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    Hi ladies, I just started camming recently again after working a vanilla job. I made the mistake of quitting and now my rent is due next week. So far this week I have only made about 100 bucks on naked.com and that has taken me about 3 days. I am so frustrated, I have no scanner/printer to sign up for another site at this time. and I really do not know what to do. I am a single mother of 2. I know my landlord may give me an extension but I am limited to the amt of time i can webcam. So far I cam late at night when they are sleeping and I try to cam a couple of hours in the daytime but I am exhausted from camming the night before, so I end up sleeping when I should be camming. I am really depressed and lacking energy and drive. I guess I just need some encouragement. I am a big girl so I don't have tons and tons of traffic on naked and I am getting tired of these men begging and not tipping. I notice some girls put the camera on their boobs and don't even talk in free chat. Does this work for anybody? Any tips on how I can make some money fast with camming? Anything would be helpful. My self esteem is kind of down too, I don't feel pretty anymore. Just all around down.

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    Default Re: Singe mom struggling I need some help

    Quote Originally Posted by Bellabbw View Post
    Hi ladies, I just started camming recently again after working a vanilla job. I made the mistake of quitting and now my rent is due next week. So far this week I have only made about 100 bucks on naked.com and that has taken me about 3 days. I am so frustrated, I have no scanner/printer to sign up for another site at this time. and I really do not know what to do. I am a single mother of 2. I know my landlord may give me an extension but I am limited to the amt of time i can webcam. So far I cam late at night when they are sleeping and I try to cam a couple of hours in the daytime but I am exhausted from camming the night before, so I end up sleeping when I should be camming. I am really depressed and lacking energy and drive. I guess I just need some encouragement. I am a big girl so I don't have tons and tons of traffic on naked and I am getting tired of these men begging and not tipping. I notice some girls put the camera on their boobs and don't even talk in free chat. Does this work for anybody? Any tips on how I can make some money fast with camming? Anything would be helpful. My self esteem is kind of down too, I don't feel pretty anymore. Just all around down.

    Thanks for listening,

    Bella
    You can go to a fedex store and use the internet to print and scan for cheap. You could also try your public library if you email the documents to yourself first so that you don't have to access the cam site directly. My library allows free computer/scanner use and .05 cents per printed page.

    I also suggest you look for another job to supplement your camming income until you are making enough to support yourself by camming alone. A lot of girls make the mistake of quitting their job before they know if camming will work for them... so you aren't alone there. I realize getting a regular job won't solve your immediate problem but it will help overall.

    To answer your question directly, I don't have any advice for naked.com. I have heard the traffic is crap, and I doubt you are going to be able to make a living off that site. I know Streamate is very BBW friendly, I would suggest the methods I said earlier to print and scan the documents so you can work on there along with or instead of naked.

    I am also a mother of 3 and I cam at night when my kids are in bed and now that they are in school I'm having to wake up at 6am every day after camming all night... so I know what it's like. It's hard... but if camming is what you really want to do then you have to just make yourself push through.

    Good luck!
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    One suggestion is for the paperwork, simply go to a library and print the documents. The majority of websites (Streamate included) will accept a clear photograph of the documents; I've used anything from my webcam to my cell phone camera.

    Also, some websites DO support digitally signing documents. These websites are few and spread out, but I do know you can register on xPeeps without ever needing to print, physically sign, or scan any documents. You can simply sign their .PDF digitally and it is sufficient.

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    Public libraries are probably the cheapest place to print anything and like its been mentioned- you cant access cam sites from there so email yourself the docs and print them from there or save them on a flash drive and print from there. Sign them and then take a picture of them and upload them back to the site. along with a clear picture of your ID.

    If youre really tech savvy it is possible to sign your name on a blank piece of paper and then photo shop it into the contract in a program like photofiltre- but youd really have to have experience with cut and pasting documents.

    If you need money now- you can search the forums for PJ daily pay service (try this thread- http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...princessjenny*)

    You could also look into splitcamming to make the time you do cam more efficient. If you splitcam on a site like Webcams.com (they dont have the greatest traffic but they do have a BBW category) and you can set it for prvt chat mode only- so you can pick up extra money that way by running it in the background.

    Try not to get too discouraged. It could just be naked isnt the site for you. Many girls go through lots of sites before they find the right one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bellabbw View Post
    Hi ladies, I just started camming recently again after working a vanilla job. I made the mistake of quitting and now my rent is due next week. So far this week I have only made about 100 bucks on naked.com and that has taken me about 3 days. I am so frustrated, I have no scanner/printer to sign up for another site at this time. and I really do not know what to do. I am a single mother of 2. I know my landlord may give me an extension but I am limited to the amt of time i can webcam. So far I cam late at night when they are sleeping and I try to cam a couple of hours in the daytime but I am exhausted from camming the night before, so I end up sleeping when I should be camming. I am really depressed and lacking energy and drive. I guess I just need some encouragement. I am a big girl so I don't have tons and tons of traffic on naked and I am getting tired of these men begging and not tipping. I notice some girls put the camera on their boobs and don't even talk in free chat. Does this work for anybody? Any tips on how I can make some money fast with camming? Anything would be helpful. My self esteem is kind of down too, I don't feel pretty anymore. Just all around down.

    Thanks for listening,

    Bella
    I know the feeling. I am in exactly the same boat, well was couple of months ago, but you have to and will pull true it. If it means working ALL night with a 3 hour nap during the day... To take control over the situation you are in is 100% up to you. It will not be easy, but you can do it... Just put many many hours on cam, stay positive and motivated...

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    Default Re: Singe mom struggling I need some help

    Personally I could never make it on my naked.com money alone. You need a high traffic site in addition to that where guys will buy (at least in my experience naked has not been that reliable as far as consistent income).

    Since you say that you need the money fast maybe consider signing up to streamate through Jenny's dailypay service? Otherwise it may be a long wait if you have to wait for a check, perhaps wait through a hold period after your Streamate check is deposited to your bank, etc.


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    Like I've read somewhere in this forum. You may not feel pretty, but you definitely are, and there's definitely an audience out there for you. I'm new to this stuff, but I've learned some things while talking to a friend who cams for a living while she's a stay at home mom. As for energy, don't do overly caffeinated energy drinks. You'll crash quickly and feel like crap after. Try something with your vitamin B's in it. Like B12 and stuff. They have new stuff out now you can add to you water with just a little squirt of a bottle. I must say they are quite nice. that will help with your energy. Sarah's right, you might have to find a small part time job to get you by until you can really get into the camming business. My friend says it could literally take a couple months before you get a steady following of custies. That's something I might have to do until I can really start camming. I haven't even been able to start yet because of funds. My internet needs a good update. x-x I wish the best of luck to you hun, I know its not easy, but it will get better with time. Its hard, I know. I might as well be a single parent because the fiance is out all the time trying to scrape up what he can so we can get by. I know exactly what its like to not be able to have some private time because of kids. But I couldn't imagine going through what you are. Alone with two kids and trying to make ends meet. i wish there was something more I could do for you, babe. I really do. I hate seeing people have to go through this.

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    Thank you all for the support and advice,

    I am considering moving to another site and tommorow will be at Fed-ex getting my things printed out and documents ready. I just have to keep moving forward and the only way i am going to make this money is putting in the hours. So I will do what i need to do, thank you all I really appreciate it.

    Bella

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    My local public library blocks access to adult sites, but I've been able to access adult cam sites from a FedEX Kinko's computer.

    Good luck, Bella, and I hope that make lots of money!
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    bella - I remember you posted back in January that you worked for SM but under a studio where you earned 20%. Just a suggestion to start off with - leave your studio? youll be earning way more off of the bat of 35% (unless youre in certain countries)

    Also if youre in the US, your 3week delay for your first paycheck on SM is waived, you can always apply via Vanessa (SM's model recuiter) who can waive it for you as well but Im pretty sure it is instant if youre in the US.





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    Mmmm I've been there before and i'm on 5 sites lol. Your in a difficult situation and I'll keep my fingers crossed for you girly. Once your all settled build a nice nest egg so your ok in case anything comes up =) it's not impossible to make lots of money last minute. I hope SM approves you quickly. Tweeting their model twitter Helps speed up the process a lot. Best luck girly. You can make it happen!


    on a side note, is dancing an option? That's a way to possibly make fast money =/

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    You can withdraw your money daily on Mygirlfund as well. it takes a day or two to set up the direct deposit but as soon as i had mine verified I had only to wait 24-36 hours to receive my cash each time I cashed out. It has been slow for me lately..realllly slow I did REALLy well with my new girl status so try them as that may work to your advantage.

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    I'm going to second Diamond...if dancing is an option, it can be a great way to tide you over when you are first starting out.....

    And other than that, I would just be repeating the others, so here is some straight up encouragement...

    YOU CAN DO THIS! You CAN! It sucks to be tired during the day, but heck, get on, point the cam at your boobs, and treat it like paid-chat-only...and drink liters of coffee!! Get on tired - who cares? You may make extra money anyway...Keep your system set up, and cam every chance you get, even if you only have 20 mins. And take a little time each day to relax, take some deep breaths, and take a walk. You would be amazed at what it can do for your mood.

    Chin up, chest out - you WILL get there!!
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    Thank you all soo much I am super motivated and ready to put in these hours. I am a big girl so dancing is not really an option, they won't hire me anywhere here. But Thank you ladies your support is really appreciated here.

    Bella

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