What do you tell girls who ask you about stripping IRL/ OTC, ones who are interested in trying it out and are asking for your advice and expertise?
Lately I've been being honest when people ask me "what do you do" or "what have you been up to lately"?
I tell them what's on my mind, and a few women have asked me a little more about it.
I feel OK answering specific questions as frankly as I can, but after 4 years of doing this, I'm definitely not psyched or enthusiastic. I used to be able to talk more about it, I could go on about the empowerment and all the perks, etc.
It used to be exciting if a girl-friend was thinking about joining me, but after working with a friend who was a dancer, and another friend who auditioned and was rejected, I would rather keep my distance in order to keep my sanity.
On one hand, I want to be supportive if a girl wants to do it and has no one else to talk to about stuff that comes up... because it can be really hard at times...
I'd want to direct them to Stripperweb, too.
But on the other hand, I don't want to be responsible or involved if and when shit hits the fan (and god knows it tends to).
I try keeping my stories limited between average-to-moderately-bad... nothing too horrible/traumatic, but I don't talk about the best days either.
I don't want girls thinking either...
A) all clubs are dirty places where druggies serve extras to violent creeps, or
B) they can make $1000 per shift with just a bikini, a smile, and a "positive mindset."



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