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    Default Re: Asking a regular for money OTC

    Don't

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    Default Re: Asking a regular for money OTC

    I'd just try to remember this may change your relationship for better or worse. If you're comfortable with him though, and you'd genuinely consider him a friend anyways maybe do it but just make sure he isn't expecting more than you're willing to give. I hope you feel better!

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    Default Re: Asking a regular for money OTC

    there's a fundamental issue at stake here ...

    Up to now, ALL of the 'outreach' has been on the part of your customer. All of the cash / gift / perk exchanges have been 'unsolicited'. The extent of 'active' involvement on your part has been to ask this customer to come to the club when you are there ... which you stated that the customer 'likes'. This, in combination with his 'just ask if you need anything' comment, might tend to indicate that this customer is seeking to cultivate a dependence on your part. Actually making a specific request for financial help while you are unable to work would definitely cross a 'dotted line', arguably placing you 'indebted' to this customer.

    Granted that there is nothing inherently wrong about girls making specific requests for money from regular customers. Indeed the whole 'sugar daddy' business model is based on that. But it inarguably creates a situation where the girl becomes 'indebted' ... and where, by some means or another, the customer can attempt to collect 'payment in kind'. If you're comfortable with that scenario, more power to you. But if you wish to maintain your independence and freedom from 'debt', that's not likely to happen.

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    Default Re: Asking a regular for money OTC

    We met for tea this morning and he asked if I was thinking about going back to work. I told him that I think about it all the time, but that I can't risk it. He hinted that I should ask him for money so that I don't have to work. I said, you know me, I'm not going to ask. He said, well, I am just going to have to give you it in a present then.

    Thanks for the advice ladies. I actually read your responses when I came home from meeting with him. But, asking for money OTC is not who I am. This customer is a friend for life. I respect him. I am not a beggar. And I want him to always respect me.

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    ^^^ well 'played' !

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