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    Dizzy Turning this failure around.

    I've been on here all night and I can not thank you guys enough but I am facing a problem and I am incredibly nervous. I have been camming for a month and I am guilty of free cam shows in public..I am not going to anymore. What are my actual, paying customers going to think when they come in and I'm not spread eagle, titties out? Does it really matter? How much flack am I going to face now that I am charging for what I have been doing for free? I feel really stupid and I wish I had found this forum weeks ago.
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    welcome to sw :-)

    when you say "How much flack am I going to face now that I am charging for what I have been doing for free?", do you mean from the guys who have become accustomed to watching you without paying? Who the hell cares what they think?!!?

    I do appreciate where you're coming from, in that it can be daunting to have to adjust every aspect of your game in order to switch strategies, but it can be done. You know your best traits and assets, so explore different strategies and test them out, tweaking as you go until you hit the sweet spot. Let your strategy emerge in a symbiotic process between and the guys who pay, aka, the real customers. Success in camming has way more to do with our brain power than it does any other body part, so exploit it.

    Whenever you change a strategy you take a risk, but I suspect your good customers will end up surprising you. Decent people want us to get what we need from this job, and they're willing to accommodate us as long as they feel that we do value them. Only the assholes will want to maintain something that doesn't give you what you need from the interaction. If they're not paying enough (or anything) to make it worthwhile financially, they are a customer/cam room lurker worth losing.

    I don't think this is where you're going with this thread, but I just wanted to respond to your choice of the word 'guilty'. I personally don't think that anyone here has the right to judge what any of us do in our cam rooms between consenting adults. I don't have any moral objection to chicas who do public cum shows...to each their own If it works, it works. The fact that you put 'failure' in your thread title, however, suggests that you've probably been entertaining a room full of broke oglers. If that's the case, good for you for deciding to make a change. It's better to do so now than continue on making less than the $$$$ you need/want and making a bunch of over-entitled losers happy.

    Since you're talking about public shows I'm guessing you're on myfreecams (mfc). Search around the forum for threads on mfc (there are a ton). This is a link to the main mfc thread: but don't stop reading there.

    There's a ton of smaller threads floating around dealing with issues of cam score, chat room techniques etc etc etc
    This thread demonstrates how to do an advanced search:

    ggod luck and again, welcome to sw :-)

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    if they really liked u they would respect ur disicion (cant spell it) and take u 2 private instead. if they were only there because you did free shows then dont waste your time caring about them, they'll just move on and freeload somewhere else. i congratulate u on your decision i hope u stick to it. the ban button is your friend.

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    You can do this! loveshooks is absolutely right 100%! I am so glad I found out about this site before camming. Do some research here, set your mind to it, you CAN do it! Good luck, and if you need some extra good vibes, just send me a message.
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    Thank you so much for your sincere and thoughtful response. I really appreciate it. I'm gonna just go balls to the wall so to speak. I'm more concerned about paying customers that aren't going to see what they're used to be hey, they're not taking me pvt either just tipping and never a lot.

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    I'm kind of a smart ass, so if this were me and some dude complained about me changing my prices, I would be like "Well ya know I was thinking the other day, and I almost forgot that this is a JOB, teehee!" If they complain, just let them move on. Who cares what the cheapskates/lurkers think? They are NOT your target demographic.
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    It doesnt matter what they think.
    It only matters what you think.
    So what do you think?
    Do you think it will hurt your income? it will.
    Do you think it will not hurt your income? it will not.
    Its that easy.

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