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    Ok, first an outline of the rules and such for my club:
    I have to sit with anyone, and everyone, who is free for no more than 4 songs. When that fourth song ends, I have to move. BUT I can't get up before that fourth song ends either.
    If I get up before that fourth song, I risk getting fined. (I am not working at the only other strip club in town, they tip out 70% of what they make every night)
    The customers cannot touch me. In any way. They cannot take photos either.
    I only take off my top, nipples are covered either by pasties or glitter. I use paint or tape myself- the glitter wears off easily and I spend more time in the DR fixing it than on the floor or stage.

    Ok. so
    When I sit with guys, or girls in some cases, they simply ignore me. I say hello, introduce myself and all that. But they simply don't talk to me!
    Me: Hello. ~big smile~ My name is Luna. How are you tonight?
    Customer: ---- ~stares off at nothing, or another girl~
    Me: Anything I can do for you tonight? ....or.... Is this your first time here? ~getting nervous because customer isn't even looking at me~
    Customer: ---~continues to stare at nothing, or another girl...~--
    Me: ~wishes I could move on, but must stay there for 4 songs...sits there looking pretty trying to tempt them to look at me by giggling boobs or rubbing my thigh.

    HELP
    What can I do to make these people talk to me? What really sucks is when I get asked to come over there, but then they don't talk to me. What the fuck did you call me over here for then!? Half the time when this happens they don't even look at me after I say hello. "Hi there, I heard you wanted me to sit with you. How are you tonight?" or something of the sort. I find this happens the most with the Mexicans (very common in my area)
    I've only been dancing for a little over a week now, so is this something to do with me being new? Or is this a common thing?

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    Default Re: How to get them to talk...

    "I can see you're not in the mood for chit chat; I bet you'd rather get naughty! Let's go for a dance!" Assuming you're allowed to get up before four songs WITH the customer to go for dances. Even in the weirdest club, I can't imagine them making the customer wait 4 songs to spend their money.

    Otherwise, can you walk by and say hi before sitting down? If the customer ignores you then, you know not to sit and waste your time.

    Also, try out pasties if you're wasting so much time fucking around with glitter paint. They make glittery pasties!

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    There are a few magical words in sales that will always get a customer talking. Who, what, when, where and why. When you start off a question with one of these words, you will always get a guy talking. The best part is, the more he talks the more he will like you. Avoid all questions that give one or two word answers.

    'Who are you here with?'
    'What did you do right before you came here?'
    'When was the last time you did something nice for yourself?'
    'Where abouts are you from?'
    'Why haven't you and I gone to the naughty room yet?'

    These will all help you learn more about your customer and get him more comfortable with you.

    'Do you like it here?'
    'Are you having a good time?'

    Questions like these only warrant a yes or no. One word questions are killer.



    Before going to work practice some who what when where and why questions of your own in front of the mirror.

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    Default Re: How to get them to talk...

    lol= naughty room. I like it.
    Thank you both for the advice!

    Yes, I can take them up to go the VIP room for a dance before the 4 songs are up. If they decide they want a dance right before I have to move I can do the dance. But when I am done I have to move, unless they buy another dance. It's more a way to make sure all the girls get a chance with every customer.


    Sometimes I can say hi to them while walking by, like if they just got in and another girl is headed their way- or if I sat with them already and I'm waiting for my turn again. It's a tad confusing honestly. But oh well.

    The advice here is great! Thank you both again.

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    That rule just sounds insane.You say you have just started.You should watch/or ask the other girls if they really follow this rule.How could they enforce it, they cant really watch every single girl and count exactly how many songs she has sat with a customer.Every customer is different some will need you to talk with them for half hour before they spend some you can tell straight away that they are a waste of time.I would hate to be forced to sit with a customer who is rude/broke/cant speak english etc.Or to be forced to leave a customer who i know is interested and has money but needs a bit more time.
    I just cant believe that girls are able to work like this.Are you sure this is really a "rule" not just a "suggestion".
    Sorry I havent really answered your question but im really just shocked that anywhere would control you to this extent and potentially make it very hard for you to make money.

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    Always ask if they would like company before u sit down, if they act uninterested say something quick like or maybe I can check on u later so u don't sit and won't get fined. Do this until u find someone very warm and inviting with ur approach and when u sit u won't have to worry about the convo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britchick85 View Post
    That rule just sounds insane.You say you have just started.You should watch/or ask the other girls if they really follow this rule.How could they enforce it, they cant really watch every single girl and count exactly how many songs she has sat with a customer.Every customer is different some will need you to talk with them for half hour before they spend some you can tell straight away that they are a waste of time.I would hate to be forced to sit with a customer who is rude/broke/cant speak english etc.Or to be forced to leave a customer who i know is interested and has money but needs a bit more time.
    I just cant believe that girls are able to work like this.Are you sure this is really a "rule" not just a "suggestion".
    Sorry I havent really answered your question but im really just shocked that anywhere would control you to this extent and potentially make it very hard for you to make money.

    Some follow it some don't. There was a girl who worked a group for about 30min, but it wasn't until then that she was fussed at. And that was mainly because they were just chatting and not even tipping her for her time. Turned out they were broke and weren't going to buy anything anyway. But they are generally ok if it takes 4~6 songs for the person to buy a dance, they just don't want you ignoring new customers when they come in. (like on a Friday when we don't have enough girls to sit with everyone). I hate having to sit with the non-speaking English customers- they keep thinking we are prostitutes. -.- I've asked the management about that and they said if they keep verbally saying things and don't listen to me I can grab the house mom or someone else in management. But if they touch me once, like on the butt, I tell them no, second time get up. But if they grab a boob or try to stick anything in me I get up right then. Some girl smacked a guy, she was trying to hit him in the top head, but she got in trouble for it.
    But yah..

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaleoClipper View Post
    Some follow it some don't.
    Stop forcing yourself to sit beside customers who are obviously not interested in you then. Your time is more valuable than that!

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    Default Re: How to get them to talk...

    Hey thank you all for the advice! I managed to get 3 couch dances off one guy who normally doesn't talk to me when I sit with him. Thank you very much again for the advice!!!

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    I would probably tell them the truth, to be honest. Say 'I am not allowed to move, or I get into trouble, so you may as well talk to me cause I'm going nowhere!'
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    Well if they start ignoring me, I would tell them, "Well I gotta sit here for four songs, so we should make the best of it."

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