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    ever wonder what things like trips to the supermarket and the gym would be like if we wore t shirt telling who we are in the adult world?

    I just got back from the gym, where I took my bike and the bus too and from. totally normal around here, I live in a big city with a elaborate public transit system that I can ride from free. So I take advantage.
    The bike ride back and forth to the bus stop is extra exercise, and that's a good thing.

    I got on the bus and the front seat were pretty full, and I didn't want to ask a older woman to move over to make room for me. She looked pretty tired. So I saw a empty seat by the isle, and asked the guy sitting near it if I could slide in. He gave me a look like I had three heads and moved over a bit.
    his friend across the isle had apparently been talking to him and I guess they felt it made more sense take up around 4 seats all sparwled out then just sit together and take up 2.

    He friend started telling the guy I was next to "damn! can't believe the nerve of some people just comming along and sitting down!" then tried to bring me into it by asking "are you comfortable?" it's a public BUS! the seats are there for anyone, geez! these twits were acting like bullies from the school busses I rode when I was in grade school! acting like they own the things!

    I ignored them, but the whole ride I kept smirking and laughing in my head about how funny it would be if they were one of the many guys that pay me per minute for the honor of being in my company and worshiping me!

    I SO wish I hadn't been riding alone! had I been riding with someone else to make sure I got home OK, I would have exited the bus telling just how honored they were to sit next to me, then tell them something like my screen name and web site, "look me up!" then blow them a kiss!
    that's my thing on line, to play it up that I am the goddess of all that is sensual in the world, and that anyone who has the honor of being in my room needs to know just how lucky they are!

    I do wonder sometimes how things would be if I took that attitude while going to the market, or wore the same swimsuit in the gym hot tub that I am paid to wear on line?

    even wonder about this sort of thing?????


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    Default Re: the irony of living in the real world! long vent

    I don't have much camming experience yet but those guys are clearly total dickwads! They should be shamed treating a woman that way.

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    Default Re: the irony of living in the real world! long vent

    People in society are getting more and more rude. They could not have been more in the wrong. The bus fare entitles you to 1 seat if they are available. Not to be sprawled out and taking up 2 or 3 seats.

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    I honestly don't like people that much outside of work. I haven't thought much about it.
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    I an much nicer on cam (and on this forum) than I am in real life. I wouldn't say i'm a total bitch but let's just say what those guys said to you on the bus would have NEVER happened to me . On cam, I have the whole goddess thing going on in my head but it's still my job so I don't want to be a total bitch. But yeah in real life, I don't play around.

    if playing up your cam persona helps you feel more confident in everyday life then go for it. You don't have to take anyone's crap EVER!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Avamonet View Post
    I an much nicer on cam (and on this forum) than I am in real life. I wouldn't say i'm a total bitch but let's just say what those guys said to you on the bus would gave NEVER happened to me . On cam, I have the whole goddess thing going on in my head but its still my job so I don't want to be a total bitch. But yeah in real life, I don't play around.

    if playing up your cam persona helps you feel more confident in everyday life then go for it. You don't have to take anyone's crap EVER!!!
    First and foremost I want to say to the OP how sorry I am that you felt harassed. It's not a good feeling and kudos to you for staying your course (hugs)

    That said, LOL @ Avamonet. I am your opposite. I am much meaner here and on cam than I am in my real life. I am what is known as a shrinking violet when it comes to confrontation. I know there is a saying about courage and the anonymous internet but I chalk it up to safety first. I know I'm not going to be stabbed or shot at in a forum or while I am on cam so it allows me the courage so "say what I really mean", an ability I absolutely lack in my real life

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    I'm with cvarge on this one. If you are mean to me, I am a TOTAL. BITCH. ON. CAM. In real life I am so sweet and nice and shy When my bf cams with me I have to "tone it down" on the bitchy factor. It comes through sometimes in front of him and the look in his eye... "did you just say that?" haha yeah. I did.

    And a few times I caught myself channelling my camming persona in RL. It felt... great, actually.

    Do you feel like the part of your 'camming persona' is actually the traits that you are not showing fully in RL? When I take a break from camming for a few days, I crave to be back online. My camming persona is opposite of what I am in RL. And yet its not totally fake.

    Or when I used to pick up guys at a bar... I would think in my head "OMG, there are literally THOUSANDS of guys who want to be you right now"

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    I think it would be interesting... but i think most people are so jaded by the real world that they wont give a shit...
    I think my bank tellers would be the ones to ask me whats about...
    u know what I mean..
    I see them eye balling my checks every time I go there..

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    The same way I act online/cam is basically the same way I act in real life ( to some degree)....I don't like drama/arguing....I am a more of a either lets be rational and talk like we got some sense if we want to debate/discuss it or just drop the whole damn issue and agree to disagree.....If we start getting into heated yelling wars,arguing, and what not that means we have reached a point where words or not needed and we need to be in the boxing ring throwing blows because talking about it is out the window and I try not to get to that point for the most part.

    But for those guys on the bus....I probably would have looked at him back with a "what the fuck you thinking?" type of look and said "Damn, the nerves of some people thinking they own a bus seat when they're riding this m%&%^f*&^% just like me."

    Pfft, He had some damn nerves...LOL And @ the whole comfortable remark he wanted to be a smart ass about....I would have politely told him " If I was not comfortable, I would get comfortable"....


    People kills me sometimes..Just being rude for the sake of being rude...No manners what-so-ever! But knowing me I probably would say something smart back but drop it after that just to keep peace. "Ion even want any violence"..lol But sometimes saying nothing and just ignoring works too because ignorant illogical mofos like that are already drove for having that thinking...smh
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    rude ass fucktards! i bet they the show ass bb in free chat types
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    Quote Originally Posted by Superwoman1989 View Post
    ever wonder what things like trips to the supermarket and the gym would be like if we wore t shirt telling who we are in the adult world?
    No one would care. Really, I doubt my neighbors care what I do in my home. And if they do, that's not my problem. I wear shirts all the time that are politically more of a fire starter than if I wore a shirt that said "cam girl".

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    Ever time I see an older dude out in public I automatically visualize a cam customer with his cam on blowing kisses at me while masturbating vigorously...makes me giggle.

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    Ugh hate people like that. Some random guy was hassling me the other day and I may have written a bitchy-ranty blog post about it :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by Superwoman1989 View Post
    ever wonder what things like trips to the supermarket and the gym would be like if we wore t shirt telling who we are in the adult world?

    I just got back from the gym, where I took my bike and the bus too and from. totally normal around here, I live in a big city with a elaborate public transit system that I can ride from free. So I take advantage.
    The bike ride back and forth to the bus stop is extra exercise, and that's a good thing.

    I got on the bus and the front seat were pretty full, and I didn't want to ask a older woman to move over to make room for me. She looked pretty tired. So I saw a empty seat by the isle, and asked the guy sitting near it if I could slide in. He gave me a look like I had three heads and moved over a bit.
    his friend across the isle had apparently been talking to him and I guess they felt it made more sense take up around 4 seats all sparwled out then just sit together and take up 2.

    He friend started telling the guy I was next to "damn! can't believe the nerve of some people just comming along and sitting down!" then tried to bring me into it by asking "are you comfortable?" it's a public BUS! the seats are there for anyone, geez! these twits were acting like bullies from the school busses I rode when I was in grade school! acting like they own the things!

    I ignored them, but the whole ride I kept smirking and laughing in my head about how funny it would be if they were one of the many guys that pay me per minute for the honor of being in my company and worshiping me!

    LOL. Yeah, if those same guys had been fans of yours from MyFreeCams or Streamate (or whatever site you cam on), they would've been like "OOH, BB...SIT HERE! SIT RIGHT HERE NEXT TO MEEEEE!!!"

    And people who take up so much room on the bus as if they own the place are ANNOYING as hell.

    A while back I got on a bus which was full, so I had to sit next to this guy. The woman sitting BEHIND him gave him a dirty look and made a smartass comment to him (apparently she was his girlfriend), and I was like "My bad...I didn't know y'all were together...do you wanna switch seats?" This bitch said to me "No, you just turn right back around." LMAO. I told the bitch to lose the attitude 'cuz I was trying to help HER out. Maybe her nasty-ass attitude was the reason that she was sitting back there instead of next to her man, and he was up there rolling his eyes 'cuz he was clearly annoyed by her. Poor guy. I don't know why men stay with women like that...she must suck a mean dick or something...LOL.
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