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    Hi all, this is my first post here. I have been a cam girl on and off since 2010. I wish so much I stuck with it then- it was easier starting out then than in 2012. I was going to make my first post a review of the several sites I have been working the past 4 months. But you know the deal- the whole MFC struggle, the famous slow summer at Streamate, all the girls selling 'all content $10' on MGF and such, etc.
    I have researched alot about escorting on google and here. There is alot of info but alot of the brothel info is dated. To make my post short and sweet, I will post my questions. (and yes, I have used the search function and it was helpful)
    1) I have heard that Mustang Ranch is better and more expensive now than Sheris- what do you think?
    2) I know brothels and agencies do 'dick checks' but are STD blood tests needed for the guys? I would love that. I do not want HIV from kissing.
    3) If I work at Sheri's or Mustang, and I want $500 an hour, will most clients laugh in my face and I won't get business?
    4) I read somewhere here that most brothels are kinda like MFC in the fact that girls with seniority and lots of good reviews rule the place and they will get majority of the business..?
    5) probably the most important question, what exactly is the sex usually like? I do not want them to be pulling my vagina lips hard and rubbing directly on my clit (skipping the hood completely) and pretty much touching me in a way that will make me bone dry. Do I just show them what I like?
    6) Whether I work at a brothel or agency, I do not want to kiss as HPV and herpes can be passed like that, and if I do kiss I would like to see the client a few times to grow comfortable. Will I be reducing my business?
    7) I know a condom is required at all times even with blowjobs at brothels, does the condom come off with the blowjob behind closed doors? I have also heard that most agencies except you to give bbbj all the time.
    I am engaged to the love of my life. I told him about escorting and he said,'I would hate more than anything for us to resort to that, but I am sure I will agree with it like I did with webcamming and it will be hard for me to think of our sex the same.' What should I tell him?

    That is about all I can think of right now. I am talking to a few potential sugar daddies but from what I have heard having an SD is pretty much being an escort but cheaper because they get more of my time for less because traditionally I have heard the girl gets an allowance from him and that is it- I give him sex, time everything all for that allowance- hell it better be a big allowance.
    Thanks for reading, I hope current/recently retired escorts and brothel ladies reply.

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    I'm sorry but with everything you've laid out here - ESPECIALLY with what your boyfriend said, I just don't think escorting is the best choice for you. If you've already got a webcam following, why don't you try selling content and/or used panties (there are plenty of sites outside of MGF that allow you to do this) There are even sites specifically for selling long videos of real life couples, and the average payout is a couple thousand USD - I think you and your SO would be much better off looking into that as an option.


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    You can't get HIV from kissing.
    "Well then it's a good thing your faith in me has no impact on how much I make." - MissEgo

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    Thanks for the replies. I have thought about it because to be honest I am only making 500 a week on average, give or take a little. We only have a blow up bed, sofa and tv on the floor. We will however go to goodwill for more stuff hopefully soon. We are getting by but not truly 'living'. I am sure escort life is best for single people. What are a few of the sites you mentioned for videos of couples?
    I hope no one thinks I'm asking to be spoon fed info, I've researched alot ans have lurked here about a year and now decided I had a few questions to post.

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    Webcam is my fiance's job too. Besides our couples stuff he also has a solo account but as you know that doesnt go over as well for most guys. I am thinking maybe he should have a day job since as a guy webcam isn't much profit for him. But he says 'im having sex on the internet, the whole point of this career is so I dont have to slave at a normal job'. I told him that's true but the customers do not see him as entitled like that.
    That's why I thought of escorting.

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    @drearea thanks for the info. Can you help me with a few of my other questions?

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    Quote Originally Posted by looktothelight View Post
    Webcam is my fiance's job too. Besides our couples stuff he also has a solo account but as you know that doesnt go over as well for most guys. I am thinking maybe he should have a day job since as a guy webcam isn't much profit for him. But he says 'im having sex on the internet, the whole point of this career is so I dont have to slave at a normal job'. I told him that's true but the customers do not see him as entitled like that.
    That's why I thought of escorting.
    Your boyfriend has a horrible entitlement attitude and sounds like he is lazy as fuck. Tell him to get a job making at least $500 per week while he figures out a career to pursue that will make spending a lifetime with him worthwhile. That attitude of his won't be so cute when you've been married 5-10 years and still living in a 1-bedroom apartment.

    I think you should upgrade your boyfriend. How could you consider marrying a BOY who refuses to pull his own weight?

    You're thinking of escorting to make more money to improve your life together, right?. Is HE putting in the same effort or making any sacrifices toward the same goal? It sounds like "No."


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    Your boyfriend is a douche. Like PP said, he should be putting in the same amount of effort that you are. It sounds like he's only o.k. with escorting if it means he can continue to be lazy. This just doesn't seem like a good idea, IMO.

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    I myself have no problem having sex and being a companion for money. I think I'm capable of getting into my persona/performer mode. I've not had much my whole life so I've been ready to grab life by the balls and claim the lifestyle I want. He is also really into cars so I don't want the majority of my wealth to go on his hobby.
    yes I think a waiter/bartend job would be a good addition to the income.
    And I dont know why I haven't thought of this before..I can be a body rub provider. I told bf its a 'massage from home'. I need to turn my place luxurious then I can get into that.
    He has an upscale taste in things, as do I, so we both need to pull in income. In fact he is using 2,000 of our savings to fly to new York Tuesday to get a car he wants to fix up. But see if we do that, we won't be able to get furniture of do anything that I want. And since I know I'm capable of escorting and such I thought that'd be an option.
    If anyone knows the answers to any of my questions in the first post that'd be great.
    oh and I live in MS (deep south) can I get good business asking $150 an hour/220 upgraded hour?

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    No offense but your man sounds like dead weight. Im not with supporting a man. Men are supposed to make life easier, not harder because you can do bad all by yourself.

    If he doesn't want you to escort, he needs to get out there and contribute some more money. If he likes cars so much, he needs go get a mechanic job or something. You're in the deep south. You can probably live good off $1,000-$1500 a week which shouldn't be hard for two people to bring in. In fact, you can easily bring that in by yourself if you cam and escort/body rub.

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    Oh yes, that's a plus with living here, you can definitely live well on 1,000 a week. We would be getting by with a little extra on 500 a week but he's trying to make all his little dreams come true at once. Since I can live well on so little here, it'd likely be very lucrative to go to a brothel in Nevada one week a month. But that isn't necessary if I do bodyrubs. First I have to at least get this place looking nice then get my equipment. I don't want clients getting scared coming to this ghetto place. I want to look professional and provide a sensual environment. I just wonder if Mississippians even want a bodyrub..
    I hope to start the bodyrub work within 2 months, will keep this thread updated. I also just looked at homegrownvideos.com and will start weaning off SM to film for that. I will make my bf get his ass on Moviemaker and make these videos as profitable as possible. Ladies, feel free to tell me if homegrown isn't very good. I looked at their rates page and it sounds decently lucrative given if I provide quality of course. And going to get back on my adult text and virtualsexworld.com as well as SM. So thats my plan for the coming weeks in order to fix this place up and get ready to be a bodyrub provider.

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    You can do outcalls until you get your place together. Get a massage table. Walmart.com has some for under $150 and they will ship to your local Walmart for free. While you're there, pick up non-scented body oil, a couple $1 candles, a grill torch (to light the candles), some cheap twin sheets to cover the table, and some towels and baby wipes to wipe up the guys "mess"

    There are some good screening articles on here if you search. But since you're in the south, most of the guys you will go see will own their houses so you can find out a wealth of info with someone's with a name and address.

    I dont know the market price for body rubs in MS but you can check out the competition on your local section of Backpage.

    This way you can get the money to fix up your place for incall sooner.

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    Thanks for the support I don't have family or anything so support coming from somewhere is appreciated. The competition around here is mainly traveling and the local competition are not professional at all! I have not even found a girl with their own website, only ads on BP. With my next SM check I will try to get a custies-tools website, it looks great for the value.
    Is it safe to put ads on BP for right now? Till I build a few clients. ANd are the walmart tables able to hold up to 400 pounds? It's MS you know, and 60% of the people here are overweight, lol..
    Do you feel weird doing outcalls? I did not think of doing that so I don't know what to think of that. I'm familiar with screening and just hope people around here will participate with it.

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    You can get a free website initially, if you're trying to save money starting out. Buy your domain name for $10 or so and you'll be good to go with that


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    I'm assuming you made most of that $2,000 yourself. If your not 100% okay with what any amount of money you worked for is being used for, you should not give it to anyone else for purchases you do not feel comfortable with.

    If this boy, no - this child, allows you to work as an escort, massuse, or whatever, and then use your profits for his own desires you do not have a boyfriend. You have a pimp. I'm not saying he got with you for this reason, to pimp you, I'm just saying that with the details expressed here this end result looks pretty inevitable.

    If you can't wrap your head around that then this massage venture will only be the first of countless occasions in which you will work your ass off, he will reap the benefits, and when your income can't keep up with his desires, he will 'all of a sudden" become a major pain in your ass, so then you work harder, he spends more money...etc etc It never ends.

    Now if he worked as hard as you to make as much as you, that would be a different story; he would understand the value of your money. Its a little thing called "work ethic" But he does not, and does not want to, so he never will.

    You seem to be a smart girl outside of this boyfriend stuff. Your pulling in $500 on webcam each week so you clearly know how to work it. Your in Mississippi....if your willing to come to New Orleans, I know a place where you can do incall massage (its already all set up, you just pay out $50 appointment, its where I started). If your seeking multiple avenues of income, a good friend of mine is just getting into making videos, I know more than a few domanatrix's who might need apprentices, and a strip club manager owes me a favor.

    I know...I don't really know you and this is kind of weird but jesus christ - a more experienced girl has pulled my ass out the fire more than once, so I'm earnestly offering this to you.


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    I thank you earnestly Daniella, I'll be P.Ming you after this NYC rendezvous starting at 6 a.m...I do like new Orleans, definitely more cultured than MS and better opportunity.

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    Ahhh these days there are too many with boyfriendpimps and don't even know it. Daniella, Couldn't have said it better myself. I can't offer escorting advice to someone in this situation. Well I can but I won't. Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    Ahhh these days there are too many with boyfriendpimps and don't even know it. Daniella, Couldn't have said it better myself. I can't offer escorting advice to someone in this situation. Well I can't but I won't. Good luck.
    He isn't me. I can't have good luck if you choose to not give me info regarding my escort questions, which would be most helpful. There is more to my boyfriend thing but this isn't relationship counseling so I haven't laid it all out there. I'm likely going to be a body rub provider but my previous escort questions I still have on my mind.

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    Hey,
    Well I have to agree your boyfriend is dead weight and a waste of time/space and your hard earned money. If you want to further your life, get rid of him, ASAP.
    Hope this helps.


    1) I have not been to a ranch so I'm no help with that aspect.

    2) It is not the "agency" that does dick checks its the Escorts & believe me, not all will - care to or even think to. It is YOUR responsibility to keep yourself safe and do/check what & where you see fit. Be discreet while doing this, grabbing a mans penis and checking it like a doctor may insult or come across very rude, its all in how you do it. You will NOT get HIV from kissing.

    3) I do not know the price range area of the Ranch's nor your state, I am in Canada. Best I can recommend is check websites/call those Ranch's & ask.

    4) Again, I do not know about Ranch's however in Agencies in Canada - senior Ladies may get more business (phone bookings) as they may have a better relationship with the bookers (tip them, not all places will allow this)


    5) You decide and set your own rules/restrictions, I personally do not allow fingers inside me or touching my lips. These are things you need to make very clear so they're are no problems/miscommunication-, or disappointed/angry clients.
    Remember, it is not about what "you" like, its about them - however this does not mean clients can do/touch whatever they choose because that's what want/like.


    6) Again, you choose your Menu items. If you are planning on being a GFE provider & do not allow kissing - you will more then likely lose business and have disappointed/confused clients as GFE providers mainly use the term GFE as they allow kissing,bbbj - more intimate sessions in general.. Here in Canada, if a woman is offering GFE without kissing we use the term SAFE GFE. I've heard this isn't very common and it is better to just not use the GFE term.


    7) Condoms are required, however like with anything not all lady's require/make clients use them, as disgusting as it is - some women do even allow Bareback Full Service - PLEASE NEVER do this. Most Agencies do allow BBBJ's, most let & understand the Escorts do make their own Rules & Restrictions (a lot of women in CA do charge extra for BBBJ, unless otherwise stated or included in an "all in rate") I have heard of some Agencies saying absolutely NO BBBJs & keep in mind that if clients know certain things are not allowed they will either try harder, or some will even ask/beg for the specific service & then tell the owner/manager & see if they can somehow be compensated for telling on you.

    IMO you need to ditch the prick! He is a selfish lazy jerk & likely always will be. He clearly has no drive, work ethic or understanding of being a provider. He is using you, one day when you get so sick of it & stop supporting him - he will move on to the next & dump you quicker then you can blink. Test this theory & refuse to allow him to go pick up the car, or spend any other funds on anything unless it is coming from his pocket. Also add up all your household/personal/fun expenses & tell him at least half of theses are his responsibility to pay.


    Being in a Sugar Daddy/Baby relationship is VERY different then Escorting, I think you need to re-read the forums and even research more, different sites, local sites, you can never have to much information..
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