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    I'm at the end of my rope here. I'm 2 months pregnant, and pretty much screwed. My bf who got me preggo kicked me out, thus, leaving me with no where to go, no internet to work off of, nothing. I've been calling around to these studios, in hopes that one would relocate me for the sake of working, which I plan on doing extensively. I need to get as much cash together being that I'm going to be a single mom. I'm really dreading the idea of dealing with another studio, theyre all snakes but I have no where to turn... would any of you gals know of any studios who arent totally horrible that may have a physical location I could work from at least till I get on my feet or finish carrying my pregnancy. I also know that as soon as I start showing, I'm gonna be more in the fetish niche, and thats gonna boost my earning potential, and I dont want to miss out on this, as there are no jobs in my area. Especially ones thatll hire me as a pregnant woman. I even got turned down by the studio in my own town. Saying they dont want to have the liability of a pregnant girl... that was a big shootdown. Especially considering my situation. I'm seriously freaking out right now. I've never been at such a low point in my life, and never expected to experience such hardhsip during my pregnancy.. I need tips ladies because this is the biggest struggle ever. I'm seriously crying my eyes out right now, to people who dont know me from adam.. and it's the most worthless feeling ever... so if you have any ideas, tips, solutions, or whatever, please feel free to send your feedback. Thank you and have a great day

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    If I were you this is what I'd do.

    Any family? Parents? You need a roof over your head, forget camming that's the LAST thing you should worry about. If maybe you and your parents have fallen out, swallow your pride, go home. If that's NOT an option you need to go to a church, or anywhere locally that can hook you up. Get a medical card for you and your baby, get food stamps for you and your baby so you can eat even without a job. That should be your first step TOMORROW if you don't have one. You can also see about section 8 housing.

    Now, you get a job somewhere like a store or McDonalds or anywhere. Don't tell them you are pregnant, you are not required to. If you want to strip, go to a club, get a job. I have seen pregnant strippers and they do make money. But honestly, camming since you don't have a home, internet, or a PC is so far out of your reach right now it's not even an option so don't even think about it.

    And also, if you are having to rely on your boyfriend to the point that he has the power to kick you out and you have NOTHING, you need to re evaluate your priorities in life. Every woman needs a plan and never needs to rely on a man or a woman so much that if things don't work, they have nothing. If I were you, honestly, when you get settled, I'd go to college. A girl in your situation, once you get a stable home and a job can get college paid for free. And then you can get out of camming, get a job that makes you more money unless you are a super serious and super high profile cam girl and no man can ever kick you out like this ever again. You can kick them out! This is my honest advice, because I do think that an education is the key to stopping poverty and keeping women out of your situation.

    Good luck. But be sure you get some food stamps and medical care for your baby and anything else us taxpayers can give you. That's what it's for and you use it. And seriously, any man who kicks his pregnant girlfriend out knowing she has nowhere to go needs to be smacked. You might go back to him, and that's none of my business, but I'm telling you I wouldn't go back to him. When that baby is born I'd slap him with a child support case, he can get a paternity test if he wishes, and go find a man who will treat you decently. I don't care if you did something to make him want to kick you out, you do not kick out another human being from your home whom is carrying a baby unless they have somewhere to go. Not unless they are seriously harming your household.

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    Yes, get all the public assistance you can. There is absolutely nothing shameful about getting help when you need it. And DON'T go back to your boyfriend no matter how tempting it is, how much he says he's sorry, or how much it seems like the only option. If you let him be your only option, he will always be your only option. If he put you out to starve once, he will do it again. If he's that low of a man and has that little respect for women and his family, what could he teach his child anyway? Be ruthlessly and unapologetically strong. The next time you contact him should be when you're putting him on child support. Don't feel bad about needing government help now because you WON'T need help forever. When you do get a job you'll be paying taxes so you'll be 'paying it forward' by contributing to programs helping future people in need. Also, you can call 211 to find out about charities that help pregnant women. Good luck!

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    get in a shelter and get section 8 since you are homeless and pregnant they will put you at the top of the list. You have to put camming on the back burner until you get you life straight.

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    This is certainly tough, babe, but try not to panic or do everything at once and get too overwhelmed. You need to think clearly, and in steps. This is definitely fixable. First, you need food and shelter. Focus on that first. Don't worry about work right this second, because that is easily resolved once you are housed. Do like the other ladies said- go ASAP to the government assistance office, that is what they're there for and please don't be ashamed. They should have emergency assistance. Since you are pregnant, they will definitely help you. After you get the housing and food squared away, your work situation will fall right into place, since it seems you are an established cam girl already. See if you can message your regulars somehow, tell them what happened. You may find they want to help, too. The way I see it, after you take care of housing, you will be golden
    I think you can turn this around quick, quicker than you think. And I'll second NewCamGirl- please do not go back with this guy. Any guy who would kick out his pregnant girlfriend is not someone who deserves you, or your child. That is basically unforgivable and I'm sorry he did that

    But really sweetie, I've been in a pretty deep hole myself before, and I feel your pain. I know that when that little bundle gets here, you will look back on this crisis and see how far you went from this moment. Congratulations on your baby! Make sure that when they get here, you can show them a STRONG mama bear. You can do it! You're down, but not out girl! I bet it would take more than some douche to break you. You got this!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms.Lacey View Post
    get in a shelter and get section 8 since you are homeless and pregnant they will put you at the top of the list. You have to put camming on the back burner until you get you life straight.
    Yes, assuming that you live in the U.S. and are legally a citizen, definitely take advantage of this and get the help that you need right now.

    After you get situated you can think about camming and getting off the extra aid but right now you at least have to survive!


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    I'm sorry you are having to deal with this! Take a deep breath and take these girl's advice seriously. You can do this!
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    How can you post if you have no internet?
    If i would be on the street right now, my last thought would be to come here and post, and read answers on SW

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    NewCam girl is a genius. A1 answer there.Also, what busygirl said-I'm assuming you've found an internet cafe or something...
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    Wifi signals are pretty easy to find in the city I live in. and, I'm in the united states. Florida. I'm certainly not on the streets, however, staying with friends is a real bind. I hate being a bother. And I'd never let these friends of mine know I was camming. Hence the reason why I was seeking a location to work from. However, I've taken into consideration my options, or lack thereof. And it seems like I'm back up against a wall, so I really have no choice but to seek out non-adult related employment for the time being. Which isnt hard, I do have my options employmentwise. There's plenty of phone rooms I can work in in my city till I get back on my feet, not to mention 1 that I still have a repore with after working there previously. As for the ex boyfriend who kicked me out, yes, i naturally still have feelings for him. But, I'm with you guys, he'd only do this to me again, and his child. He's even at the point of trying to deny, as if I'm the kind of girl that goes around and has unprotected sex while in an exclusive relationship. So, I doubt he'll come crawling back. He's done with me, so you guys dont have to worry about me giving in, as there's sure to be no chance of there being an opportunity. I know that camming isnt gonna help me get out of this situation, and throwing myself out there dealing with a studio is just crazy. I'm just spoiled from the income I generated being a cam model. Though mediocre compared to some success stories I've heard, still generating a more vast income, nonetheless. But, I'm also enticed by the lucrative income I've heard that pregnant webcam modeling generates. I am aware that the numbers have their ups and downs depending on the stage of the pregnancy, and it quite possibly may not be all that its cracked up to be. However, I've heard that the income of a pregnant model is nearly triple the amount of an average one at times. And all sorts of other perks (placement in the website, availability in a niche column, etc.) Apologies for getting a little off topic here, but was wondering which server would be the best one to go with in the pregnant cam modeling gig? I'm already on streamate. Would naked or MFC be good for such a niche? What about livejasmin? I'm afraid to sign up for them because Ive heard that you dont make good money at all with them. And then I've heard alot of positive things as well, yet few and far between. I've also heard about this clips4sale thing and how it does well for pregnant models? I've got a heap of questions about clips4sale. Like, if I put videos of me on clips4sale, do I have to worry about some wierdo trying to upload them to redtube or something? Or any other website? What is the normal charge per video and what percentage does the model get? I apologize for the trillions of questions. I'm only asking these things for future reference. I'm not even showing so even making an attempt at pregnant cam modeling at this time would be a fruitless effort.

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