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    Default Re: Do you get angry when a guy doesn't get dances with you but does with someone els

    Hustlers understand that part of the game is being rejected. Actually, a LOT of the game is being rejected. I've never felt unattractive because someone didn't want a dance with me and I probably never will.

    On to the next... if you are not spending money on me you are certainly no big deal to me and I'll probably forget about you the minute I turn around. Oh, look, my regular who likes to spend $500 on me for a 30 minute convo just walked in...

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    Default Re: Do you get angry when a guy doesn't get dances with you but does with someone els

    Im a newbie, and the other night a more experienced dancer walked up and just snatched this guy I was talking to with a one liner. For a few mins, my ego was bruised, buy more than anything, Im taking notes LOL! As somekne new, I feel like Im boumd to make a lot of mistakes. I just started at a club (in Jan) and its been pitifully slow, with lots of broke mfs just wanting to drink beer amd enjoy the eye candy. Ugh. So Ive been chatting with guys longer tham I normally would and doing sort of a soft sell. It also seems like a pretty high mileage club, and I have different boundaries than a lot of the girls. I get annoyed when I see dancers doing lap dances at the stage, because why would anyone bother paying for a real dance when they can get the same treatment for $10 at the rail?! That does get me. This dancer who swooped in on me is a blonde and has a really cute boob job and now Im under her spell too LOL! Im excited to try some new tricks tonight and work on a quicker sale to seem more "in demand" instead of chatting with guys in the hopes that someone in the dead club will pay me.

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    Default Re: Do you get angry when a guy doesn't get dances with you but does with someone els

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    Really? I may be going out on a limb here but it seems to me that anyone can be self conscious especially in difficult or uncomfortable situation. Maybe you could show up for work in your underwear and try to do your job without being a little self conscious. Oh, and you don't get to just stand there either. You have to walk around and ask total strangers to spend money on you while they are groping at you...

    ... <snip ...> there will never be a shortage of guys who make a dancer wonder if she will get through the night without wanting to slug some time-wasting loser.
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    Default Re: Do you get angry when a guy doesn't get dances with you but does with someone els

    Speaking as a guy here who has worked with and dated many adult entertainers.

    It’s one of the most difficult things any of my friends have ever had to do but you can’t look at yourself as a person whether or not they’re deciding to dance with you.

    By that I mean it’s a sales transaction you have the product they either want the product or they don’t. Or you can give them a reason to change their mind

    Please don’t get angry or sad or depressed or feel a damn thing

    It’s as if you were the sales person for Lamborghini and some buyers like Ferraris. There’s no point in getting angry

    you’re still awesome it’s just not their choice today

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