I was talking to a reg on Friday about the club, the girls and his experiences there. During this discussion I think I had a light bulbmoment about the club's ultimate hustler, who left in March to go home.
I had heard a few times before that girls had overheard really wierd conversations as part of her hustle. A lot of us were just WTF about how she made the money she did, and got almost every guy in the place to agree to a show (other than hustling soullessly, which was obvious) . Anyway, the guy I was talking to said the conversation went a little like this:
(Dancer approaches and sits)
Custy: "Hi, how's your day"
Dancer (instantly): "Oh, better than your day!"
Custy: "Really, what did you get up to?"
Dancer: "Much more than you!"
Custy: "Sounds interesting, like what?"
"More than you!" -propositions for a dance.
Custy: "No thanks, I'm not interested" (thinks "Fuck off!" and mentally gives her the finger- watching him describe this was hilarious)
This made me curious, whilst it made him mad, and with his SC experience he could see she was playing games, it seemed that the "beat down" was often part of her hustle.
By making a guy feel defensive, insecure, or that she was not interested, did it make him feel the need to spend more on her to prove that he was socially acceptable/interesting/or to have a chance to have his say? She wasn't overtly rude, but seemed to make an effort to make the guy feel like he had to put up or shut up, to prove his worth. I feel like this is a pretty scummy way to treat someone, especially as they often come as their self esteem is a bit shaky to begin with, but has anyone experienced this type of hustle before? Know someone who uses it effectively? It's bizarre but she made tons, and I know for a fact this approach was not a one off.
I tend to try and be nice, but that really isn't working out great for me, and while I'd feel hella guilty manipulating someone like this, I am also exploring approaches to add to my persona, that may help me be less shit at what I do. I know in past I have had crazy attraction (physically) to someone fairly aloof and slightly manipulative. Emotion never came into it, but it definitely made the physical attraction stronger.
Curious...



moment about the club's ultimate hustler, who left in March to go home.
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