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    I have been working at this club for about 6 months now & started hanging out with this other dancer outside the club for about a month and then out of the blue like a couple weeks ago she came up to me at the club and said I was giving her dirty looks, trying to start crap w/ me. ( I now know this girl gets mad when your making money and she isn't) well after that we don't hang out outside the club anymore, but she kept calling me like nothing happened. well now we barely talk at all, but for the 4th time in the past week or 2 she has been stepping all over my toes bad, I will be sitting with a customer & they will just look her way and she yells " what you want a private dance! Then last night after that I went to the bathroom and came back out on the floor and my customer is over at a table standing there talking to her w/ 2 of her little disciples sitting there ( I knew this was going to happen while I went to the bathroom) the door girl calls me over and said as soon as i went to the br she was waiving him over. I was going to confront her at the enfd of the night in the dressing room but was doing a dance and by the time I came out she was dressed & leaving, she knew I was going to confront her cause I told her "friend" She does this even to her best friend. IDK what to do i told the manager that I was getting sick off it and he just shrugged it off. It is so disrespectful and pissing me off and I know I can't take to much more of this chick's crap before I go off on her. btw, my customer did not go w/ her and told me everything she said. What should I do???? I have never in 20 yrs of dancing been so disrespected and I have to work w/ this chick like every night!

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    Unfortunately that's not totally uncommon behaviour for a stripper. You've stopped hanging out with her and she knows how you feel, but she's not changing her ways. I don't blame management for not wanting to get involved in petty stripper drama either. It sounds like it'd be pretty easy to just ignore her and go on making your money. Like, sure you could try and confront her, but do you really think she'd listen to what you had to say and suddenly realize she's acting childish and should stop?

    FWIW, I'm sorry you have to deal with her drama. I'm sure she'll move on to someone else if you stay out of it and just ignore her though.

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    Renee I told you this chick in Denver did this to me, well half those girls are so young and have no dancer ettiquite ayways. I mean she would see me in vip waiting to go into a suite with a guy and come up and be all hi I'm ..... and shake his hand or there would be guys with bottle service and they would all have a girl and she would come to my guy and just sit down and work her way in. I never said anything because Denver they don't give a shit anymore and most guys just thought she was high..... but your my sister were gonna have hatters even though you aren't the consumate hustler I am you try hard for what that rinky dink club is Also it's florida they don't give a fuck that's why I left penthouse because one girl there did thi to me. Don't make friends at work.....I know your club is slow and gets boring but don't! Is this that ghetto chick from walmart? If so I told you she seemed scetchy, now you know. You can come to key west with me and audry if you want but hey were sisters and you never call me, tell me your shit!?

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    ^ I may( I emphasize may) come work one night there with my friend Erin whose going to come stay with me for the rnc. I may not because I know they will be busting the clubs but I won't start shit with that chick if it's who I'm thinking( she's got like 30 punds on me) but you know what will happen if I come there......lol tatletales days. Ha ha.

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    ^This is why I make friends with NO dancers...Girls only want to be my friend if I have something they want and they think they can get it...I have to keep to myself and sometimes people think Im a bitch bc of it..Cant really do anything about it. It gets lonely sometimes not being able to have a real friendship w a girl who understands what its like to dance..but bc of the competitive factor which is natural in this business, its best not to let anyone near. I figured a long time ago its better to have one or two good friends who respect me and who r usually guys than to deal with some bitch whos hating on me or thinks shes better than me. either way...Its no good....I tried...I would look out for girls, even treat them to dinner etc..But after a while I was reminded that these girls when it wasnt convenient for them, wouldnt be there for me..Im not gonna give and get nothing in return...fuck that

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    ^ I know that's why I travel. When I worked in florida at my first club I was repected because I was the top girl( my sister will tell ya) or maybe not because she's in the emergency room as she broke her hand. Lol, but I always say the less they now about you the les they can say. When you start friending these bitches then they can talk about you to customers and management, if they don't know anything about you what can they say besides the jealous shit like your stuck up. I once had a girl tell my regular that the dj was my boyfriend and we had a baby. She almost got fired for it but she came forward and appologized. Anyways yeah the less they know the less they can say!

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    Quote Originally Posted by shift_6x View Post
    ^This is why I make friends with NO dancers...Girls only want to be my friend if I have something they want and they think they can get it...I have to keep to myself and sometimes people think Im a bitch bc of it..Cant really do anything about it. It gets lonely sometimes not being able to have a real friendship w a girl who understands what its like to dance..but bc of the competitive factor which is natural in this business, its best not to let anyone near. I figured a long time ago its better to have one or two good friends who respect me and who r usually guys than to deal with some bitch whos hating on me or thinks shes better than me. either way...Its no good....I tried...I would look out for girls, even treat them to dinner etc..But after a while I was reminded that these girls when it wasnt convenient for them, wouldnt be there for me..Im not gonna give and get nothing in return...fuck that
    It's best no to. That's your competition too. lol.

    I keep to myself too but I try not to look like a bitch to everyone either. You never know if someone may call you(bc you seen sweet and what a custie may like too) into a group that's about to hit a VIP room. You know, that one dude in the group that needs a girl. lol.

    But if i'm in the dressing room getting ready or eating, I cut convos short when they try to talk to me. I'm more of a "hello & bye" vague person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    Unfortunately that's not totally uncommon behaviour for a stripper. You've stopped hanging out with her and she knows how you feel, but she's not changing her ways. I don't blame management for not wanting to get involved in petty stripper drama either. It sounds like it'd be pretty easy to just ignore her and go on making your money. Like, sure you could try and confront her, but do you really think she'd listen to what you had to say and suddenly realize she's acting childish and should stop?

    FWIW, I'm sorry you have to deal with her drama. I'm sure she'll move on to someone else if you stay out of it and just ignore her though.
    thank you!

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    Thanks michele, when u going to key west and it's georgia who is doing this shit to me, but she's another ghetto bitch! The girl at walmart is her best friend and she does that shit to her also!

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    ^ Well maybe I'll come work there this week call me back when mom leaves.....but I'm definitely not doing 100 half hour, I'm charging 300 and 30 dances with top on.....I'll show those bitches what's up. LOL though you said they'd hate on me because I'm a money maker and I don't know if gowns could be pulled off at that club....though I do it in key west were girls walk around topless? Maybe scores? Damn I wish tony wasn't gm at thee doll house now.....some guy got 20,000 in funny money last month..

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    Srsly... I keep wondering where all these magical nice strippers I see on SW are.
    Its all an act..We are alllll evil..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    It's best no to. That's your competition too. lol.

    I keep to myself too but I try not to look like a bitch to everyone either. You never know if someone may call you(bc you seen sweet and what a custie may like too) into a group that's about to hit a VIP room. You know, that one dude in the group that needs a girl. lol.

    But if i'm in the dressing room getting ready or eating, I cut convos short when they try to talk to me. I'm more of a "hello & bye" vague person.
    Ive given up in a way bc when u keep to urself around here people oftentimes automatically assume ur a bitch..I cant really fight that except to try and smile more. This is a somewhat small area where in the clubs around here most people know u..Wish it wasnt like that and I was n NYC or LA/vegas but around here people r nosey and always talking trash..So I hold my head up high and ignore alot of the people who just come in to talk trash..Im sure they all mostly think Im stuck up, and quite franklly I dont care bc the customers who r interested approach me and find out Im not really that much of a bitch afterall..The ones who want to judge after seeing me for 1 second arent usually worth my time and energy anyways bc they r shitty people..

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