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    Ok so this is weird. There is a dancer at my job, she is an extras girl. She will constantly brag about how much she is making and how she can bang th dude so fast and not pay the house any money. She is always going to guys that get dances from me and asking them if I did anything inappropriate. Ive never done extras and I dont judge people who do but it does make it hard. Its a little frustrating when you look at the sheet and there are 35 girls working and only 2 ( surprisingly the ugliest/fattest/oldest ) girls making BANK. Like everyone else will leave with 200-300 and the other two with 1500+++

    She is always asking me why my husband does not take care of me and how if I sucked I could make sooooo much more than my 200 a night. I know she has a pimp because she has no car, lives in a motel and makes over 1300 every night and works 6 nights a week. Her clothes are always raggedy, in and out of the club.

    Last week she went up to me and told me I was fat, Im not. Im about 112 and am 5''2



    alwaaaayyyys making rude remarks about me and talking bad about me to other girls. Im afraid to confront her because I KNOW she has a pimp. Also, I cant talk to management because she is a top earner so I know she isnt going anywhere.

    She constantly calls me "white washed" because of the way I talk.
    Its like," hello, English was my 2nd language. I wasnt taught English on the streets, I learned it at school because my parents didnt speak English. Im sorry if my vobabulary is not 'ghetto' but I cant talk differently because this is what I was taught. I talk this way because I can read and write and I am an English major, I need to be able to communite with everyone.

    Im sorry you guys Im just fed up with her already I cant stand her. I want to hit her in the face : (

    She is NOT attractive at all and is really fat and gross. I tried ignoring her and I tried being nice but she GOES OUT of her way to attack me : (

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    There are things that come with this job and bad people is one of them.

    I don't understand why anything she says matters to you.

    Next time she begins talking, start walking.

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    She will randomly tell other dancers,"girl this girl is married and still working here."

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    Referring to you?

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    Yeah, like she will make it seem like Im married to a loser.

    She goes out of her way to be a beesch. She will laugh out loud when my name gets called on stage.

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    Yeah, like she will make it seem like Im married to a loser.

    She goes out of her way to be a beesch. She will laugh out loud when my name gets called on stage.

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    Ignore her no know its annoying and can be hurtful, but try just ignoring it. I hate confronting people though Soni may be biased towards ignoring people.
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    You tried ignoring her and tried being nice, now try standing up for yourself. Tell her to fuck off. You're at work to make money with customers, not deal with coworkers. The only thing you should even see when you walk into work is customers and money, everything else there is just decoration.

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    Not a stripper, but have to say, I would not have known that English was your second language if you hadn't said anything. For the love of all that is holy (or not... whatever blows your skirt up), don't get upset if anyone calls you out for not talking "ghetto". I don't know how it works in the stripper scene, but everywhere else, the lack of English proficiency by people who speak it as a FIRST language is maddening.



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    LOL- this one is easy. She's only trying to bring you down with her. Misery loves company, don't you know? She's trying to push you to become the disgusting bitter person that SHE is.... Be nice? Stand up for yourself? For what? What is the point? She is a waste of life. Just ignore it and continue to be the self respecting money making machine that you are. Pretend shes invisible, when she talks dont even acknowledge it or look at her. Keep smiling, be happy, pretend she does not exist.

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    Dude, it sounds like she's jealous and doesn't even realize it. Haters hate, don't even think about her.

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    Your co-workers should never know anything personal about you. That is your status and how much you make. It's no one's business.
    I agree, this girl is trying to bring you down. Just walk away as soon as she heads your way.

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    The more u seem like u dont notice her the less she may try to antagonize u...Miserable bitches love to fuck with the people who they can easily fuck with..Show her u dont give a fuck...That or else straight confront her to her face...Those r ur only options as I see it, besides leaving that club.

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