/extensions/braids/bleach
Your eyelashes fall out from glue of extensions/falsies.
Your pussy skin gets damaged from shaving/waxing/depilitary cream
You get thrush city from grinding/bacteria/thongs in clubs..
You develop a jaded view of men....
Your nails get ruined with press ons and glue ons and falsies
You get covered in bruises from the pole
*I know not all of the above applies to every dancer. It's a summary from my experiences along with talking to other dancers!





Actually based on a few conversations I've had with retired dancers this is quite valid. The performance aspect of the job is the one thing that I've heard dancers say they missed. This was especially true with a few who had aspirations toward other forms of entertainment-singing, acting, dancing etc.
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