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    Default Auditioned....made it....now need advice!

    yay! I made it. Where was scared out of my mind while auditioning! the stage was slippery and I was scared to stand up because of it. I have to buy some pads to put on the bottom of my shoes or something.

    Okay, so i made a really embarassing mistake while dancing...... I was up on stage, some of the guys that were sitting there had some stacks of money built one on top of another. Kind of like building houses. So they do that so that you know to go over there to dance for them. I got that part. However, I did not sweep the money onto my stage because i didn't know you could do that if they were on the padding..... haha
    how embarassing! they probably thought i just liked dancing for free!! LOL.
    but hey i got some money.
    I moved around too much to different people. but now that i know the thing about the "money houses" i know what to do . spend some time in front of them dancing, look around to see if anyone else is interested and dance for them.
    Oh, and eye contact. do guys like the eye contact? some of them sitting at the stage.... i tried making eye contact and they looked away so it made me think they werent interested.
    so that kind of threw me off.....

    I haven't gone out on the floor yet and talked to people yet. i am not sure how to do that! i guess just go up and talk for a moment... .and then eventually ask if they want a dance? lol.
    Well, any advice would be great. some of the girls in the locker room were nice, i enjoyed that
    i work tonight.... nervous! but, excited.
    OH, i have my nipples pierced.... i have glow in the dark ones, but they dont even glow in the club. so i am going to change them. i want to go back to horseshoes, but i think barbells are more classy? should I just go back to standard barbells then? the silver? or black or whatever. or do you think horseshoes piercings are okay?

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Auditioned....made it....now need advice!

    Eye contact is very important because it sort of hypnotizes a man into believing that you want him. Also in time you'll learn how to read the customers and the crowd; for example when you are on the floor and if it's slow and a guy seems interested you might want to spend a little bit of time talking to him before you ask him for a dance, he may even get multiple dances or a VIP room. If it's busy I would'nt spend more than two songs max talking before asking him for a dance not unless he's tipping you big money while talking or you've seen him do rooms with other girls. Sometimes it's a gamble but you'll have to learn how to use your intuition. Also in time you have your own style of working.

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    Default Re: Auditioned....made it....now need advice!

    Thanks girl, i appreciate that deff helps!

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    Default Re: Auditioned....made it....now need advice!

    I'm a newbie too.. Just wanted to say congrats

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    Default Re: Auditioned....made it....now need advice!

    Congratulations on getting hired!

    Eye contact is very important in the club. The customers that turn and look away are either socially awkward or not interested. It's still wise to approach them after your stage set as the former can be hustled. Most guys really dig eye contact though, especially since so many girls just look at themselves in the mirror or stare off into space when they're on stage. Just chat for a song or two (try and keep the conversation close to dancing so it's not awkward to close the sale, but for now, small talk will suffice as you get comfortable with approaching and talking) and then ask if they're ready for a lap dance. If they say no, wish them a happy evening and to come find you if they change their mind.

    As for your nipple piercings, just wear whatever makes you comfortable. That's such a minor detail that a barbell vs. a horseshoe isn't going to make the difference between making a sale or not. Not sure of the contact rules in your club, but barbells might be safer as horseshoes can easily snag or be pulled though.

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    Default Re: Auditioned....made it....now need advice!

    Don't think I've ever seen the 'money houses' thing, but I have always been careful w/ just taking from a stack of money a guy has sitting on the rail unless he gives sm indication that it is for me. As a brand new dancer I had it happen once where after dancing for a guy at my rail, I slid a few $1s from the top of his stack & was abt to be on my merry topless way when he grabbed my wrist, pulled me down & threatened to break my hand if I ever tried smtg like that again. Maybe not the brightest idea to begin w/, but that certainly made an impression. That was the kind of crowd at that club tho, so I didn't stay there long.

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