I know similar questions have been asked about 'what should I tell people what I do for work', but my question is a little more personal and I hope to get answers that really pertain to my question.
My boyfriend's family knows about my past career in the adult film industry and know that I webcam. Although I'm very "take home to mom" in real life, and I don't really carry that stripper persona, his family does not like me. My boyfriend and I dated for 6 years, have been best friends for 7 years, and took a break for a year, but still remained best friends. Now we are back together, and he hasn't told his parents yet. This is the only guy I ever thought of marriage with and when we got back together, he told me that he feels that way too.
But his family hates me and his father and sister think of me as a "joke". He doesn't get along with his father, but he is very close to his mother. He says his family loves gossip and when he tells anyone in his family that we're dating, they're gonna wanna test me by throwing a party and the first thing anyone is gonna do, is ask me about my work. And try to hit me off guard and see what I say. I would make something up, or not say the full truth, but my boyfriend has this thing where he "doesn't lie to his mom". I'd be happy to say I'm in customer service, but these people would really try and ask me what my daily routine is and although he wouldn't want me to go into detail, he doesn't lie to his mom.
What do I really say that I do for work? Where I'm not lying but I can be tasteful or something... /?



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