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    I am perfectly able to go on cam tonight and have the stamina to keep going. I've been on for 9 days straight because I have been doing really really well and know that just because it's here today doesn't mean it will be here tomorrow. I'm not feeling burned out but do want to be energized for the weekend so I'm lazing around in my jammies walking back and fourth from the couch to watch TV, to the bed to watch TV and to my computer room to play Yahoo games.

    I'm eating Yogurt, snuggling with my cat, doing laundry and pretty much nothing. Yay!!

    But I feel so guilty because I'm not reaching my full potential money wise. One night is $200 to $400 not in my pocket but I also remember weekends are better so as I struggle with this, I am on my way back to bed to contemplate lol.

    Anyone else go through this?

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    Yes, me
    all the time.

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    Ugh i should do the same.put on the jammies and relax!!Dead night on my sites for actual money spenders...no regulars on.Also I started a new vanilla job this week..and was way over scheduled...so i should take this day to chill out.However I haven't been able to cam much this week so I feel guilty.and am searching a new site to join.lol.can't stop,won't stop!BUT..don't feel guilty..sure we choose our hours here..and how much we work..but it is work.No matter how much of our own bosses we are...we work.Everyone deserves a night off here and there.So try to take one!I should take this advice and hit my couch up!!

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    ME! Since July 10th I took 5 or 6 days off all together and been putting in good hours like 6-10 hours a day... I just can't make myself to take a day off... for the same reason I feel so guilty if I do... I better work now, so I wouldn't have to worry about money when the "I am burned out" week comes

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    I think this goes for all self employed work - You're never really free :-)) I have only just in the last year After ten years of working my own business I only learned how to relax in the last 6 months. It's a skill worth learning . I was reading in the guardian newspaper a few months back , top ten deathbed regrets....

    Number one was : I wish I didn't spend so much time working!

    Number two was : I wish I allowed myself to be happy . I think the two go hand in hand ... and they are from the mouths of babes ( so to speak ! )

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    A new problem with enjoying the day off: Now I don't want to go back on. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by cvarga View Post
    A new problem with enjoying the day off: Now I don't want to go back on. LOL
    You forgot the more u take off the less u want to get back on as well...
    it escalates quickly into.. I dont want to do this!

    or maybe thats just me..........

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    ^Nope, definitely not just you. I've been on vacation and, with the exception of one regular that I have been on for, I am thinking of going home and doing everything BUT going back on cam!

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    jesus thats me eeeevery night! lol and its true u cant take too long off because it will be so hard to start up again. I just tell myself i have this many days left this week to make my goal, so i know i gotta push it to make the amount of money i want for the week.

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    I'm on. It's funny how simple it is to ease back into it when the money starts flowing

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    Quote Originally Posted by cvarga View Post
    I'm on. It's funny how simple it is to ease back into it when the money starts flowing
    lol...
    depends how much money we;re talking about..

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    I've been doing really well this week

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    Quote Originally Posted by cvarga View Post
    I've been doing really well this week
    Good!
    so u can stop feeling guilty when you take off

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    Good!
    so u can stop feeling guilty when you take off
    LOL

    I never do this good. It's a fluke. I need to stay on.

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    Whenever I have a 'winning streak', it motivates me to stay on as long as possible and ride the wave until it's completely milked out. You never know when the next one might be, and you never know what will befall you next week and keep you off cam (unexpected expense, faulty equipment, sudden sickness (I came down with a weird all-over body rash one time... lol... THAT was hot), internet outage, etc).

    Can't take anything for granted!!! :-)
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    What I DO have issues with, is that this was a couple of years ago And Judas is still in the freezer.

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