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    Hi Newbie here! I want to KNO if you have to have a kick ass body to escort. I'm really tall plus I just had a baby so I have a bit of a muffin top and zero ass but I have a beautiful face. Do you guys think u can succeed in this business?

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    Default Re: Do you have to have a really great body to escort?

    Well,at least try to minimize those love handles a little bit. How long ago you had a kid? How tall are you?





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    Default Re: Do you have to have a really great body to escort?

    I don't think so I have a collegue who used escorting to help reach body image goals. got a tummy tuck out of it looks like a whole new person, for me I am able to use escorting to pay for my gym membership.

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    I don't think so I have a collegue who used escorting to help reach body image goals. got a tummy tuck out of it looks like a whole new person, for me I am able to use escorting to pay for my gym membership.

    starting out you work with what you have and build from that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    Well,at least try to minimize those love handles a little bit. How long ago you had a kid? How tall are you?
    Im 6'1 and I've already lost about 30 pounds. I weight about 295. I'm thinking about advertising as smaller size bbw. But I heard bbw doesn't get as much calls as regular escorts.

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    Im 6'1 and I've already lost about 30 pounds. I weight about 295. I'm thinking about advertising as smaller size bbw. But I heard bbw doesn't get as much calls as regular escorts.
    Not really. It all depends where you are located. You can try to do escorting as a smaller BBW, and also you can supplement your income as a cam girl; there is a large market for BBW in the cam industry (when I was in MFC one of the performers with the highest traffic was a BBW).





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    You all just reminded me to get my butt back in the gym.

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    Default Re: Do you have to have a really great body to escort?

    First of all, it doesn't matter if you have stretch marks, blue or green marks all over your body - someone will pay to be with you. All these questions are unneccessary because we've gone over this before - over and over again. You can look like a cow and someone will pay to f**k you. BBWs have their own market. There are guys that go out of their way just to be with a bbw provider. Focus on making your body better but don't dwell too much on it because really no one cares. A good attitude will take you further. Nothing worse than a hot girl with a bad attitude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    First of all, it doesn't matter if you have stretch marks, blue or green marks all over your body - someone will pay to be with you. All these questions are unneccessary because we've gone over this before - over and over again. You can look like a cow and someone will pay to f**k you. BBWs have their own market. There are guys that go out of their way just to be with a bbw provider. Focus on making your body better but don't dwell too much on it because really no one cares. A good attitude will take you further. Nothing worse than a hot girl with a bad attitude.
    So true!!!! Having a good body helps, but attitude and performance are all that really matters just be yourself but also see where you can improve, and be the best you can be! The work is far more fun if you can make it all about your fun personality and awesome sexy abilities rather than your looks.

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Default Re: Do you have to have a really great body to escort?

    I agree, I think it's all about performance and attitude as well. I'm no escort, but I have friends who are BBW and do well. There's a niche for everything, you just have to market to the right clients. Of course, I believe BBW have to go the extra mile to make sure they look great as well. Just because a guy will pay to be with a BBW, that doesn't mean it's okay to look sloppy and skip the gym (unless he's a fetishist and likes that sort of thing) hygiene is everyone's friend! And a great appearance opens the doors for guys who may have gone for a thinner woman. I used to cam and I've turned a lot of "regular" guys into BBW lovers as I'm a smaller BBW myself. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Do you have to have a really great body to escort?

    Agreed, no matter what size you are, sloppiness is never sexy unless the client asks for it

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Thank all of you for your feedback! I do have a killer personality plus I'm a nympho so I think I'm gonna do great!

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoursexyvixenxxx View Post
    Hi Newbie here! I want to KNO if you have to have a kick ass body to escort.
    It helps.

    Do some research. The ones with the better bodies can charge more by default.
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    Default Re: Do you have to have a really great body to escort?

    just because you have a killer personality does not make an excuse why you cant work on your outward appearance. your body is your business in this industry, make some investments in it.

    and why not have both inner beauty and outer beauty instead of just inner beauty? and why are the ones with outer beauty judged? that does not mean she has a bad personality.

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    My name is Brandi Lynn Forever. I am 5 foot 8 inches and I currently weigh 185lbs. If you google "Brandi Lynn" you will find my blog is the first result & if you visit TER (an international Better Business of Sex. I have been retired from Escorting for 4 months and you will find my name still at the top of the list (Columbus, Ohio) with an amazing 77 reviews in just a year and a half. I just recieved another review yesterday which considering its been 4 months is kinda funny. Why do I say this? Am I bragging? No. Because in 50% of the reviews from year one I weighed appx 220lbs and I had & have a noticble pooch from two kids back to back. The reviewers litteraly called me "Big Girl" "Plus-size" & yet said I was their ATf (All time favorite) & pushed me up the ladder to becoming the Highest Publi Reviewed Entertainer in Ohio. With all of the review boards there are only 2 that hate me & 3 that didn't jhave a good time.

    I too have a beautiful face as you do I'm 99% sure & I wear a size 12-14. Muffin tops don't mean your fat. Muffin tops mean you're wearing the wrong close. Here's a trick dear. . . Dresses...dresses & more dresses. Steer clear of Red, Solid White...gray...look, stick to black. Screw prints. Men want to see you in full Boudoir Attire ... Opera Gloves with diamond (or imitation in the begining bracelets on top of them. Do not use body glitter or perfume. You want repeate business.

    If your hotel doesn't cost $100+ per night you're in the wrong place. (I stayed at my hotel for 1.5 years... almost every beeping day but I had a big indoor pool & I rented an Enormous Jacuzzi Apartment suite with an attaching room so my girl could chill.) Hotels hate travelocity & online cheap discount sites and after appx 4 days you start noticing they're not smilling.

    Back to what it takes.

    You must believe you are #1. I did and accomplished it in the first 3 months. I was adding on a reviews almost daily. Why? Because I was confident. Ladies you are your worst critic. Lie to yourself & oie to the customers. Don't ever say "God I'm fat" or "I hate my (This Part)"

    However, I do not wish my fame & fortune (gone by my own choice) on anyone. Because to see the tears streaming down my husbands face as he sobbed after stumbling across my site & my cold heart not feeling anything at that time now haunts me. Even though we are still together we are seperated by this lie. I am now 1 year & 25 days sober of prescription pain killers & ladies I can not escort sober...and I will not kill myself or switch to another worse drug which is infecting the escort community via intrevenious use. The AIDS Virus has now mutated & does not respond well to treatment.

    Read the reviews of these gentleman and read what the do un-protected & where their mouthes have been.

    At the end of the escorting I had lost 60lbs and was considered "Skinny," & felt beautiful & fufilled. I am beautiful & fufilled Without escorting in my life I'm not sure I would have ended up so happy but then again it's like maybe if I hadn't ever tried it I wouldn't know the difference.

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    As a dancer I went through a period where I had gained about 20lbs. I didn't think anyone would be interested in me so I tried really hard to focus on being charming, and I made so much more money. We all like to look at pretty people, but what these guys really want is someone they can have a good time with. Your pretty face is probably the most important thing, and height makes you exotic. Remember that men have different standards for beauty than we do. They don't get as worked up over stretch marks or a little cellulite. Look at all the porn out there, not all of them look like Vivid girls, but they still get watched. As you continue to work out and lose weight you'll make even more money, but you don't have to wait until you reach your ideal to start.
    Personally, I think the motivation to keep in good shape should always be your health, not what anyone else thinks.
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    Default Re: Do you have to have a really great body to escort?

    If you've got a beautiful face you're ahead of the game but don't neglect your body. So get thee to a gym or work out at home. At the higher end clients are paying for an out-of-the-ordinary experience so you need to deliver good looks. That said, your confidence and how you get along with them is absolutely key. If you're hot but bitchy, and you're not marketing as a domme, it won't work. If you can actually connect with the client that'll take you farther than just being physically appealing.

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