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    I want to get paid to have sex. It's been a mission of ours for years. but I can't afford to get caught! So my plan is to call up a friend of ours that is a local sheriff's deputy and ask him if he would be willing to hook me up. Is that a bad ides? Or do you think the local popo does more than they're willing to let on?
    I just gotta be me!

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    all day today i kept saying this aint burger king or mcdonalds u cant have it ur way till u pay then a guy was all i just want a sample im all this aint baskin robins either

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    Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?

    Ok, let us say the Sherrifs Deputy does "hook you up". What happens then? Well, my guess is that the the ethically deficient Deputy becomes your Pimp. You don't come back with his money, you get some teeth knocked out "resisting" and go to jail for "Prostitution".

    No, I can't really find anything wrong with this plan.

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    The area you will get a proper response is located .

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    I'm gonna go with "don't alert the police about your illegal activities". You'll end up as a funny link Tempest posts if you do that.
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    What do you mean when you say "mission of ours"? You and who else? I've had so many guys encourage me to sell my girl scout cookies and none of them were trustworthy. A man who wants something FOR you will encourage you to go to school, etc. A guy who promises to "hook you up" wants something FROM you. I'm not doubting the existence of crooked cops but I'm definitely doubting the trustworthiness of one.

    If you really *want* to turn tricks, tell your best female friend and no one else. No boyfriends/male friends cuz males can go from zero to wannabe pimp in 60 seconds or less, no acquaintances/ relatives because then you WILL have people talking about you and popping out of the woodwork with their hands out, and definitely no cops/ anyone else who could blackmail you with the information.

    Do you really *want* to do it though or do you just really need some fast money? If that's the case I know the feeling and wish I had some suggestions but don't. If you just really enjoy having sex and want to get paid for it though... why not just try porn or something? A lot safer that way and the guy you'd be fucking would be 1000 times more desirable than your average trick.

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    Why don't you go where it's legal? It's legal in most counties in Nevada, but not Las Vegas.

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    First off, it's hard to take this post seriously. Secondly, what do u mean "ours"? Do u have multiple personalities or something? Also, why the hell would u ask a COP about it? It's illegal in the greatajority of the US annnnnddd yes,they take it seriously! Do u not read/see/hear all the news posts about people getting arrested and clubs getting raided for illegal sexual activities? That's really a no-brainer.

    I'm not against prostitution. I'm against getting arrested. Go somewhere it's legal, as eagle2 said.
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    Sorry so vague! My husband's and my idea! The guy who is a cop is totally trusted by us. We are swingers and he has actually been with us before.
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    all day today i kept saying this aint burger king or mcdonalds u cant have it ur way till u pay then a guy was all i just want a sample im all this aint baskin robins either

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    You trust him to be a crooked cop? if that's the case then you shouldn't trust him at all.
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    This may come off a bit judgy, but why would you want to be paid for sex, you're married.
    Now you have the bright idea of letting a cop in on your prostitution stunt?

    Any cop that would knowingly allow you to do such things, would have to be a complete and total idiot.

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    Why don't you let you hubby sell his body, sounds like he is going to take advantage of this.

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    You guys are right, I need to re-think this. thanks!
    I just gotta be me!

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    all day today i kept saying this aint burger king or mcdonalds u cant have it ur way till u pay then a guy was all i just want a sample im all this aint baskin robins either

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eye View Post
    I want to get paid to have sex. It's been a mission of ours for years.
    Wait. Is this a cuckolded Husband fetish?

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    Oh my Eye...

    Guys (and gals) If youve been following Eyes posts in other threads youd know shes been having a hard time IRL with some other personal issues and is struggling a bit right now to regain balance in her life so I suspect this is where this post is coming from...

    Yes Eye this is def something you should re-think. You'd be taking health risks, legal risks, emotional risks, and may damage your marriage- all for min financial gain and probably pretty low sexual fulfillment on your end.

    The other work section does have a lot of info for escorts if youre interested in branching out into that area career wise. But its a major step, that requires a lot of time, energy, work, and research on your part to do it safely.

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    Eye, your husband wants to pimp you out, likely because he is too lazy to work. I would ditch his ass and if you want to do this I would go the high class escort route and avoid dealing with cops. That is assuming this is legit and it sounds like it could be a sick joke.

    Seriously where do women keep finding these types of men?

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    Being a swinger is recreation. Being a prostitute is a job. If your husband wanted you to do this just for fun/sexual reasons, money wouldn't be a factor. If he just wanted to see you fuck other men, the swinging would satisfy this desire.

    Now, maybe yall do really need the money and he really can't work, but just be aware guys are really, REALLY good at making it seem like they just *can't* make money for whatever reason and you just *have* to "take one for the team" "just for a while" but it's all game. Also, just remember that any "fast" solution to financial problems usually just causes further problems. I was so tempted at one point to just put myself on backpage and turn tricks for like a month to pay some things off... I'm so glad I picked the slower route instead, not because I look down on turning tricks, but because getting attacked or arrested are very real dangers I'm glad I avoided.

    Also, it says you live in "podunk MO" which means in all likelihood you wouldn't be making much per trick anyway. Even where I live, which is a major (but kinda poor) city, it seems like pussy typically goes for a hundred dollars or less. Becoming one of the higher-earning escorts that make 300-500 for a session would take a lot of time and effort anyway, and possibly travel to a bigger city... and these are the girls who know the game well and are not relying on a crooked cop to "put them on." So you've gotta ask yourself, is it really worth it in your particular position?

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    Wow guys. Really great replies. I especially like the ones deciding what her husband is all about based on - well, ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY NOTHING.

    Fucking SERIOUSLY?! They are kinky and she has a fantasy she wants to play out. PLAIN AND FUCKING SIMPLE. Unless SHE tells you it was her hubby's idea and that he's out of work or something like that - where the HELL do you get off?!

    Advising her that it's a bad idea as far as getting in trouble with the law or health, fine. But beyond that, most of this thread is straight bullshit conjecture based on stereotypes and negative personal experiences or ideas.

    Seriously disappointed in StripperWeb members right now.

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    LOVE these responses!!!


    lmao. My husband has a full time job, takes care of me and our kids, he is NOT trying to PIMP me out. We are looking into a fantasy that we both are interested in. We thought that people here could give us better insight as to how to hook up with someone who would pay me to have sex. Sorry if we've got the wrong site for info.
    I just gotta be me!

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    If its not really about the $$ for you, more the idea, why don't you take the middle road and find some swinging buddies who can roleplay with you? Or maybe you could webcam while your man watches, thats real $$ and real safe, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    Wow guys. Really great replies. I especially like the ones deciding what her husband is all about based on - well, ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY NOTHING.

    Fucking SERIOUSLY?! They are kinky and she has a fantasy she wants to play out. PLAIN AND FUCKING SIMPLE. Unless SHE tells you it was her hubby's idea and that he's out of work or something like that - where the HELL do you get off?!

    Advising her that it's a bad idea as far as getting in trouble with the law or health, fine. But beyond that, most of this thread is straight bullshit conjecture based on stereotypes and negative personal experiences or ideas.

    Seriously disappointed in StripperWeb members right now.
    If she had said something like "my husband wants to see me with another man" I wouldn't have blinked an eye (no pun intended). It's just when I see money mentioned I creep out because years ago I did meet a guy who really did want to pimp me out claiming it was his "fantasy" and when I refused he got mad and kicked me out of the apartment. In my situation he had no fantasy at all but rather was a pimp and did this to other women he was supposedly dating. This guy destroyed my life for years on many levels (including stealing all my money I got from legitimately dancing)and when I see these threads I am on alert. There are men out there who do want to make money off their women and we see them often in many of the dancing threads as well.

    This might be offensive to some, but once you make money from sex you are prostituting yourself. Sure you may not be a bona fide prostitute (that is a debate for another time)but the law doesn't care whether it's your first time selling sex or your millionth time, except the punishment is less severe. I have nothing against women choosing to do this but it should be the woman's choice not the husband.

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    So in your case at least I was right - a strong reaction based on personal experience with no consideration for the OP's situation specifically.

    She said specifically that she wanted to have sex for money. PRETENDING isn't the same, swinging isn't the same. She said they'd been looking into it for YEARS. Right there, this situation is clearly different than what the majority of the replies here assume.

    Maybe a few people should have asked a few questions before deciding on teh nature, tone, and content in their reply. Just a thought. It was the jumping all over it without any attempt to understand that got my dander up. Lots of that around here lately.

    For the record, it was ESPECIALLY amusing to see the nature of the replies given that so many of those posting them either do or have in teh past done something professionally that many, MANY women "fantasize" about in much the same way. And I would expect conservative vanilla replies to be "OMG, don't degrade yourself! What's wrong with your man that he wants to see you as a stripper!" etc, etc. But here, I would have thought shit would a LITTLE more open minded, a little more interested, a little less reactionary. In the immortal words of Vizzini (Princess Bride) "You'd LIKE to THINK that, WOULDN'T YOU!?" (Best. Quote. Ever.)

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    I wasn't against it; I was against her going to a cop and getting arrested.

    Maybe she should look on Fetlife or something, but going to a cop (no matter how close he is to them) is a dumb move IMHO. If she is serious and plans to do this with strangers she should go where it's legal or ask some close, non-cop friends.
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    Wow, @almostjaded, are we reading the same thread?
    Coming from a totally 'unemotional' place, I thought many of the replies in this thread were fantastic. A chica who has recently experienced a tremendous loss (grief makes people impulsive at times, I know I've been there) writes a post expressing a desire to engage in an illegal and highly stigmatizing activity in a small town. She also admits that she knows nothing about the activity, and hence knows nothing about how to engage in this activity safely.

    I happen to think it's ridiculous that the sale of sex is illegal in most parts of the US, but the reality is, that law exists. Thus, sharing the plan with a law enforcement officer, even a friend, is a huge risk. Further, like a few chicas have mentioned, engaging in a stigmatizing illegal activity in a small town where secrets are hard to keep carries an additional emotional risk. To be honest, based upon the little I know about this field, I would say that needing to ask any friend to 'find' a John pretty much demonstrates that Eye is not ready to do this, in that she clearly doesn't posses enough knowledge (yet) to enact this fantasy safely.

    Do you also not see that asking questions regarding the motive behind this desire is pertinent to offering helpful advice? Further, that suggesting alternatives such as the one raised by Lolita offers the OP other ways in which she could fulfill this fantasy that carry lower risks than original idea proposed? That's not judgement, that's called having a conversation about the topic and weighing the benefits and risks of different methods of acting out a fantasy. That's how I see it, anyway?

    I hope this thread gets moved over to 'Other Work' so more chicas who actually do this work can weigh in on the matter, but regardless, I still think some of the posts in this thread are stripperweb at it's best.

    If the OP decides to carry through on this fantasy, more power to her. At least in reading through the posts here she'll have an opportunity to weigh the risks and at least consider less stigmatizing options.

    I happen to think that the webcam role play idea is a great one, but that's ultimately up for You to decide, Eye. Whatever you do, make sure you educate yourself as to what you're getting into, and don't ever make a cop (even a friend) your resource base for doing something against the law. If you're going to do this, you need to make sure you protect yourself physically, emotionally and legally.

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    Thanks sweetie! I agree with you, that's kind of why I asked the question. I've learned that research is the best way to go about everything. And you are a MOD so you are welcome to move this thread if you like!
    I just gotta be me!

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