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    So my club was dead and I was sitting on my own. Out of the blue, the manager that hired me four months ago, comes and sits next to me and says, "You're lazy. You know how I know?" I say, "Why? How do you know?" I'm caught off guard at this point. I was expecting him to say, "because you're just sitting here." Rather he says, "BECAUSE YOUR HAIR IS UP, THAT'S WHY!"

    WTF??? I happen to have put my long hair up in a NEAT bun with a flower next to it. I do not wash my hair everyday or use heat more than three times a week because we all know that doing that excessively damages your hair.

    I went on and said, "Ok, how do you want me to wear my hair each night then?
    He says, "Oh, I don't care how you wear your hair."

    Then later on that night, I get a customer. He denies me running his card for $200 unless he buys a bottle and spends $500, because it would put the club over staying past closing time. In an EXTREMELY SARCASTIC TONE in front of the waitress and floor host, also assistant manager, he says, "Tell him to just buy a bottle. I love staying past closing, I'll stay here all morning. You know I love doing that!" He starts laughing to disguise his frustration.

    How would you have felt or handled both the situations? This is the first time he's ever acted this way towards me. I've always known him as being nice and friendly until last night.

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    Is there a club owner that you can tell? If so, don't make so much about him insulting you, but more about the club losing money, and him being rude to the guest. I would thrown in anything that was done to you as an after thought, because the owner may just think you're trying to be vindictive. But really play up how the club lost money.

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    Wow. The first incident is annoying, but not overly surprising given how stupid and ridiculous strip club managers tend to be. I'd just nod and smile but not pay attention.

    As for him directly fucking with your money? Well, shit. That's pretty uncalled for and absolutely unfair. Did he end up charging the customer's card so you could get your money and stay past close? If he was a bitch about it but did it, I'd tell him that I already tried to sell a bottle but he didn't want one and act all sympathetic and say that I wanted to go home too but it's been a quiet night, so what can you do. Act like you're on the same side, yanno? If he didn't charge it, I'd be off to find a new club. I will not deal with MANAGEMENT fucking with my money and denying me card transactions - we put up with enough bullshit!

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    was he drunk or something? makes me wonder why he would act like this if it was out of character for him.

    Quote Originally Posted by AriahsPariah View Post
    So my club was dead and I was sitting on my own. Out of the blue, the manager that hired me four months ago, comes and sits next to me and says, "You're lazy. You know how I know?" I say, "Why? How do you know?" I'm caught off guard at this point. I was expecting him to say, "because you're just sitting here." Rather he says, "BECAUSE YOUR HAIR IS UP, THAT'S WHY!"

    WTF??? I happen to have put my long hair up in a NEAT bun with a flower next to it. I do not wash my hair everyday or use heat more than three times a week because we all know that doing that excessively damages your hair.

    I went on and said, "Ok, how do you want me to wear my hair each night then?
    He says, "Oh, I don't care how you wear your hair."

    Then later on that night, I get a customer. He denies me running his card for $200 unless he buys a bottle and spends $500, because it would put the club over staying past closing time. In an EXTREMELY SARCASTIC TONE in front of the waitress and floor host, also assistant manager, he says, "Tell him to just buy a bottle. I love staying past closing, I'll stay here all morning. You know I love doing that!" He starts laughing to disguise his frustration.

    How would you have felt or handled both the situations? This is the first time he's ever acted this way towards me. I've always known him as being nice and friendly until last night.

    Thoughts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    Wow. The first incident is annoying, but not overly surprising given how stupid and ridiculous strip club managers tend to be. I'd just nod and smile but not pay attention.

    As for him directly fucking with your money? Well, shit. That's pretty uncalled for and absolutely unfair. Did he end up charging the customer's card so you could get your money and stay past close? If he was a bitch about it but did it, I'd tell him that I already tried to sell a bottle but he didn't want one and act all sympathetic and say that I wanted to go home too but it's been a quiet night, so what can you do. Act like you're on the same side, yanno? If he didn't charge it, I'd be off to find a new club. I will not deal with MANAGEMENT fucking with my money and denying me card transactions - we put up with enough bullshit!
    I agree with Shanna's advice. I've never heard of a club owner or club manager that doesn't want to make money. That's astounding!
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    Well, I have..worked in a little dive, the owner actually threw out paying/tipping customers b/c "they weren't drinking fast enough". By far the most universally hated person I ever met.
    He sound like a real JAG, & I would get it known about what he did w/the bottle stuff..what an ASSHOLE!

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    Well, I have..worked in a little dive, the owner actually threw out paying/tipping customers b/c "they weren't drinking fast enough". By far the most universally hated person I ever met.
    He sound like a real JAG, & I would get it known about what he did w/the bottle stuff..what an ASSHOLE!

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    Concerning the first incident, ur manager just sounds like a d bag whos lashing out..Some managers like to push around those who they feel r weak...I try to stand my ground alot around managements personally, bc if they r asshole owners/managers they will be shitty if they sense weakness...If they sense ull say something back or tell them off they r alot less hesitant to lash out...Not always the just just found it to be too in some circumstances...Sorry this happened to u...

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    Default Re: Manager insulting me...

    It was definitely out of his character or perhaps those are this true colors. I have the business card of one of the owners of the club so it wouldn't be hard for me to tell him he fucked with the club's and my money. However, I may confront my manager first about it...
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