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    Default What was your experience with female roommates like?

    I just moved from my own studio apartment into a house with three other ladies.

    Just wondering about your stories with female roommates?
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    it was hell.

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    AHhHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhHHhHhHHH!!!!!! nooooooooo


    ...details?

    ...or maybe i shouldn't ask.

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    Default Re: What was your experience with female roommates like?

    I never had a problem although I have noticed some girls are much more moody than me. I just stayed outta their way if they were grumpy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yinyang View Post
    AHhHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhHHhHhHHH!!!!!! nooooooooo


    ...details?

    ...or maybe i shouldn't ask.
    we use to be best friends- known each other for decades. we were happy together then i decided to start dancing. first she was like "oh cool" then started to become jealous, telling everyone what i do when it was suppose to be secret, then it gradually turned into her calling me a prostitute, he brother had a crush on me and that turned into a fight. she stole clothes from me as well. it became so bad that i moved out in the middle of the lease.

    the apt was in my name, the plan was for her to finish the lease on her own with her boyfriend. didnt talk to her for months, next thing you know i get a call from COLLECTIONS for over 2 grand of bills she left behind.

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    Ugh, girls are evil. 4 girls in one place is awful, because everyone pairs off or groups off to make one person's life hell.

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    @JoJoX, I had a guy roommate agree to pay the rent when I moved out of a home only to get the entirety of the remaining lease put as a debt in my name. I lived there two months, he paid for one. I still owe 9 months rent plus damages.


    For me, I've only lived with really cool chicks. I've had tons of awesome guy roommates too. I think that the problem with anyone you let close to you, or especially live with, is that they can (and do) get jealous a lot of the time!

    The rumors and the attitudes are all jealousy. I can PERSONALLY say I was one of those girls. Before I felt empowered enough and confident enough to get on cam, I was SO JEALOUS of the girls that could make money in short amounts of time by being sexy. I would talk smack and be a petty little bitch. Now this was me just turning 18 and moving on campus into a quad full of dancers lol.

    I think if you find people who are HAPPY with themselves and their lives then the bullshit won't be a problem. It's not that living with females as a dancer is always a bad idea. It's that females can tend to be more insecure and more prone to jealousy. Now men can get jealous too, if a man gets feelings for you he may be a petty bitch too.

    Basically what I'm saying is that no matter what gender, you need to have mature and happy people around you to avoid bullshit.
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    I lived in a house of 9 girls and found my life a living hell. We were all close friends but cliques form within cliques and I found myself left out of them all. The most lonely and isolating experience I've ever had, even with all those people around me at once.

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    it was hell.
    This.
    (But, I find living with anybody, hard!)
    It's worth giving it a go it sounds as if you would want to, can always move out!
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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    it was hell.
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    (But, I find living with anybody, hard!)
    It's worth giving it a go it sounds as if you would want to, can always move out!
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    I've had great and crappy experiences with roommates. Maturity, regardless of age, and self satisfaction are essential. Without both of those people take their crap out at home, everything from using you to make their man/woman jealous to bitching at you because they are frustrated at work. I've had good female and male roommates, younger and older. Another key is they can't have even a whiff of entitlement. If you pick up that attitude, they may be fun and funny to hang out with but they will be hellish to live with. Moody people feel entitled to take out their mood on others like a three year old would, horny entitled people feel comfortable hitting on you, broke entitled people will always be watching, counting your money and possessions and hating you for it. You get the gist.
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    I've always had a hellish experience with roommates, especially since I've started camming. They told me it made them uncomfortable and not to do it when they're there. I told them to tell me when they wouldn't be around and I would set my schedule on sm accordingly. They didn't tell me. Then they all ganged up (there are 3 of them and one of me) and went to the property manager at the apartment complex the university owns. They made up all sorts of lies and acted like they never asked me questions about it, like i was sexually harassing them. They did all this behind my back and tried to get me evicted. I ended up staying because I really don't have anywhere else to go at the moment. Since then, they've been sabotaging my study efforts (I'm a student first and camgirl second) as well as my camming. They aren't serious about anything and are little 18 year old prudes who buy crappy sex toys and wouldn't know a book if it hit them in the head. Trying to work with them is like pulling teeth because they don't want to work. They're used to getting their way in everything. Thank GOD they aren't vegetarians like I am. Otherwise, we'd have a food nicking problem. Thank God too that the doors to the bedrooms all have locks. Otherwise, they could steal my shit. Has anyone else dealt with roommates who sabotaged camming and studying efforts?

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    I had one bad and one good experience. I moved in with a girl and her freeloading boyfriend, agreeing that I'd pay half the rent and they'd pay the other half, since there were two bedrooms in the apartment of equal size. Fair enough. When it came to utility bills, though, they thought it was okay for them collectively to pay half instead of two thirds, even though they actually used more than two thirds of the electricity because of some odd emotional need to put up Christmas lights in November, and the fact that the girl's bf stayed home all day playing video games. It just spiraled into a bad situation, where they were trying to get over on me for various things I should not have had to pay, trying to intimidate me with made-up stories of thug shit they'd supposedly done in the past, etc. etc. etc. I was young so instead of maturely telling them I was moving out I secretly gathered all my things, called my boyfriend to come help me, and we got everything out in two quick trips up and down the stairs and they didn't even notice I was gone until like two hours later.

    I then lived with a good female friend, and eventually her boyfriend. Everything was split up fairly, and even though I was NOT a fan of her BF, things managed to stay cool and the only reason I moved out was because I was moving back to Cleveland. So it is possible to have it work out, it just depends on who it is and how its set up.

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    I always find them nosy, I always prefer non strippers and try to not get close just hi and bye and small talk, my last ones were ok because they stayed out alot, Im alone now and loving it.
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    It depends who - I have one amazing friend who I could live with no problems (and have done on numerous occasions) but I've also shared work accommodation with girls who were nightmares to live with. One girl would just sit and stare all the time which freaked me out, and she'd always eat really noisily right near my bed. A girl who at 5 years older than me still couldn't do anything for herself - who asked me how to do her laundry every single day! Girls who stay up all night chatting and want to sleep all day which would hurt my sleep and force me to sneak around during daylight hours. Girls who bring home drama.
    Pfff! I hate housemates. I'm happiest just me (and occasional male company).

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    My experience has been really varied, I've lived with a crazy cat lady who was super anal and as socially awkward as they come (and I count myself as pretty socially awkward).

    I've lived with my sister and her wife which was mostly fine, except when they left the dishes so long there wasn't a single clean utensil in the house or didn't clean up after their pets.

    I've lived with a really good friend who was also a stripper but we both traveled a lot for work so never stuck with each other for super long periods of time. It was a lot of fun when we were both there however.

    Right now I live with a close friend (non-stripper), her teenage daughter, the friend's boyfriend and my sister. It's a pretty super-fun house but we all have very easy going personalities.

    I definitely prefer living with people I know over strangers but there's a lot of my friends I'd never live with and would prefer strangers to. I'm always open about what I do and never really encountered a problem with it - but I guess I'm kinda picky about the company I keep.
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    Every time I've had roommates (with the exception of my boyfriend, now), I haven't been friends with them. We tolerate each other. We never hung out. I liked it like that.
    I've had roommates that were dirty before, that's what I don't like. As long as they clean up after themselves and they don't want to be friends with me, then I'm fine with it. I'm not a social person who wants to hang out with people all the time. I like my own space.
    Gender really never mattered to me. The male roommates I've had have been cleaner than the females but I think that was just because of their personality, not their gender, lol.
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    Total nightmare. We all started out as friends, none of us talk anymore.

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    hmm, my experience..AWFUL. she turned into a psycho dope addict, got our electricity shut off and kicked out. i dont do roommates, it always end disastrously , being friends is one thing, living together is another it just turns out bad!! not even worth their part of the rent, when they pay it..

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    this thread makes me feel so much better. This is my second move in like 6 months because living with roommates hasn't really been working out for me. I'm not living with a girl right now, but my male roommate brings over his gf everyday so I might as well be. I think at some point she decided not to like me and now they both ignore me when I walk into the apt, and the tension is brewing. I pray that this next place will work out. Kind of a hit or miss I'd say but so far in my personal experience it's been all misses.
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    First 2 roommates I was assigned in uni nvr showed up, which was great for me as I came down w/ pneumonia my first wk of school. I was happy to not have anyone else to keep awake w/ my coughing.

    Nxt roommate moved in w/ me partway thru the semester, a 27-year-old in freshman housing who apparently requested a roommate change b/c she couldn't deal w/ a lesbian roommate. Nice enough at first, but turned out to have sm serious mental illness (think tinfoil hats & horrendous personal hygiene problems). She got involuntarily committed right after we came back from Xmas break.

    The one after her stayed for only 2 months or so before deciding she missed all her friends in the old dorm across campus. Nvr had any troubles w/ her, we actually didn't see much of each other, I always thought that was a bit strange but oh well. All of these things were before I started dancing.

    When I started dancing, during flt school but after uni, one of my roommates who became one of my best friends, was totally cool w/ it & supportive. The other one talked smack abt me behind my back, calling me a whore when she was cheating on her own bf w/ her married instructor.

    The last female roommate I had was a girl several yrs younger than me, not really a bad person I don't think but very immature. She nvr knew abt the dancing, b/c at the time I knew her I had taken a break from it, but she was the reason I eventually installed a new lock on my door that only I & our other roommate who was subletting, had the keys for. I don't think she ever outright stole from me, but I knew for a fact she was going thru my things.

    Only had I think 3 guy roommates, 2 of them were cool but the other one & I clashed over taking care of his cat.

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    When I was in grad school in my late 20s, I shared a rented house with a female grad student friend and two strippers for a few months. Long story short, my friend became my enemy and alienated the two others, I dropped out of grad school for three years, and I didn't set foot in strip club for 17 years. (Actually, the strippers weren't so bad, but they didn't paint a very pretty picture of the industry for me.) On the other hand, I shared an apartment for about a year with an aspiring operatic soprano, and it was a comfortable, almost businesslike relationship.

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    If the military counts? I lived in an open bay with 59 other women, and that was pretty rough.
    The fist fight that broke out when one girl accused the other of stealing her birth control pills was kind of amusing though.
    "What kind of whore brings bc to basic?" "I need them to regulate my period, give them back bitch!" "you need to regulate the dicks going in your pussy!"
    Aye. I hung out with the guys most of the time.

    I did have a roomate though, who was super violent...I couldnt go home cause she was always screaming and throwing stuff at her bf
    So I would just shack up with anyone....anything to not have to go back there.

    My next (and last roomate) was super super super cool though.
    We hung out, partied, kept our place super clean, and she was just an overall great person.

    Oh wait, I did have roomates after that, these two girls...they were so snobby and kept going through my stuff.
    Id flat out ask them if they found anything interesting. One of them ended up being nice. But I didnt trust her,
    afterall...she had a thing about going thorugh my stuff...and when I moved I dropped contact.

    I miss my super cool roomate though. Good times...good times!
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    I alwayssss had craycray ones... except my first roommate ever. We never fought once and lived together for a long time. All the others... well lets see...

    There was the one who acted passive aggressive and text me one day to tell me to turn off my fan in my room when I leave next time (there was no fan LOL). And always complained about the litterbox "smell", even when my cat was staying with my mom for awhile (roommate didn't know this) and wasn't even there.

    There was the one that freaked out when I gave my 30 days bc I was the leaseholder & she didn't qualify for a lease I guess, and so it kicked her out and she tried to sue me over it. Its not my fault if someone else doesn't qualify. I even offered to help her find a roommate and she said no. It got so bad after the 30 day notice that she stopped talking/responding to me, so we had to communicate through the real estate agency (and selective texts she chose to respond to). The real estate agency employees got super bitchy with me over that (but what else am I supposed to do if she literally ignores me when I'm in front of her?), and I'm sure I got that rental reference sabotaged over the dumb roommate.

    There was the crazy couple I lived with (neeeeever live with couples!) where they were obviously totally wrong for each other and fought, but she lived in delusion. She also gave me her # and the other guy who lived in the house's #, but I wasn't allowed to have his or something. When we were facebook friends, she also hid that she was in a relationship so I couldn't click his facebook I guess. So weird. Who does that? He was like 5'8" too, no thanks.

    There was a gay guy I lived with who was obsesssssssssed with talking about himself. All he ever did was talk about the boys he was hooking up with and the fun things he was doing in his life. I literally knew everything about his life, and he knew nothing at all about mine (I actually don't mind that). But whenever I'd see him, I obviously had to make small talk, and then I was stuck for like an hour listening to him talk about his boy drama. He meant well and was nice, but it got kind of annoying.

    The rest were straight boys (and ex-boyfriends too). They are, by far, the easiest people for me to live with. But I just live alone now since I cam, but I do have paranoia sometimes. I'm getting an alarm system this xmas. I'm probably moderately agoraphobic, so its better this way anyway.
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    I never had a problem although I have noticed some girls are much more moody than me. I just stayed outta their way if they were grumpy.
    Yesssssssssssssss I haaaate that SO MUCH!! Like, don't take out your problems/anxieties/anger out on me!! Luckily that didn't happen that much because I made myself mostly unavailable to my roommates (minus the 1 good one who was super laid back) since I danced back then and didn't cam (aka not home). But seriously, no one should be used as anyone's passive aggressive punching bag. And I hear about that happening a lot. Dumb girl roommates making up non-existent problems just so they can bitch at someone and take out their anger. I am the best roommate ever. I never complain, fight, start drama, or care about anything that isn't a massive deal.

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