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    Default "...and I hated free chat so much"

    ..seems to be a popular sentence lately.

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I personally don't mind free chat within reasons.
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I think you should be able to opt in opt out. I USED to think "oh I don't mind free chat because I do fetishes and these guys need to know I'm legit" but nope. Maybe 1/50 of the guys on Streamate who take me private try and talk to me in free chat. The other 98% just goes private without a word. So it seems that for me, if a guy is going to go private, he doesn't need to see me talking to randoms in free to make that choice.
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I'd like it if there was a time limit to free chat. On AW I have it set to 5 minutes. That's all they need to see me and how good my stream and audio are.
    I find that alot of girls are using free chat like it's their reality show now so the guys are expecting to come in and be entertained and talked to and just hang out.


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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I don't mind free chat if the guys would just use it as free chat.....Like it should be a place where the guy can make sure he like the girl personality and it is the same girl in the photo.... also to ask question about a show....

    There is nothing that I hate more then getting into a show and having a guy ask for something that I do not do..

    I don't think free chat should be used to tease the guy or get them hard before a show.... I don;t think free chat in itself is about thing but I do think that it was gone way to far.

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    lol holly that was funny
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    yes i agree! esp for splitcamming purposes too, if i go prvt on another site with a guy, it would be nice to be able to click the button on my other site to automatically put me in prvt mode so guys can peep in on me while im in my other prvt. not all sites do this unfortunately, but they all should cuz we all have different camming styles and it would be nice for all the sites to cater to them and they would also make more money.

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I am a sucker for people...
    I love people...
    Even the dumb ones.
    Lately Im having SO much fun with the free chat.
    this guys comes in and says " ass ass ass" in 1 line.
    I say" is this your first, middle and last name? well, nice to meet u ass ass ass, how are you"
    Then he says " lol, sorry"...

    I cant say I ever hated free chat, I can say I might have disliked it at times...and all the drama that comes with it.
    I think it should NOT be mandatory for sure....
    But the truth is ( the way I see it) that we need free chat to get traffic.
    Last edited by Fridays; 09-03-2012 at 10:51 AM.

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I agree with Fridays.

    I voted for it being up to the site to decide. It's their site... you don't HAVE to work on it. If someone hates free chat, find a site without it. That's your choice.
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    Ehhhh I picked the who cares/whatever option. As much as it is annoying, mostly with the beggars/trolls, I do think freechat is important.
    Let's face it. A lot of girls do NOT look like their profile picture lol, plus a lot of guys want to get a feel for the chicks personality beforehand. A girl could be GORGEOUS but if she is angry/in a bad mood it is a turn off and totally overtakes however she looks. So yeah I totally understand WHY freechat exists, though I do think it is abused by the members at times...
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    It would be fine if there was a idiot detected software and kick them before they can type... I agree we do need it to sell ourselves.

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    It should be an option. It does help to bring in more people though. It isn't always bad other than having to sit there and look pretty the ENTIRE time. I try to make it fun, I love the jerks and the pervs that come in and beg me or ask me to do favors for free. I spend about all of my time ripping them to shreds and making the rest of my room laugh at them until they get mad and leave. Try that out.

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    Quote Originally Posted by NewCamGirl1 View Post
    It should be an option. It does help to bring in more people though. It isn't always bad other than having to sit there and look pretty the ENTIRE time. I try to make it fun, I love the jerks and the pervs that come in and beg me or ask me to do favors for free. I spend about all of my time ripping them to shreds and making the rest of my room laugh at them until they get mad and leave. Try that out.
    here is the thing..
    with or without mask, some(most) of us will end on the tube sites..
    The more interesting you are.. the crazier the things you do/say, the more chances someone will record your feed and post it on sites that are built especially for this *fucked-up* shit...
    Recently there was a thread about a model who freaked out on cam while showing her face..
    Now if you like to " rip them to shreds" - you are not safe either.

    The more you want to attack people online, the more they will attack you back.
    It NEVER works.
    you can NOT win this war.
    And it seems all good fun but besides the fact that you are wasting your time because you can not win over hundreds of people who decide to troll your room, you are loosing $ too..
    So all in all being this way does nothing good.
    You can get a laugh out of it, but trust me you dont want to know how it is to get trolls constantly.
    And it seems to me that your " attitude" might attract just that.....

    Or maybe im wrong.....

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    free chat sucks in every aspect except a boredom breaker when you can think of absolutely NOTHING else to do! It doesn't result in more/ extra shows, so i really don't see the point other than to gain the site new customers/ repeat freeloaders, plus it's tedious, tiring, and just downright demeaning. I'm fucking Hawt goddammit, pay me, or get the hell out of here, I'm not gonna sit and entertain you for free! That's what pictures, teaser vids, and even "happy hours" are for.
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    Unfortunately for me I do earn more when I do free chat...when I'm in mood for it and I'm busy it's fine and keeps me in the zone, otherwise it just drains my energy and I'm not there to be abused or entertain for free. Fortunately I'm on AW so I can do it as and when I feel like it, I couldn't handle continuous free.
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    How do you know you earn more hun?
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I tried non-free for a week at a time of the month that should have been busy and I made significantly less...I also have a lot more profile hits when I do free chat. Some guys come straight into a show but I get a lot from free chatters too, and you could say they would have had a show anyway but that really isn't always the case.
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I voted that free chat should be an option and not a requirement.
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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I personally think we should be granted an option to be able to switch back and fourth without having to log off. When we get overloaded and overstressed by freeloaders, teenagers and guys who think we are there to be their friend/babysitter, it would be nice to not have to kick, ban or verbally address the issue. A gentle reminder via notation, "This performers live stream can be seen in private chat", while leaving the text portion available would make for a lot of happier, refreshed and friendlier performers.

    To be able to to return to free chat once the wave of stress makers have left the chat I think is much more effective than having to force the performer to be both the talent and the business end while on cam. If there is one thing I am tired of doing is having to remind these guys that I am on a pay per view website or that what they are asking from me is a paid service. I often ignore these guys but there are times when I am so frustrated that I do start saying it. We shouldn't have to be put in such a position. Just my opinion.

    I can tell you this, I am definitely going back into hiding. I have disabled the TV requests, disabled non-credit card carriers from entering my chat room and have reinstated my blocked zones. I've had it with the abuse, especially after having received a $60 offer from the producer after having done a $90 show earlier in the day without any contributions from him, and successfully meeting $150 on my own without the TV side of it.

    It's not just the jerks that have doubled in number in my free chat (with it enabled) but the f'cking ridiculously degrading & stupid e-mails as well.

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    It works for me. It draws in a ton of men who like to be abused I don't have time to be nice to the beggars. I won't jump through hoops to try to make them pay me. I don't think it would work for a lot of cam girls unless they are into being a dom. I worked as a dom on IMlive for a while so if you are trying to be full on vanilla it probably will turn those guys off.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lusty Laken View Post
    That's terrible advice to give any cam girl who is reading the forum. ^I don't advise anyone to try this.

    ..... Instead of making these guys angry, it's best to convert them into customers and long-term regulars. Most of the time, 'Beggars' will spend money. It's just up to you to give him a reason to. Don't fulfill his free request, but sell him a private show.

    I have a philosophy: Talk and flirt with the beggars and ignore the nice guys. The nice guys will rarely ever buy. The ones who do, they are sold anyway. Some of the quiet ones are usually sold eventually. If they are in your room, begging or asking, they are interested in YOU. The beggars are the challenge to convert, but end up being the biggest spenders over time.

    On the topic: I have a ton of amazing regulars, and I know that I would have never acquired them without free chat.

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    Quote Originally Posted by NewCamGirl1 View Post
    It works for me. It draws in a ton of men who like to be abused I don't have time to be nice to the beggars. I won't jump through hoops to try to make them pay me. I don't think it would work for a lot of cam girls unless they are into being a dom. I worked as a dom on IMlive for a while so if you are trying to be full on vanilla it probably will turn those guys off.
    ok ok.. lol

    you are camming for fun.
    most are camming for money.


    fun ladies and money ladies...

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    Quote Originally Posted by NewCamGirl1 View Post
    It works for me. It draws in a ton of men who like to be abused I don't have time to be nice to the beggars. I won't jump through hoops to try to make them pay me. I don't think it would work for a lot of cam girls unless they are into being a dom. I worked as a dom on IMlive for a while so if you are trying to be full on vanilla it probably will turn those guys off.
    I think it depends on the performer. I can't say I would abuse the guys in free chat but I am without a doubt not very nice at times and I have a very cool following as a result. Half of them are subs, the other half just like the fact that I don't take any shit. LustyLaken on the other hand is much softer. She presents herself as a southern belle which is something I could never do.

    I think we all just need to respect that we are different and different things work for different performers. If you don't have a, "bad girl" style I certainly wouldn't recommend trying to be mean... actually, I would LOL. I think it would be quite refreshing LOL

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    Default Re: "...and I hated free chat so much"

    I use gold shows as an in between. The bulk of my pay is from private chats. I was hoping to take advantage of the, "new medium" thing but it's clearly not for me in more ways than one.

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