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    Have you had this happen to you? Show up at client's place, lovely home in a fancy neighborhood. Client's cool and everything looks kosher. Then he says, "Don't mind him, he's just hanging out." I look in the direction he motions and there's this huge guy sitting in an armchair in the darkened corner, about 30 feet away. Can I tell you I damn near have a heart attack?! I take a second to debate hightailing out of there or not. Guy in the corner says he's the bodyguard. He's actually very nice and introduces himself.

    So my client started getting friendly while his bodyguard was still there. It made me uncomfortable and I asked to move somewhere more private. I'm glad things didn't get ugly, but I'd be lying if I didn't admit I was scared for a bit. When time with my client was up, he asked me if I would also hang out with his bodyguard. I couldn't stay then, but I guess if I saw that client again and had more time I'd consider it. Would you accept? It'd be like gaining a new client without having to advertise. How would you handle the screening, since the request was impromptu? PMs always welcome.
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    Um. I would have left. This is how girls get raped and killed. Yes it may be a little extreme but 8/10 times situations like that usually go wrong. Thank your lucky stars he wasn't
    a fucking weirdo.

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    Definitely, I hear you! Was about to turn around and leave but they both reassured me. I'm very thankful it all turned out ok. Also, I always check-in and out with my agency. If I didn't have someone to call I would've left for sure. Not to say that upper-end clients don't do bad things, but I'd hope that they wouldn't want to get in trouble by hurting you.

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    OMG I would have ran out of there or pulled out my pepper spray or something. There's no reason for a guy's bodyguard to be in the room with you, even the president doesn't have guard in the bedroom (I presume!) At the very least, he should have explained the situation to the agency and approved it, and then let you know in advance. That's just weird hun, please be careful! Agency girls who have a call-in can be hurt just as easily as an indy girl. At least if it's just you and the client and something goes wrong then there's only him to deal with. But you Vs the client AND a huge guy. You wouldn't have stood a chance if something had gone wrong. IMO your agency should be blacklisting the client for pulling that shit.


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    Yeah, in retrospect I got really lucky. I should be more paranoid. You just never know, right?

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    same as LovelyMe, I would have left. Anybody in the room has to be verified! You're lucky - did you explain to the client that he should have notified you/your agency beforehand?

    Whether the guy actually was a bodyguard or not, if anybody else is there, I'm getting double my rate or walking out!

    I don't take impromptu clients unless I have more information from a vanilla source - ie, my friend's boyfriend's coworker, yes I'll see him; the guy who owns the high-profile salon I frequent, yes I'll see him; does that make sense?

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    No, I didn't even think of that, but definitely moving forward I will! The bodyguard was technically in a different room (living room) and the client and I were in the kitchen, but it was a big open plan type space. Maybe the client was into being a bit of an exhibitionist, but yeah I said we needed more privacy and we moved.

    I see what you're saying about the vanilla-connection clients. So you're pretty open about being an escort even with your vanilla friends?

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    NO lol I'm not out of the escort closet - only a few people close to me know, but those instances are different; one client had been watching me online for ages, then one day I stepped into his store, he realized it was me based on some of the things I said (my blog and twitter give me away, plus I sorta stick out in my city); another is an escort friend's boyfriend's coworker - the dude doesn't know how our mutual friend knows me, but it's enough of a reference for me to accept

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aether View Post

    I see what you're saying about the vanilla-connection clients. So you're pretty open about being an escort even with your vanilla friends?
    Only a fool would be open with this sort of thing with vanilla friends. They eventually turn on you when they see you are making more money than them / if they're not enjoying the money with you or they will start to judge you and eventually out you. An escort has to be comfortable with living a double life.

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    Sad truth. Did you find the reaction was worse with vanilla males or females or were they equally judgmental? What's your cover story?

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    I haven't told enough to know - but from what I've gathered, women either think it's cool or that you're disgusting; men all just want to fuck you (they already did, but now they want to for free)

    one of my best guy friends can't help it, I feel sorry for him it's not his fault - he's my photographer so he sees me in all states of undress, and we sorta hooked up before I started working, so now it's like unfinished business with him - I know it just kills him, but for the most part he holds it together and is actually a really great support to me.

    Only tell the people you truly really trust, preferably those with no contact or knowledge of your family - your family is who you really want to protect above all else.

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    A secret can be lonely burden, but yeah, it's part of the package working in this business.


    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    Only a fool would be open with this sort of thing with vanilla friends. They eventually turn on you when they see you are making more money than them / if they're not enjoying the money with you or they will start to judge you and eventually out you. An escort has to be comfortable with living a double life.
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    I seriously doubt that was a bodyguard. I bet it just got his nuts off to have another guy listening and they were too cheap to pay for a 2 guy session. Good thing you didn't hang out with his friend at the end or their little plan would've worked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yellowrose25 View Post
    I seriously doubt that was a bodyguard. I bet it just got his nuts off to have another guy listening and they were too cheap to pay for a 2 guy session. Good thing you didn't hang out with his friend at the end or their little plan would've worked.
    Could've been a friend, yeah. The 2nd guy was going to pay, of course, but I couldn't stay and felt weird being "offered" like that with no prior notice.

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    I think you should have taken the money and entertained the other guy.

    I mean if you've already risked you safety and stayed while the other guy was jerking off in the next room, you might as well have stayed and gotten a bigger reward. lol

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    He wasn't jerking off!

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    There were well-behaved, thankfully. But yeah, I was kind of worried.

    Quote Originally Posted by teaze View Post
    That's very scary!! How could a guy assume a provider would be okay with springing this situation on them. I would've freaked out and ran.

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